Don't think that i am into splitting up a couple. I could never do that because i understand how the girl would feel. its just i really like this boy since august and i think he has always had a thing for me. He definitely cares about me and my feelings but lately he has been conciously trying not to look at me. I'll walk into a circle of people or if we are directl across the rooom facing eachother, he won't look at me or say anything, but he will to my best friend next to me, which hes not even very close to her. he is not mad at me but he does have a gf. in a way, i think he could be avoiding me because he likes me and hes not ready to have a deeper relationship than the one he is in right now. i dont think he likes his gf as more than a friend, or her him, but they are comfortable dating because they are both in insecure positions. he is insecure when he doesnt have a girlfriend. I want to talk to him but it seems whenever we pass eachother, he acts like im not even there.
2007-12-01 11:00:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is weird becuz we were rly good friends until he got a gf. do u think he liked me as more than a friend before he was peer pressured into dating this girl and now that he has a gf, he feels like he cant be friends with me anymore becuz his feelings for me are too strong. do i rly have to forget about him? I dont want to....i like him so much.
2007-12-01 11:03:08 · update #1
Then you must understand that this is his conscious decision. If he is trying to limit his distractions, then the only game you should play is "the waiting game".
If you were meant to be, you will be, regardless of intervention. If anything, your impatience might be why you aren't supposed to be together!
Just wait it out. I know it's not fun, and I don't expect you to listen, but that's life. Good luck!
2007-12-01 11:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probably has a crush on you from the sound of it.
I've had a crush on a girl for as long as I can remember, but instead of asking her out, I go out with another girl that Seems like she may have feelings for me. Even though I still
have feelings for her. All I'm saying is that it's hard for a guy to know for sure when a girl likes him.
2007-12-01 11:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation.. except the guy tells me how much he likes me.. he just cant break up with his gf rite now cause she is sick.. so he is waiting for her to get better.. honestly speaking.. he prolly has feelings for you therefor acting like that because he has a gf and doesnt want to do anything wrong. confront him. ask him why he is avoiding you and if he gives you a stupid answer, go get your self someone better!
2007-12-01 11:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no other choice but to forget and move on. I don't know about you, but I want a man who gives me that good conversation and attention that I need. It seems to me as if the guy you're talking about is just not up to par.
2007-12-01 11:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by ~Cremy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? Move on. They wouldn't be dating if they didn't have feelings for each other. Peer pressure is 'making them date'? C'mon now....plus, there's plenty of fish in the sea. Maybe you're just interested cause you want 'something you can't have'?
2007-12-01 11:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 him 4 a while like friends stay friends till he breakes up with that girl and then ask him
2007-12-01 11:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by bummbleb90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, try avoiding him too soo he knows how it feels or talk to him when hes not w/ his gf. HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT , :D
2007-12-01 11:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand, I am in the same situation... and the only thing I'm trying to do is to get over him without finishing our friendship.
2007-12-01 11:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 12:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your question , because you answered your own question from the first 2 lines of your question, so need not say anything , just back off,
2007-12-01 11:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋