Would you put up with this? I mean HONETLY, dont let any of you feminest mumbo jumbo get in the way of your answer. (Dont mean that feminest are bad I'm a HUGE ONE!) I recently met a woman that has a child in my kids preschool. Long story short but my daughter went for a play date at there house and I noticed she wasnt sitting to comfortably? Anyways it came out that her husband had spanked her for cursing out one of his clients wives at a "Business Dinner" Of course my reaction was that she needed to leave ASAP, BUT she says that it only happens about once or twice a year and that he would never do anything other than spank her (married 15 yrs). She said that the spankings aren't worth leaving her marriage. Her husband is a millionare. Literallly. She got a car for her birthday that cost as much as my house, lives in a house the same size as my apparment building, etc. HONESTLY would you stay with a man that could give you and your kid all of that and just take the spanking
2007-12-01 12:39:45 · 22 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Firstly, no, I wouldn't put up with it. Secondly, I wouldn't be so rude as to curse out one of my husband's client's wives at a business dinner either. That's a little classless and tacky. I suppose no one said that the rich always have to have class, though.
2007-12-01 12:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if a woman says she doesn't mind the spankings? And what does it matter how rich she is? Honestly, women in abusive relationships will only leave when they have had enough. If you are her friend then be there to support her if she needs you. If you start to meddle, then you won't have any chance to help her. She will see you as a threat and so will her husband.
Pray for your friend and just be supportive.
2007-12-01 20:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by freeD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am in that kind of relationship except I get spanked a lot more than that. Although, my man is not rich. So the money has no take on my opinion. So, yes I would stay.
2007-12-02 11:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a feminist. I would NEVER, EVER put up with a man who thought for a moment that he had the right to SPANK me as a disciplinary measure. Husbands and wives are partners who DISCUSS issues. I don't care how much money a person has, there is no excuse for hitting one's spouse. The man has no respect for his wife, and it is appalling that any woman would choose to put up with that behavior.
2007-12-01 20:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by detailgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well no because I like spankings, but if she didn't want it then it could be abuse and no I would not stay in an abusive relationship.
Also I would never curse out anyone at a business dinner, or any other dinner for that matter.
2007-12-01 20:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jen70 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That kind of financial security and all you have to give in return is having your a$$ spanked a couple times per year. Sounds like this girl has got it pretty good.
2007-12-01 20:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are we talking about a child being spanked or the wife....truthfully???? if it was the child that did it, then I agree with the spanking....more kids need to be spanked...cursing out an adult by a child is never acceptable.
If the wife cursed out one of his clients, he could have handled that differently...that suggests domestic abuse
2007-12-01 20:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truly, I heard the wealthy have fab sex lives. Maybe she didn't want to come right out and say it, but maybe it was just sex play? I had a lover once who was mildly rough (passionate) and he was so well endowed that it usually took me four days just to sit properly.. (I am not exaggerating). Maybe she likes getting spanked?
2007-12-01 20:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its truly amazing what people stay in relationships for and money is number 1. Ive seen just about every reason imaginable and everyone makes me think why but then its their lifes and if theyre happy then who are we to question their motivaion for staying in an abusive relationship?
2007-12-01 20:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, spanking is still physical abuse. not only that, but it's degrading that someone's husband would use a punishment meant for a child on someone that is his equal. Does she love this man? Or is she in it for the money and gifts?
2007-12-01 20:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋