it seems like every one is leaving in my life, my parents are getting a divorce, and my mom has a tumor. my sister and my mom fight a lot and my dad dosent like to get into it. at night i hear my mom talking to her friends on the phone saying how my dad never does anything and how my sister disrespects her, they both complain to me and think i know the answers. i don't want to move out of my house i like it here. my moms moving out really soon and wants me to go with her. and to make matters worse my grandfather just passed away and my grandmother just admitted to the hospital this thanksgiving. i try to put on a smile to cover everything up and make it seem like its all okay. but its not working anymore. i seriously don't know what to do anymore. help?
2007-12-01 13:18:32 · 16 answers · asked by Sara C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We all wish we could turn back time.
I think you need to find a support group to help you through these very trying times.
2007-12-01 13:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have everything falling down around you like an avalanche. You can imagine that there is a normal... but really, there is only path that you must go down and it's that of change. Every day pulls us away from our past... and that is hard. Sickness, death, disagreements... ya, honey, you're dealing with a lot. What you can do, is tell your loved ones that you don't have all the answers. And try crying to a friend or relative or counselor, because no one can smile all the time. Maybe you need that release of tension, to kind of lose it a little. Try a journal... on your computer or a blank book. That helps me. Hugs.
2007-12-01 13:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sara.
I'm really sorry this is all happening to you. And it seems like your a teenager too, and you really shouldn't have to deal with this. It sucks hard that your parents are getting a divorce, but consider it for the best if thats what your parents want...but try not to think of their problems. If you don't want to move out, you should tell your mom. Because seriously, since all this is happeneing, you really really need family by your side right now. Im also sorry to hear about your grand-mother/father. However, thats commen, and it can't be helped. Just visit your grandmother, and try to cheer her up. You have to be steady, and keep that smile on, because thats really brave of you. I know its hard, i had something like this problem a lot, and i feel like i never have anybody to talk to. Your cousin, mom, or sister, you should really talk to them and pour it out. Because it really sucks that you have to keep it in like that.
I hope things look brighter soon.
2007-12-01 13:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rawr!♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to stop smiling and start telling someone how you feel. You can't keep all that baggage inside because the bag will burst. Perhaps the others need to see what their stuff is doing to you and maybe just maybe one of them will show somw common sense.
2007-12-01 13:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by darbygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it seems when it rains it pours. I truly am sorry for all the loss in your life. But they say what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. You will come out of everything having learned many lessons and a stronger person. Luck to you and God bless!
2007-12-01 13:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Made You Look 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tomorrow will be better. This is just life... Find a way to empty all of these thoughts daily. Use a journal, silently meditate, listen to music. Surround yourself with people that make you feel good. Get your mind off of these things as much as you can. These are the things I do.
2007-12-01 13:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shananigan Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sara this is a rough time in your life. I think speaking to a counselor may help some. Have you spoken to your family members and told them how you feel?
I hope things go better for you
2007-12-01 13:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by Heidi62 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
move with your mom she needs you right now and your grandmother knows what your are going through so talk to her she can help you. sorry for your loss. maybe find somebody to talk to even God will listen
2007-12-01 13:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by kc_1968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-13 05:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some close friends, maybe start going to a local church - and find a strong support group. You can't go backward...I'm so sorry that your life is so difficult right now.
2007-12-01 13:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋