im marrying him this 30th of december.. can you guys tell me what you think, any experiences regarding this??
i know its short time... but i absolutely know he is the one
2007-12-01 13:13:09 · 23 answers · asked by i cant think of a nickname 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no! i did not meet him online, he is the nephew of a really close friend of mine.
2007-12-01 13:20:33 · update #1
Hi, I don't think it is. Obviously you are serious about the guy and you are sure of your decision. Look, I think only you will know the answer - but my personal experience is this:
I was sworn off marriage, I met a guy and we talked on the phone for hours every night (we lived in different cities), 3 weeks later we were able to meet again and spent lots of time together. Six weeks after we MET he proposed and I accepted. We were married 6 months later.... my family were so angry and convinced I was doing the wrong thing - none of them came to my wedding except my Mum and little sister (only cos they felt obligated) and didn't stay for the reception. They all made bets that it would be over within a year. It's now been 6 years... still going strong and I'm waiting for them to pay up!! HAHA But yeah, honestly, when you meet that right person - you just know. You can't explain it - you just know. And if that's how you feel - ignore what society says and just GO FOR IT girl! Best of luck! x
2007-12-01 13:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a short time but there are many other things to consider. what does your close friend think of him? You haven't known him long enough to see any problems he may have but others who have known him longer can give you an idea of how he is, whether he changed since he met you and whether his is really as you see him or he is putting on a show for your benefit. It would be better to wait a while longer and get counseling before you get married but if you are sure he is the one and there are no danger signs then it may work. Good Luck to you.
2007-12-01 21:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that two and a half monthes is a short amount of time to know someone before they get married but maybe I am wrong. You have to realize that when you only know him for a couple of months, you don't how he reacts to certain things or what makes him mad, sad, happy, abusive, etc. My fear for you is that he may be abusive or have a bad temper. Of course I don't know you, but women suffer everyday from situations like this. Spend more time with him and see how you feel then. If you still can't shake the feeling of love after you have seen him at his worst moment, then by all means marry him! Not too many men are out there so take him before he is taken. God bless and thanks for listening.
2007-12-01 21:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my husband after 6 weeks. No one here is going to know the answer to this question except for YOU! Almost everyone gets cold feet before their marriage it doesn't matter whether they were together 2 1/1 months, 2 1/2 years or 2 1/2 decades... Only YOU can decide if he is the man for you. congratulations on whatever you decide...
Just an interesting note... I know two people who got married after 1 day (no waiting period I guess)... and they are still together after 7 or 8 years.
2007-12-01 21:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by hkabteni1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my wife for 6 years and am still learning things about her some good some bad some that may have changed my mind then you really don't know a person till you live with them there may be alot of things you really may not know 2 1/2 months really ain't much time to make a decision that involves the rest of your life.
2007-12-02 00:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by allouiscious j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely don't marry him. If you can still feel the same in 2 1/2 years then go for it. You don't know anything about someone you have been with for such as short time.
2007-12-01 21:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is he one then do it I met my husband now married for 5 years and we are very happy 4 months before we got married i just knew he was the one follow your heart. If you are worried about it wait a while if he really is the one he will wait until you are comfortable with it.
2007-12-01 21:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by shadowenchantress2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two and half months is only 75 days. Unless you have spent every waking moment of every day together since you met and have shared every dream, aspiration, and deep dark secret with each other, you haven't known each other long enough. Postpone the wedding. If your fiance is indeed the one, you will be able to safely put off the wedding.
2007-12-01 21:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go pamela anderson the 2nd. Of course its too soon. ANyone including women can pretend for that short amount of time. Take your time whats the rush are you pregnant?
Even if you are pregnant don't get married to give it a last name you could be screwing up yourself long term.
Take things slower whats the rush. you love him fine continue loving him but give it some time. ROme wasn't built in a day either you know
2007-12-02 03:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that 2 and a half months is not enough time to really get to know a person. Good Luck! Remember sexual attraction wears off pretty quickly.
2007-12-01 21:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Beatrice C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋