(best answer gets picked as best answer!) WHY DOES SHE WANT THIS WHEN SHE'S GOT EVERYTHING!?!?

Question

ok. i'm crazy-in-love with a guy (i'll call him D) in the "sporty guy group" (by the way, the "sporty guy group" is the 2nd highest group in my school. but personally, i think it should be the highest). his girlfriend (lets just call her J (who is, just so u know, a bitchy, slutty, bi hoe who just happens to be the prettiest girl in the whole damn school) is in the "goth group" (and in case u didn't answer/read my last question, the "goth group" is a group of both guys and girls who are goth or emo. it is also the highest group in the school). she wants to go emo (she isn't yet), even though she's got everything: she's like, the highest one on the popular scale, she's D's girlfriend, she's got
and ipod video (and like, NO ONE has one of those at my school), she's probably the richest kid at my school, she's got a friend who'll beat up any1 who makes fun of her. IT REALLY PISSES ME OFF!!! it's not fair for her to have everything and not even realize it and me barely have anything! :'(

yes, i am jealous....... i don't feel sorry for myself though...... honestly, i just want
him to be happy.

by the way, DON'T INSULT HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

actually, i'm a really nice person and have a lot of friends. i'm just not popular.
i'm usually happy, but something bad just happened and i'm upset about that. i'm sorry if i sounded "bitter" or "bitchy".
i like to have fun and hang out with friends, just like any1 else. i'm just like any other teenage girl. i like to watch girly movies and i like going shopping with my friends. by the way, he has no idea she's any of these things.

Answer 1

First of all, take a deep breath.
Second, slap yourself in the face three times and get over it.

With all your sulking and whining and stupidity, it's no wonder you don't have a boyfriend.

Answer 2

Ok what kind of school do u attend??? Cuz in most school goths and emos are the lowest on the scale. But wateva. U shouldnt b so jealous of her. Shes fortunate. There is nothing u can do about it. Whining like a baby wont change anything at all! and trust me shes not rly that rich. I have some way richer girls at my school. I dont let them ruin my life. Just b happy ur alive and healthy. Go live ur life and since d is taken go look 4 other guys. Dont get sucked into the popularity stuff. It isnt worth it. B happy u have friends and family and are u. Theres ppl who has a worst life than u. Dont let her have the satisfaction of making u miserable.

Answer 3

Okay you need to calm down. All this group crap isn't going to mean anything once you get out of high school. It is a load of bull to begin with and seems to be getting worse with each generation because no one bothers to tell them that all the so called "groups" are ridiculous in the first place. Socially classifying people is so passe.

Another thing, you need to get a hold of yourself. The grass is not always greener on the other side. So what if she has a video ipod, so what if she is pretty, rich or whatever. Why don't you start focusing on the positive things that you yourself have instead of focusing on what you don't have. You will be a much happier person in life if you do this.

Answer 4

Wow. You are most likely not going to like this answer, but it sounds to me like you need to worry a little less about what J does or doesn't have, and spend a little more time on you! Don't be so unhappy about something you can't do anything about. Just get out there and do what makes you happy. Why do you love this guy? It's just a crush, and you'll have so many of them. Find a guy who is going to be there for you. What's s great about a guy that wants to be with a slutty bi ho? If he like girls that are bi, you are never going to be the girl for him, unless you are bi too. And if you're bi, why are you dissing this other girl for it? Maybe she's more popular than you because she's nice. And what does an Ipod have to do with the situation anyway? Try being nice, not angry and bitter, and maybe you'll get more popular. And maybe you aren't as bitter as you sound, but all we have to go on is your little rant, and it doesn't speak very highly of you! Get over yourself already!!!

Answer 5

First of all... GET OVER IT!!! This girl is not to be envied. She's got material things... that's it! Man, high school must suck for people now! Sporty group; Goth group; highest group; 2nd highest group... what tha hell? You're pissed because she's in a group and has an ipod video????

Answer 6

That is because your looking at this from a third person's point of view. You see all the things that you want to see, all the materialistic things. But who knows what really goes down in her house hold or around her outside of school. The things that she has to face that no one hears or sees. And may not want to share either because no one will understand her cause she has this high status in school. It may look like she has everything but she probably wants things that you have that she can never get but you will never know about. Yeah it does get irritating when you see others have things that you don't have, but at da same time there is probably other people thinking the same thing about you, that you don't know about.

Answer 7

She doesn't have everything. No one has anything. Your envy of J has completely warped your perception of the situation.

Instead of focusing all of your attention on this "bitchy, slutty, bi hoe" you need to adjust your attitude. Don't obsess so much about the high school pecking order of cliques. Trust me, you won't give a s*** about this stuff ten (no make it five) years from now. Learn to be grateful for what you DO have already. And figure out how to get what you don't have.

Answer 8

What the hell is the question:

Why does J want D?
Why does J want to go from goth to emo?
Why doesn't J realize she is privileged?

I personally want to know when emo kids became the #1 group in school, because that would have significantly made my life easier!

Maybe you should not be so jealous of J... maybe if J didn't have D you wouldn't want him... maybe you want to be J...

But- no worries, because someday J will be a pregnant 11th grader. And you will go on to college, and have a life.

Answer 9

STOP SULKING!

You are presuming that everybody has it better than you.

There is no highest group in your school, you are all equal.

What we have established is that you are a bitter, spiteful, name calling, tantrum having child who is jealous of another girl:

"his girlfriend (lets just call her J (who is, just so u know, a bitchy, slutty, bi hoe who just happens to be the prettiest girl in the whole damn school)"

Now snap out of it, you sound like some sulking self righteous serial killer who wants to murder children just because he had to wear horrible shoes when he was 14.

Get over it.

This girl has the right to choose what she does and how she dresses, just the same as you do.

She has the right to go out with whoever and hang out with whoever she wants and dress how she wants.

I know you'd be a lot more attractive if you weren't so ugly on the inside.

So concern yourself with your life not hers. Her life is none of your business.

I'm sure there are kids at school who think you have everything.

There is a comedy character on "LIttle Britain" who sounds just like you. Her name is Vicky Pollard.

Now grow up.

EDIT: Just get on with your own life, you're going through a phase of resentment brought on by jealousy of his and her relationship. Get used to this. The people we find attractive don't always feel the same way about us.

Bitter women are a total turn off. Most of us do like nice women.....genuinely nice....not just saying "I'm nice!"

I don't believe this other girl is bitchy or slutty or bi or a ho'.

I think she is everything you would like to be and you hate her for it......oh and you're jealous of her iPod video. You don't have a problem with her, you have a problem with yourself...I've read some of your other questions.

Learn to like being you. Do what you do and don't concern yourself with other people's business. Stop looking at what you haven't got and be thankful for what you have got.

As soon as you compete, you become a loser.

Answer 10

wow you have one strange school. how are the emo and goth kids the most popular? i think being that way should be illegal. and ipod videos aren't that fascinating. i mean everyone i know has the new ipod touch, wears only designer clothes, has a pair of real uggs, and my friend already has a porshe because her dad owns a car dealership. im only 14, but wow you have one heck of a life style, but i can say i am onw of the spoiled kids i mentioned before =] i wear only designer clothes, have uggs, and a new touch ipod. so i think that you should just ignore her, because if that girl wants to go emo, then it is probably because of that guy you like. and i am like a jockette sort-of and like only play soccer, but i don't know any jock who would date someone goth. that is just plain weird!! hope that helped!
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Answer 11

You can rest assured she knows it. Girls like that require a lot of attention. That's what they call high maintenance. The minute a cuter guy comes along, she'll move on. Guys get tired of a high maintenance girl, expecially one who requires so much attention.

Just sit back and wait your turn...it will happen before you know it...and probably you will find a better guy who isn't so shallow as to only want looks.