Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

it seems like every one is leaving in my life, my parents are getting a divorce, and my mom has a tumor. my sister and my mom fight a lot and my dad dosent like to get into it. at night i hear my mom talking to her friends on the phone saying how my dad never does anything and how my sister disrespects her, they both complain to me and think i know the answers. i don't want to move out of my house i like it here. my moms moving out really soon and wants me to go with her. and to make matters worse my grandfather just passed away and my grandmother just admitted to the hospital this thanksgiving. i try to put on a smile to cover everything up and make it seem like its all okay. but its not working anymore. i seriously don't know what to do anymore. help?

2007-12-01 13:18:32 · 16 answers · asked by Sara C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok.Right now,my ex and i aren't speaking.She called me yesturday,and didn't say anything.If I call her back,I would be giving in.If I don't call,I would be showing who has control in the relationship.What should I do?

2007-12-01 13:17:10 · 15 answers · asked by josh 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 13:15:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 13:14:37 · 11 answers · asked by Robert 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 13:13:46 · 12 answers · asked by Robert B 2 in Family

I am just curious to what yall thought about military wives.

2007-12-01 13:13:30 · 19 answers · asked by Lizzy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im marrying him this 30th of december.. can you guys tell me what you think, any experiences regarding this??

i know its short time... but i absolutely know he is the one

2007-12-01 13:13:09 · 23 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think about marriage and would ever get married

2007-12-01 13:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by Tw0 MiScarriage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i'm 15 and i like this guy, his name is james and he has been my friend sence we where 3 and i just don't know how to tell him i like him!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please help!!!!!

2007-12-01 13:10:05 · 7 answers · asked by Vicky 2 in Friends

My mom is turning into a ghost-like "single" parent and my dad always wants more from us (and our dog) he is a perfectionist and he yells at us and I am scarred of him. They allways take it out on me and then they send my to therapy because they are wondering why they found poem about suicide under my bed.

What the hell am I supposed to do?

2007-12-01 13:09:47 · 38 answers · asked by emmabean 2 in Family

2007-12-01 13:08:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told me earlier in the week that he doesn't wanna go out with me because he wanted to try to get back together with his ex but she wants to go out with someone else.

2007-12-01 13:07:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well..its a bit like this..

i have a girlfriend who i love with all my heart. shes the first girlfriend i have like ever had because most girls simply arent attracted to me....im not exactly a guy that girls seem to like

anyways....since ive been going out with her ive noticed that several other girls have been acting strangely... flirting, calling me, sending strange messages and sometimes even dirty texts...one of them even said outright that she fancied me

im an honest guy and ive told my girlfriend and i definately wouldnt cheat on her, and i hope she trusts me when i say that, but id rather not be in this situation to start with

considering nobody has like ever really fancied me before, is this a strange thing?

after all why is it since me and my girlfriend have been going out that people seem to be taking notice of me?

im so confused!!

2007-12-01 13:07:14 · 4 answers · asked by retards 'Я' us 1 in Singles & Dating

When a guy drives a car, do you like him more if he drives a manual transmission rather than automatic? Or does it not matter at all? What are your thoughts?

2007-12-01 13:06:35 · 16 answers · asked by curiousgeorge 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy at my school that is one of my best friends. He was talking to one of my other best friends, and told her that he is going to break up with his current girlfriend, and maybe ask me out. I don't really want to go out with him, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What do I do!?!?

2007-12-01 13:05:04 · 22 answers · asked by Maky 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out my son-inlaw has been leading two lives, My daughter is expecting in Feb. and now his mistress is pregnant, and we had no idea he was living a double life. And now someone says he was married to someone in Georgia and another in Va. How do I find out about this man. Free

2007-12-01 13:03:37 · 3 answers · asked by reeree 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like big women or skinny women?

2007-12-01 13:03:17 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-01 13:01:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Heres a little hug for you, to make you smile when you feel blue. To make you happy if your sad, to let you know life aint so bad. Now ive given a hug to you, somehow i feel better to. Hugs are better when you share, shows how much you really care.

2007-12-01 13:00:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thing is, she doesn't really care for me at all. However, she don't know that I am now officially dating her brother.....
I don't know why she doesn't like me....I guess she just doesn't think that I am "good enough" for her brother...I dunno!
What should I do? How do I get her to like me? Should I even tell her that we are dating?

2007-12-01 12:57:36 · 4 answers · asked by sisterof_3 3 in Singles & Dating

My dad's a tough guy to shop for for Christmas.I ask him if there's anything he wants, and he never can suggest anything. Or else he says he just wants everyone together since my brother and I both live away in other states. He's a simple man, doesn't like alot of accesory things. He is very practical. His birthday is Monday,he likes to grill so I got him some nice gourmet barbeque sauces, again. It's either stuff for grilling or history books I get him. I'm trying to think of something different since I often seem to get him similar gifts.My dad: He's 60, likes kayaking and camping, outdoorsy, big into history (WWI and II), he's a business man, a volunteer firefighter, not into the modern technology so I'd never get him an Ipod or anything like that, I've gotten him cds before & he likes music from the 60's & 70's. I'm in college, I'm not poor but I obviously can't get him a motorcycle or any other extravegant gifts. Any suggestions to help me break the habit of similar gifts? Thanks

2007-12-01 12:57:22 · 3 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family

I work with a handicapped man. Everytime I go on my break and eat my lunch, he coyly comes to the back of the store 3-4 times as though he's got work to do but usually just wanders aimlessly around me, gawking at me like some dog whenever I take a bite of my food. I purposely catch him looking at me quickly and he looks away like some dumb mutt with its tail between its legs. I've mentionned to my boss that it makes me uncomfortable (because mentionning it to him would be more or less useless.) Why is he doing this? It's disgusting. I have empathy for that kind of people but this is Yahoo! Answers and I'm trying to be as brutally honest as possible.

2007-12-01 12:57:10 · 10 answers · asked by Deloris 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 12:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok we have been together over a year and lived together 6 months and been engaged 7 months, ok so for the last 3 months he has been the WORLDS BIGGEST JERK!!!! he doesnt do anything sweet like he use to we hadly have sex anymore like 1 or 2 times a week! we fight constantly liek today i asked where we where going, and he got mad and took us home, and he has been fighting me on this one thing that he lies about all the time (hes addicted to looking at girls on the net- he was addicted to porn) he a great provider secne i am in school and dont have a job but with my loans i do pay most of the bills he just covers the ones i cant liek food and time worner cable/internet/phone. i just dont no why he has become a big jerk, he tells me to shut up and **** off all the time and if i dont do what he wants he gets mad like one day he through some trach in the trunk of my car well i came by behind him and picked it up (i didnt say anything or have an attitude) i just picked it up and went about

2007-12-01 12:49:42 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs T. 2009 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She has been caught 3 times over past few years drinking, smoking & taking pills. After the last time & grounded for a long time, she tells us she's over doing that & doesn't want to anymore. But, everytime she leaves the house, I worry the whole time & constantly think she's doing something bad. She's angry w/me saying I don't trust her anymore - but it's sooo hard to from what all we went thru. I want to believe her & she's really not showing any signs of being high on something. She just has some new friends - kinda gothic looking & I don't realy know them either. I am really struggling here. Any suggestions?

2007-12-01 12:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

very funny but he should have noticed that they were larger than what I usually wear because they were a gift for my sister!
How many guys would do this and what do I do now with the bra and panty set?

2007-12-01 12:48:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK.... so my brother hates me... he doesnt let me forget it either... my parents are divorced... i dont have very manny friends.... and my dad abuses me and he just called me a ***** he has also told me to go to hell.... so I want out.. my mom is to far away... i need to go somewhere... any where but here... please help me... i want to run away, i live in orem UT.... even if you dont have any ideas around here... if you were going to run away or you have ran away where did you/should i go???!!!??? Please help ME!!!!

2007-12-01 12:47:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like my boyfriend ALOT. But, i feel like i can't trust him sometimes. If one of my friends flirts with him, he def flirts backs. its annoying and all of my friends think i should break up with him. Have any advice?

2007-12-01 12:46:35 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is one of the nicest kids I know. I am new in school but he still talks to me. He talks to everyone, and is really kind to them to. It is great that he is so nice but because he is so nice to everyone, but it makes it really hard to tell if he likes me. He is always giving me high fives, which i dont see him doing with everybody...
He also always makes sure he says hi and bye to me and even though we are not really friends he still comes over and actually talks to me sometimes. One time I was studying in the library and he just came over and randomly started talking to me. I have also caught him looking at me once or twice...but that might just have been coincidence....
so what do you think? does he like me?

2007-12-01 12:44:49 · 9 answers · asked by Cadicat 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.. do u go top or bottem

2007-12-01 12:42:31 · 16 answers · asked by John O 1 in Singles & Dating