cause everyone says girls should be played hard to get................. =\
2007-12-01 10:51:00 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Green 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never understood why girls/women have to play hard to get..........I have seen some potential good relationships go sour because of it. These girls/women will confuse the guy until he turns on them and then they suffer with all the questions of why, and what.................Guys are straight-forward when it comes to signals. If you send the wrong signals, then you're going to get what you didn't want! You either like them or you don't. Playing games is a waste of everyone's time. Hard to get doesn't have to include silly, immature, dishonest games. Not kissing on the first date, or sex on the first date or spilling your whole life story in the beginning is what interests, intrigues or challenges a guy and may even get you some respect, but playing games doesn't pay off in the end.........
2007-12-01 11:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by artutina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
adult men who see a woman act the way you acted interpret it as being propose, or basically obviously letting the guy comprehend you're not any more in contact...for sure he is going to flow on. playing frustrating to get isn't a similar problem as playing video games. playing frustrating to get ability no longer being user-friendly, or making a guy paintings to get you: showing how efficient you're yet at the same time nonetheless showing pastime without making a dedication basically yet; yet once you over do it (like you probably did) or provide mixed messages (messing with a guy's head): it really is not any longer playing frustrating to get.
2016-10-25 06:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you are playing hard to get with me. if you play hard to get with multiple people at the same time, I'm going to peace out. playing hard to get just builds the wait time in between dating. so if i know I'm going to win, then yeah, it's worth it. but if there is multiple potential for you to end up with someone else...I'm out.
"Not kissing on the first date, or sex on the first date or spilling your whole life story in the beginning is what interests, intrigues or challenges a guy and may even get you some respect, but playing games doesn't pay off in the end........."
Not kissing on the first date - makes me think you don't like me. I won't call you again.
Sex on the first date - Will take it, but won't call you again (unless I need a booty call). You are a dirty girl in my mind.
Your whole life story - wouldn't sit though it. I'd go to the bathroom, and say I got a call, and have to end the date. You're out. I won't call you again. I don't need all that info. on the first date. General conversation, ok. What do you do? What do you like? Blah blah blah. But if you start telling me about how your dog died of bone cancer 7 years ago and you haven't really had time to get over that but you were trying to, but it may affect how you act in a relationship - CHECK PLEASE! It doesn't interest, intrigue, or challenge me, it bores me. It certainly doesn't earn you any respect (in fact, I have less). But true, playing games does not pay off in the end.
2007-12-01 11:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends how hard I have to chase, but it also has to be clearly known that she has returned interest in me. If I have to chase too long, I will definitely move on to someone else and completely lose interest in you. At that point, you're just in it for the thrill and the game and not necessarily for the outcome of a possible relationship.
2007-12-01 11:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate hard to get girls, Its like their up their own ***. Im really bad at hints anyway, but if someone made it clear they didnt like me or were 'playing hard to get' id be like sod off, ill go find someon else
2007-12-01 10:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree that the "bad boys" especially love the thrill of the chase. They like the soft, feminine, girly-girls that don't panic easily. Laid back and cool. B/B like to "romance" their girl.... Shudder, gasp! Thrill, thrill!! Think I see one comin' towards me! Catch cha later! Bye.
2007-12-01 10:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like it at all, I like it when I actually get some attention, hard to get is the complete opposite.
2007-12-01 10:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, i don't think any guy likes it. us guys don't pick up on subtle hints like you girls do. If you play hard to get we think that you don't like us, and we move on to someone else.
2007-12-01 10:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by john m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
player guys like the challenge of it
2007-12-01 10:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
theyr always up for a challenge
2007-12-01 10:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋