hi, in this question i want to address any male in hope that u can tell me what to do in the situation that i'm in.
i have this ex, who wont leave me alone (we've known each other for 3 yrs). recently he asked for one last chance, so we kinda got back together. the problem is, he is selfish and incredibly lazy. to sum it up, he is loser who doesnt want to admit to it. he condiders me a "***** who needs to change" but regardless of this conviction he won't leave me alone. i have no idea how to get rid of him for once and for good.
just yeasterday, things went really bad. he called me to tell me that i promised him to come see him. i said i can't, so he started biching and whining, and said this "why do you have to ruin it for me"? this sent me in to a state of madness. to make things short, in his last thretning voicemail, he said "im gonna ruin ur life". everytime he calls he leaves a thretning voicemals
we live in the same neighborhood. PLEASE TELL WHAT TO DO. thank you
2007-12-01 11:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by Alexa L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get a restraining order, this guy sounds dangerous.
2007-12-01 11:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kris B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight... This guy's a jerk, but you "kinda got back together?" Sounds like you "kinda" left yourself open to his harassment. You have two options: 1: Collect as many threatening emails as you can and get a restraining order.
2. If you know some really big guy, get him to beat the living crap out of this guy.
2007-12-01 19:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same situation. If you feel threatened then call the police. I succesfully got a restraining order on my ex gf. Its like, pretty serious, but if hes saying hes gonna ruin your life, then call in the cops. Maybe he was drunk?
2007-12-01 19:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your localauthorities to get all of this on official record and then get an protective restraining order against himwith a provision to cease and desist all threatening emails or face court action due to it. If you happen to know his phone carrier,let their security dept.know about this. This should stop him or press legal charges against him. Good luck and Happy Holidays
2007-12-01 20:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
record the voicemails - call the police. File for a no-contact order. It will probably cost you about $100.
2007-12-01 19:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mangy Coyote 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont erase those voicemails. take them to the police as evidence and get a restraining order.
take care of yourself...be safe
2007-12-01 19:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stop being a little ***** and admit the fact that your over him.
If hes aggresive, call the cops.
2007-12-01 19:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by tadbit.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order. move to different neighbor hood. hes controlling
2007-12-01 22:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by tinytim alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant solve your problems but i promise you go to Church tomorrow and things will startto clear up
2007-12-01 19:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by dancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraining order, if you lived close enough i could counsel him in a way he would get the message
2007-12-01 19:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋