Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

4 yers ago when I was 10 my family was on my grandpa's boat. My mom's brother and his family was with us. We were having a great time but then my Mom wasn't feeling good and asked if we could dock. My aunt had to open her big mouth and say something along the lines of my mom not wanting to be with them. My mom got upset but held her tounge and told my aunt that she shouldn't do this infront of us kids. My aunt kept going on so my mom got up and walked to the back of the boat. My grandma then opened her mouth and the whole boat erupted into yelling and swearing between my aunt and grandma. My grandpa and dad tried to distract us kids but that wasn't working. I was sitting between my aunt and grandma so I got the whole conversation clearly! =( My uncle didn't do anything! He just sat there! Not even trying to shut his wife up! I ended it by screaming and running to my mom. My mom hugged me and my uncle started rubbing my back. To this day I can't seem to forgive him! Is that wrong?

2007-12-01 12:41:56 · 2 answers · asked by Caitie 2 in Family

2007-12-01 12:40:48 · 8 answers · asked by gordan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I consider myself a very fun person once people get to know me. But when I first meet people I am very shy. Do you have any tips so that I won't be as shy? Thanks!!! :)

2007-12-01 12:40:40 · 6 answers · asked by Lizzy 1 in Friends

Would you put up with this? I mean HONETLY, dont let any of you feminest mumbo jumbo get in the way of your answer. (Dont mean that feminest are bad I'm a HUGE ONE!) I recently met a woman that has a child in my kids preschool. Long story short but my daughter went for a play date at there house and I noticed she wasnt sitting to comfortably? Anyways it came out that her husband had spanked her for cursing out one of his clients wives at a "Business Dinner" Of course my reaction was that she needed to leave ASAP, BUT she says that it only happens about once or twice a year and that he would never do anything other than spank her (married 15 yrs). She said that the spankings aren't worth leaving her marriage. Her husband is a millionare. Literallly. She got a car for her birthday that cost as much as my house, lives in a house the same size as my apparment building, etc. HONESTLY would you stay with a man that could give you and your kid all of that and just take the spanking

2007-12-01 12:39:45 · 22 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you know a momma's boy ?
How manly is he ?

2007-12-01 12:38:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am 13 and like my crush does not even know me that well! how do i get his attention? he is like kinda sk8er boi type and really nice

2007-12-01 12:38:06 · 18 answers · asked by Mercedes Jonas 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this part of me that's always loud and obnoxious. And this other part of me that's calm and quit, truthful, loving. All the goods, how do I stick to being that person???? and not the weird one!

2007-12-01 12:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by FrenchToast 1 in Marriage & Divorce

WALL MART post pictures on there runaway
board.If you found one.would you call the FBI?

2007-12-01 12:36:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother got caught last year but i found out he is drinking again. He is 16. He is my older brother. I NEED HELP!!!Should i tell?

2007-12-01 12:35:10 · 20 answers · asked by me 5 in Family

Personally, I would call all my friends.

2007-12-01 12:31:54 · 14 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have now money, shoulder length hair(I am a lad), and I dont think people like my dress sense! HELP

2007-12-01 12:31:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been together for almost two years. he started a new job a few weeks ago and since then, has been acting kind of different. there's a lot of females where he works. he has cheated on me in the past, but promised he would never do it again. so far, he hasn't and i do trust him. but there's always that little doubt in the back of my mind that he might. he's very open with the fact that a lot of the women he works with hit on him, and he always forgets to mention the fact that he has a girl. and he forbid me from visiting him at work, witch only reenforce my suspicions. i know he loves me, but wtf?? maybe he's cheating? or maybe he wants to keep me a secret or something? im a very attractive girl, and i know he's not embarraced of me. but my gut keeps telling me somethings not right. if i call him (and he actually answers) he keeps it short and to the point and rushes me off the phone. and if i confront him about it, he says he was busy. on break? idk, maybe its just me.

2007-12-01 12:31:02 · 43 answers · asked by jessi jane 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend wants to get married and i want to also. but i want to have thing workout like its suppose to get a house, get married, then have some kids. am i wrong because i dont wanta be like most that have kids then get married then looking for a house?

2007-12-01 12:30:34 · 15 answers · asked by mrsgibson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I received a phone call telling me that I will deploy to Iraq for 4 months and will leave in 1 week. I landed in Iraq I heard that she was pregnant! I was happy! A month and half past and find out that before we had gotten married she was living with her best friend whos dating her exboyfriend. her exboyfriend “raped” her. He was drunk and she says she said no. she tells me the baby might not be mine. We had a LONG argument on weather or not to have the baby. We both agreed that we were not ready, but we still wanted the child. She now holds this against me saying it was my idea for the abortion. I will love the child but with great hesitation. She has now told me that she is falling out of love with me but she still misses me. She also told me when I get back she wants to live at her dads and not with me! I was outraged that she would even propose such an idea. I have given her 2 months of pay. She needs to save money but when told that she blows up at me saying that its her money.

2007-12-01 12:29:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a cute friend who I have a crush on and I don't know what a girl really looks for in a guy.

2007-12-01 12:29:35 · 29 answers · asked by Pickles 2 in Singles & Dating

For the past 3 years I have been like a father figure to this girl, her name is Vanessa, she's 13. Her biologoical dad does not spend any time with her heck he barely even acknowledges her. For the past 3 years I have spent time with her, I have came to her school events, I have taken her trick/treating, I have been there for her when she was having a bad day, I was the one she would come to for advice (school, clothes, puberty) I have always tried to boost her self-esteem. Heck she even calls me "daddy", would you say I am like a dad to her? Have I helped raise her?

2007-12-01 12:27:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister's getting married and I'm the maid of honor. I'm the youngest out of everyone whose coming so, I want to show everyone and my sister that I really can do a good job of helping with everything. If anyone has any cheap, simple, or easy game ideas/ regular ideas that be GREATLY appriciated =]

2007-12-01 12:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

own way. We have a 19 year old daughter, she still lives at home, goes to college and does not know we are divorced. My ex gets on my nerves and I can not stand him but for my daughters sake I can not kick him out. What can I do to tolerate this situation with out loosing my mind? Any suggestions would be greately appreciated.

2007-12-01 12:25:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone help me in telling - as to how much time it takes in India to get divorce in case un-contested divorce (one-party only). In total approximately how many times will the family court set dates for hearning the other party. How many months in total it takes generally for uncontested divorce cases. Thank you in advance for your answers

2007-12-01 12:24:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend hated my ex bf. Even when him and me were together. When he became me ex a few months later she began to hate him more. Now a few months have passed and my best friend and my ex have become good friends. At first I thought that was a good thing, but soon, one day she called me to tell me that she had a new bf. I was so happy for her and I asked who is it? She answered by saying that her bf was my ex. I was shocked! I felt horrible and betrayed. She knew I still liked him and she promised me that she never would go out with him. But still, she did. I wanted to go jump off a cliff and never be seen again. I cringe everytime I see them in the hallway together. I cried so much when I found out and she didn't even bother to say sorry. When we talked a few weeks later I reminded her and she was like "oh sorry." Me and my ex are the best of friends and he said that if I couldn't get along with his gf, then he wouldn't talk to me again. Is my bff rele a good friend? Is my ex?

2007-12-01 12:24:22 · 5 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 12:24:21 · 14 answers · asked by clever girl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If you wanted to run away from everything--college, "friends", and everything else--and go to california to live and try to break into the adult film industry, how would you go about it?

2007-12-01 12:24:13 · 2 answers · asked by slick j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother died when I was four. Now when ever I try to open up to someone I have trouble. When I'm dating someone, I'm good for a few weeks, but then I feel like there's a weight on my chest, and I'm suffocating. I also feel the urge to tell every girl I'm attracted to that I love them. Then later a break up with them, and act like a complete jackass to them. Can anyone help?

2007-12-01 12:22:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a long, very bad relationship. It seemto me that every man I meet remind me of my ex.I've only been out single for 9months nowHow can I start to see good in the opposite sex?

2007-12-01 12:22:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

An online affair...?
Well, I put a keylogger on my computer to watch the teen in the house and low and behold I find my partner doing the online sex thing... so far as even asking someone to go on a date with her. She also said she is in love with me but lacks excitement. I'm floored to say the least, I had no clue. We've been together 11 years. Ten years ago we talked about the online sex thing and agreed not to do it and that it is like cheating, or so we agreed it feels. It never occurred to me that this keylogger thing would come back and bite me like this. I'm struggling with whether to confront her or not? Should I just forgive and try to spice things up? Man this sucks.

2007-12-01 12:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by chet_chic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You say you're getting nervous,
I try to understand,
But all I'm getting worried,
Is if you only want to be my friend.

I hope your feelings didn't change,
I don't want you to leave me,
If it something I did,
Will you please forgive me?

You are my baby,
My only girl,
I wish I knew,
What's going on.

You say you don't know,
But I believe you do,
So tell the the truth,
And hopefully we're not through.

2007-12-01 12:19:39 · 7 answers · asked by 14 year old chick 1 in Singles & Dating

She even uses my detergent and if my clothes are in the washer she takes them out and leaves them in a wet pile for me to deal with later.I'm retired on a fixed budget.What is the right thing to do?

2007-12-01 12:18:57 · 13 answers · asked by dskmabbott 2 in Family

ok. i'm crazy-in-love with a guy (i'll call him D) in the "sporty guy group" (by the way, the "sporty guy group" is the 2nd highest group in my school. but personally, i think it should be the highest). his girlfriend (lets just call her J (who is, just so u know, a bitchy, slutty, bi hoe who just happens to be the prettiest girl in the whole damn school) is in the "goth group" (and in case u didn't answer/read my last question, the "goth group" is a group of both guys and girls who are goth or emo. it is also the highest group in the school). she wants to go emo (she isn't yet), even though she's got everything: she's like, the highest one on the popular scale, she's D's girlfriend, she's got
and ipod video (and like, NO ONE has one of those at my school), she's probably the richest kid at my school, she's got a friend who'll beat up any1 who makes fun of her. IT REALLY PISSES ME OFF!!! it's not fair for her to have everything and not even realize it and me barely have anything! :'(

2007-12-01 12:17:42 · 43 answers · asked by <3 luv <3 2 <3 much < 2 in Singles & Dating

so this is the situation-my husband says 'i want a divorce,' he leaves the house on a very abusive note-ok, i wait until he files the papers, they never come, im left with all the bills and two daughters. then he comes to the house 2 months later to 'see our girls' @ 10 pm! my girls want to see their dad, so if im not 'civil and forgiving' they wont see their dad, and he wont come see them! I dont want this anymore, i want to move on. Yet, Im always allowing him in the door... I hate this. I tell him that we are no longer husband and wife. I have no money to file for divorce, nor a job. Uhh, im drowning, i need a way out of this, what am i going to do? My mother is paying my bills, I believe its my responsibility. I want to find out what am i doing wrong? How do I shift this toward my new beginning? Why do I have to accept my spouce's ways in order for him to see his girls w/out my comprimising my happiness? im so unhappy......

2007-12-01 12:17:04 · 5 answers · asked by Im_Raised_Again@Yahoo.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am normally a strong person and can get over most things and move on, but there is one small issue that seems to dog me and I dont know what to do about it. I went out with a girl from age 13 to age 19, and I loved her very much, but we broke up and moved on. I have had many girlfriends since, and have been married for 19 years, and she is married with a family too. The problem is I still have dreams about walking along the beach with her and stuff like that, and even though the last time I saw her was 15 years ago, I am always looking out for her at the mall and such, hoping to see her again. Dont get me wrong, I love my wife, and would never go back with this other girl. I believe somehow that she was my soulmate, but I took her for granted because I was young and naive about how to treat people , as I matured I have learned how wrong I was and have changed my ways, sometimes I wish I could just apologise for the way I treated her, and that would at least be a load of my mind.

2007-12-01 12:16:59 · 2 answers · asked by thewopster2u 2 in Other - Family & Relationships