me and my bf of two years broke up last week..
i live 2 hrs away from him
our anniverary is at midnight.
i thought all day he would show up and apologize wanting to get back together on our anniverasry..
i was so stupid.
he doesnt even care.
what do i do??
2007-12-01 11:19:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forget him and move on, he was a boyfriend not a husband.
2007-12-01 11:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,,,knowing men as I do, I can pretty sure say that your past bf didn't even know there was an anniversary coming up. Let alone in a relationship he has just left. He probably has other things on his mind, like what happened or what's he going to do now..........Men don't think in the same thought patterns as women.
Maybe he does care, but not in the same form of your expectations. And he's not going to meet your expectations. He can't possibly do so.
What you need to do is give it all time, and stop beating yourself over what he's doing or what's happened. You might not ever find out and it's not worth losing sleep over.
I'm not sure who wasn't making the commitment in the relationship, but these types of relationships are chalked up as learning experiences.
2007-12-01 19:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Susan M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend? this is marriage and divorce .
Anniversaries dont mean anything to men its just another day , you wait until your married and your husband forgets your anniversary then you have something to be upset about , ring your girl friends and go out for the whole day and nite and show him you dont need him , why did you break up? is he cheating on you?
2007-12-01 19:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and find someone closer to you to have a relationship with.
2007-12-01 19:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋