Thing is, she doesn't really care for me at all. However, she don't know that I am now officially dating her brother.....
I don't know why she doesn't like me....I guess she just doesn't think that I am "good enough" for her brother...I dunno!
What should I do? How do I get her to like me? Should I even tell her that we are dating?
2007-12-01 12:57:36 · 4 answers · asked by sisterof_3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you'd better asked your boyfriend why his younger sister doesn't like you or asked the things that make her get interesting? So, you could do what you should do for making her like you. Then, you tell your boy friend if is it ok to tell her that you are her brother' girl friend? Well, i think her brother know more about his younger sister.
If this doesn't work, how about asking her, for example : what type girl that she like to be her brother's girl friend? and if there are something that you don't have, you asked her if he has a girl friend is different what she like, what should she do although her brother loves so much with his girl friend?
I hope this could help you although it may be not too help you . Don't give up easily... Ok..
2007-12-01 13:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by juli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it. Some people either like you or they don't, but if you want to be on better terms with his sister, then just show small acts of kindness. When you go over, ask her how her day was. For her birthday, give her a card and some chocolate. Once she knows that you're actually a really nice person, she'll like you.
2007-12-01 21:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may see you as a threat , and she may not like the way HE acts when he is around you. Of course, you have no way of knowing what he is like around her when YOU are not around, unless you can honestly ask your BF about how they usually interact, and get an honest answer. My big piece of advice would be, don't try too hard - I wouldn't tell her that you are dating, unless she specifically asks you. Always be honest with her, don't talk down to her, but don't TRY to hard to impress her. If you listen to what she says, and treat hear wilth respect, fairly and honestly, she will come around in time.
2007-12-01 21:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her that you are dating her bro! maybe hang out with her & get 2 know her more.
-lyss
2007-12-01 21:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by lakersfan-lyss:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋