My best friend hated my ex bf. Even when him and me were together. When he became me ex a few months later she began to hate him more. Now a few months have passed and my best friend and my ex have become good friends. At first I thought that was a good thing, but soon, one day she called me to tell me that she had a new bf. I was so happy for her and I asked who is it? She answered by saying that her bf was my ex. I was shocked! I felt horrible and betrayed. She knew I still liked him and she promised me that she never would go out with him. But still, she did. I wanted to go jump off a cliff and never be seen again. I cringe everytime I see them in the hallway together. I cried so much when I found out and she didn't even bother to say sorry. When we talked a few weeks later I reminded her and she was like "oh sorry." Me and my ex are the best of friends and he said that if I couldn't get along with his gf, then he wouldn't talk to me again. Is my bff rele a good friend? Is my ex?
2007-12-01 12:24:22 · 5 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think that was very nice of your bf to date your ex..but some friends set rules when it comes to dating with their bfs. you probably should have made a pact that stated that you guys wouldnt date each others exes..well, now shes dated your ex bf and im sorry you had to find out the way that you did, but it seems as if your ex has moved on and you should to.
i dont think as a friend she has your best interest in heart..id probably find another friend to confide in..as for him being a good friend..not everyone can be friends with their exes. its probably better that you both move on. dont continue being her friend just to keep him in you life..
they say absence makes the heart grow fonder..maybe if you and him dont talk as much anymore he might think about you more..thats only if you really want him back..good luck!
2007-12-01 12:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex? Ex as in no longer boyfriend and girlfriend? Maybe you need to re-read that last line. Hey, you two are not a "couple" any longer and he's fair game, just as you are. He has no obligation to you and you none to him. It's over and the sooner you accept that and move on, the happer you'll be. Besides, if he was a jerk, then let your friend have him and consider yourself fortunate to be rid of him. If you were the jerk, then lay in the bed you made and don't expect your friend to pay for your actions.
2007-12-01 12:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex for a reason. Blow it off and let her deal with it. She'll get dumped because she is nothing but a rebound and probably a way to get back at you. I wouldn't talk to her for a while. She will learn her lesson and probably apologize.
2007-12-01 12:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by mamabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a new BFF. Friends dont do that.
2007-12-01 12:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither one are good friends..they deserve each other....
2007-12-01 12:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by John[nottheapostle] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋