An online affair...?
Well, I put a keylogger on my computer to watch the teen in the house and low and behold I find my partner doing the online sex thing... so far as even asking someone to go on a date with her. She also said she is in love with me but lacks excitement. I'm floored to say the least, I had no clue. We've been together 11 years. Ten years ago we talked about the online sex thing and agreed not to do it and that it is like cheating, or so we agreed it feels. It never occurred to me that this keylogger thing would come back and bite me like this. I'm struggling with whether to confront her or not? Should I just forgive and try to spice things up? Man this sucks.
2007-12-01 12:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by chet_chic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably going to be a rash of new questions just like mine but here it goes:
http://www.download.com/LightLogger/3000-2162_4-10722216.html?tag=lst-1
Go to the publishers website for instructions on use.
2007-12-01 12:59:51 · update #1
I think you should confront. That's really hard to hold in and will hurt you more than saying something about it. Still try spicing it up but that might not be the whole issue so talking about it would be the best thing to do.
Where do you get a keylogger? My husb is constantly clicking out of pages when I walk into the room.
2007-12-01 12:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Love Aura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, wake up like nuts in the middle of the night and tell your love, I just had a dream that Jesus told me you were having an online affair and you needed to choose...if you don't want to be with me, you ened to say so...if you do love me, you need to end this affair
DO NOT TELL PARTNER ABOUT KEYLOGGER b/c you won't know if lover ended it!
If lover doesn't end it, you need to start preparing, get yourself cute again, and start getting out there to see what's available. Save $ and get out if lover won't stop this!
Seems you really care, so maybe you can forgive and try to spice life up or accept lovers on the side.
I personally love the Jesus dreams. I used to be mean and say hard times coming if one doesn't change wicked ways. I don't force person stay, but say they must choose and Jesus knows all! you can use other Angelic beings as well
2007-12-01 23:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Blousou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put on some Victoria Secret and have a romantic evening. If no response. Dude has a problem.
2007-12-01 20:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by vanallenbelt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately confront her. It is much better to be open with how you feel in a relationship than holding things in.
2007-12-01 20:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by pandabear™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better let her know that you know. Tell her it was really immature of her to go elsewhere without even trying to work out whatever she thinks is the problem, first. She had no right to do that.
2007-12-01 20:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her...it's not like you put the device on the computer to catch HER. But now that you have the information you have to say something especially since you'll have already discussed this.
2007-12-01 20:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Who Knew? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take each day as it comes! Maybe spice things up a bit but don't change yourself! Talk to her about it if it gets frustrating after a while!! but take each day as it comes!!
hope his advice comes handy to you!
2007-12-01 20:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about it, then ask what would excite her in the bedroom. Try to bring the romance bk.
2007-12-01 20:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by zoey1176 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes confront her! and can you tell me more about this keylogger thing please my fiance is kinda doing the same thing i think but i need hard proof!
2007-12-01 20:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs T. 2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better build some real fire works, if he's that bored!!!!
2007-12-01 20:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋