Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

please help how can i act rich with out bragging being a bitchy slut and snotty

2007-12-01 11:32:44 · 27 answers · asked by sunsshiinee 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know if i should tell him or not... i mean its not that big of a debt, its about 6,000.00... but hes told me about buying a house and stufff like that... i want to tell him but im afraid of what he is going to think... or is he going to get mad??

2007-12-01 11:32:11 · 17 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like really! I am soooo girly it's not funny. So do athletic guys like girly girls or not?

2007-12-01 11:31:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so my friend is having a problem...she's married to a guy that is best friends with his ex'girlfriends husband..anyway,they used to all hang out together until my friend saw her husband (bf at the time this happened) fondling and rubbing on his ex-girlfriend...naturally,there was a big fight and the two couples stopped hanging out...well about 2 years go by and my friends husband starts hanging out with his best friend and
ex-girlfriend again,my friend refuses to go over there ,i guess out of embarassment and anger,but she still allows it,she also said that his ex-gf was allowing her husband to fondle her....so she pretty much just lets her hubby hang with them whilst she stays home...the problem is there is a concert in another state coming up and her husband wants to go with his best friend and the ex-girlfriend (out of state)....would you allow this...she is upset about it but she keeps saying that she doesn't want to seem like a ball and chain....sorry so long..
thx

2007-12-01 11:26:35 · 5 answers · asked by storm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a female friend who I had feelings for at one time but she let me know that she only thought of me as a friend. The couple of times that I have been with other women she has gotten jealous. So my question for women are, are there some women who want other guys to admire them but won't date them and get jealous if they are seeing anyone else? This seems like are being selfish if you ask me. It's like they are allowed to have love and happiness and they want you to be alone and miserable. Has this happened to anyone else men or women?

2007-12-01 11:25:51 · 17 answers · asked by Dave 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 11:25:29 · 24 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A Journalist interviewing me asked me if I love my wife, I said, "I know that I like her very much, but love....... I don't understand"

Sincerely, I have never said "I love you" to my wife!

2007-12-01 11:24:42 · 12 answers · asked by Freeman 5 in Marriage & Divorce

And I'm talking 13-15 year old boys? Do they actually care about romance or do they just want to do us?

2007-12-01 11:24:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am modifying my child support. I went through the whole process for 2006. She is claiming that sheis only making about 16000 for 2007 but had claimed over 30,000 for the past two years. I gave her the business I built in the divorce and now she has ran it into the ground. She got remarried in August(Congrats to her) but can I go after his income since she is unwilling to get a job or try to better her business? Right now he is the main finacial provider for them.

2007-12-01 11:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by IDONHO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the just of it... This past August we were on our family vacation, we were celebrating our anniversary and daughter's birthday too. When I walked up on my hubby and caught him off guard, he was on his cell phone. I got that feeling in the pit of my stomach, I thought, "NO, OMG NO." A month before he wanted to separate and go to a counselor, saying he loved me, but not in love with me, he had been distant with his grandmother's death and my newly diagnosed breast cancer. But this? Currently my husband has been having an affair for over a year now. He has said he is an a**hole, but never said he was sorry. He told our daughter that he would go to counseling, hoping we didn't get a divorce, he wasn't truthful. At the first counseling session he told me that he wanted to split up, he doesn't want to come back. I find myself bond by my emotions/feelings, struggling to break free. I need help letting go, I would see a counselor if I could, at times I feel alone just wanting to talk.

2007-12-01 11:20:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf of two years broke up last week..

i live 2 hrs away from him

our anniverary is at midnight.

i thought all day he would show up and apologize wanting to get back together on our anniverasry..

i was so stupid.

he doesnt even care.

what do i do??

2007-12-01 11:19:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 yrs old and just got married about 6 monthes ago. My husband is not super old compared to me but he is somewhat older (29 yrs old) Last night he went to go put gas in my car for me since he know I would be driving around alot the next day and found a speeding ticket I got a few days ago. When he came home he asked me if there was anything I wanted to tell him about. Of course I told him no and thats when he pulled out the ticket and told me to start explaining. Honestly this isnt the first ticket I've gotton its the 3rd in one year. Yeah I KNOW I need to slow down. He told me he refuses to let me put my life and others and danger and proceeded to SPANK ME. He didnt leave any marks on me but it hurt enough to make me whimper and whine. He said that from now onthat this kind of crap will be delt with accordingly. I would have just paid the ticket and he would have been none the wiser BUT I dont work since I go to college and he pays for EVERYTHING. What should I do???

2007-12-01 11:15:25 · 35 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

heres the thing, my dad is a TOTAL Christian, and wen i say TOTAL, i mean TOTAL!!! he doesn't want me listening to music,watching shows, wearing things, or listening to things that dont have something to do with jesus! i listened to the song "famous last words" by my chemical romance, and he got mad! i wore a shirt that had the "rolling stones" tounge motto on it and he got mad! now the "harry potter weekend" is on and he won't let me watch it! now i cant watch T.V. for 2 weeks! its not fair!!! i cant have MY freedom just b/c he wants to be a saint! and he was married to sum othr girl b/4 he was with my mom, and my dads ex told me that wen my dad was with her, he made her, 1 son, and 2 daughters pray ALL DAY for 2 weeks, they couldnt go out, or eat b/c they were "fasting," watch T.V. and listen to music...
and im afraid he'll do that to me nd the rest of my family.... he doesn't want me watching h/p b/c its "demonic" and i kno, it has wizards, but its just ur imagination!!!!! HELP!!

2007-12-01 11:14:44 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ladii emo♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We like eachother, and have decided to take things slow and not rush into anything to fast.

We both live in the same town but shes attending college 2-3 hours away, but we still see eachother!

Whats a good song that is about liking someone and something to do with distant, to show I still like you and will be there for you?

Anything to do with liking a girl even though the distant is a little far?

2007-12-01 11:11:23 · 10 answers · asked by Brandon J 1 in Singles & Dating

my son cannot hear me when i talk to him wot do i do i dont see them a lot i dont know if he wear hearing aids or not his brother said yes he does but thY ARE BOTH 10 SHUD I TAKE HIM FOR A NEW HEARING AID OR NOT

2007-12-01 11:11:18 · 8 answers · asked by dylancoleryan 2 in Family

what would you do if you just found out that your husband of three years cheated on you before you got married and now you have two children with him? the person he cheated on you with was your younger sister and you see or talk to her everyday.

2007-12-01 11:09:52 · 15 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi, in this question i want to address any male in hope that u can tell me what to do in the situation that i'm in.

i have this ex, who wont leave me alone (we've known each other for 3 yrs). recently he asked for one last chance, so we kinda got back together. the problem is, he is selfish and incredibly lazy. to sum it up, he is loser who doesnt want to admit to it. he condiders me a "***** who needs to change" but regardless of this conviction he won't leave me alone. i have no idea how to get rid of him for once and for good.

just yeasterday, things went really bad. he called me to tell me that i promised him to come see him. i said i can't, so he started biching and whining, and said this "why do you have to ruin it for me"? this sent me in to a state of madness. to make things short, in his last thretning voicemail, he said "im gonna ruin ur life". everytime he calls he leaves a thretning voicemals

we live in the same neighborhood. PLEASE TELL WHAT TO DO. thank you

2007-12-01 11:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by Alexa L 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel that i am not welcome to his daughter, he never say hi or bye whenever she comes to the house. (this house we're now has been their house with his ex... long time ago and the daughter was born here). I always say hi to her, trying hard to be friend with her. Yes she talk to me sometimes i often noticed her eyes rolling whenever we have conversation, the three of us ( my husband, me and her) i just ignore that. As much as possible i don't want to embrace that feeling that she is not in to me. This morning, my husband and the daughter went to pick up something, i didn't go with them because i have a lot of stuff to do in the house. When he came home... we started talking casually. He mentioned about the grandmother of her daughter (mother of his ex-wife) that the daughter said, grandmother wants to do baking and that she cannot do that because she's living in a home. The home is very close to the ex where the daughter's live, very convenient to the grandma, no steps to climb.

2007-12-01 11:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by margarita lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't think that i am into splitting up a couple. I could never do that because i understand how the girl would feel. its just i really like this boy since august and i think he has always had a thing for me. He definitely cares about me and my feelings but lately he has been conciously trying not to look at me. I'll walk into a circle of people or if we are directl across the rooom facing eachother, he won't look at me or say anything, but he will to my best friend next to me, which hes not even very close to her. he is not mad at me but he does have a gf. in a way, i think he could be avoiding me because he likes me and hes not ready to have a deeper relationship than the one he is in right now. i dont think he likes his gf as more than a friend, or her him, but they are comfortable dating because they are both in insecure positions. he is insecure when he doesnt have a girlfriend. I want to talk to him but it seems whenever we pass eachother, he acts like im not even there.

2007-12-01 11:00:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 11:00:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Adam and Eve founded love!
Romeo and Juliet made love!
Julius Ceaser fought for Love!
Samson died for love!

But you, What will you do for love?

2007-12-01 10:59:20 · 9 answers · asked by Freeman 5 in Singles & Dating

cause everyone says girls should be played hard to get................. =\

2007-12-01 10:51:00 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Green 3 in Singles & Dating

-me my husband and my in laws live together
-it is their house as they don't want to leave the memories behind they won't let us buy a new house...so we live @ there place
-my hubby is a doctor so he can afford his own house..but she won't let us!
-every weekend when me and my husband want to got out and spend some time together .she invites her brothers over and they party it up and she expects me to be a slave and entertain them with food, drinks, etc.
-so today i had to go out to buy a poster for my history class and she goes .."why don't u take Al ( her nephew) with you guys u will have fun?"....a couple wants to spend some time together and you want me to entertain ur nephew...!
-so i said...don't worry i will be home in 15 minutes and then help you out! she got upset ...But I had to go..so i went..
-now my husband is mad at me about how he doesn't have fun and his friends go out with there girlfriends all the time and i am stuck with my parents....
-right now he dropped me off

2007-12-01 10:50:14 · 5 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 16 months, and every gift that he has given me (that is jewlery) happen to be hearts. I have a heart necklace, a heart bracelet and now a heart ring! What do all these HEARTS HEARTS HEARTS mean? Does it even HAVE a meaning behind it? Or not?

2007-12-01 10:44:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I know if I am holding on or if I am letting go?

2007-12-01 10:43:46 · 7 answers · asked by Freeman 5 in Singles & Dating

I found out my husband is cheating. l caught him sending email to his exgirlfriend and challenged him on the spot, what did l get was a hard slap on my face and throughly beaten that night. l got bruises all over my body. l hate violence and men that beats their wives. Now l view him as enemy and hated him with passion. What can l do, l love him and my life is revolved around him, but ever since then l don't trust him anymore.

How can l be independent again and regain my self esteem? My family says l should come over and start working with them, but l dont want to leave my husband . Pls help,

2007-12-01 10:39:24 · 17 answers · asked by feranmi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-01 10:38:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its friday night what is every one up to? im abit pissed and abit bored what can i do

2007-12-01 10:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by nat 2 in Singles & Dating

Go on, get those teeth cleaned and hop into bed.

2007-12-01 10:30:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I sometimes feel lile men only want me for sex. I'm a virgin, but I see their gazes trail down my body etc.... They speak to me and have interesting conversations with me, yet I always wonder...do they only want sex? Will a guy marry someone just because the sex is good or do they want them for other reasons as well?

2007-12-01 10:29:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating