2007-12-01 13:08:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it a good idea to pretend you cant be had
2007-12-01 13:13:22 · update #1
Can't have.....most times I get what I want. Maybe I'm spoiled.
2007-12-01 13:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a great deal of truth in the statement. Maybe it is our competitive nature, or the idea that the grass is always greener...etc...but it seems that especially in relationships the one who doesn't want you is always the one you think you can't live without. If someone is "into you" and always around and things are easy....there just isn't any challenge so you can't get that excited about them.
At least that is what a lot of people probably feel.
2007-12-01 21:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes-what I can't have and what Idon't have. It is always better to hold out but sometimes untouchable is a turnoff it just depends on how long the other person is willing to wait or how hard they will try.
2007-12-01 21:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Laylow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. it a human nature not to apprecaite what we have and keep crying for what we do not have. that is the root cause for all the problems. if we can be satisfied with what we have, we can be really happy in this world.
2007-12-01 21:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by anil g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me the grass isnt always greener on the other side. if you remember that, you will be able to cut down on wanting what you cant have.
2007-12-01 21:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Barbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's just our nature as humans.
2007-12-01 21:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by leelee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah because it's a challenge to try to get it.
2007-12-01 21:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ly Le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always. But yes, it happens, and not because I *can't* have it, but because I chose not to, and want it anyway:)
2007-12-01 21:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Shadowburn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, either that or you learn to lower your expectations or sometimes you catch a lucky break.
either way.
things happen
2007-12-01 21:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by munsee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always.
2007-12-01 21:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋