well the good parts about him is that he's funny, sweet(when he wants to be),cute,he will listen if u want to talk. But then around his friends he can be arrogent, an idoit, rude, and just plain STUPID! and i've tried taking to him but one of his friends is always there and he doesn't act like himself so i can't ask him to much.
When im around him my stomach tightens and i feel like im going to be sick. But i don't know if i shouldn't like him or if i should go with my feelings and like him.
2007-12-01 14:34:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are usually like that, it's something that they have with their friends-to him, he's having a tought time imagining what respect he would get with his friends if he acted really sweet right? If you get to know him more when he's not with his friends, then maybe he'll be better with you when he's with his friends. And that feeling that you get when you're around him? It's just the butterflies =) find a topic that you're comfortable with talking with him and you'll find that they'll go away when you warm up.
2007-12-01 14:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by nat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I've had this feeling around one guy I know. He disgusts me....and the fact that he disgusts me makes me love him.
Huh?....exactly. So I end up confused about my feelings and he becomes a mystery to me...making him yet more attractive.
So what the heck do I do?
I decided not to get involved with him, because I found another more responsible young man that...although I have no romantic feelings for...seems to love me. ^^ Believe me, go with the guy that loves you, not the guy that you love...and especially not the guy you only think you might love!
2007-12-01 22:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Brommy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys will be boys it's a tough call he can't choose between his friends and u so talk to him tell him how u reallyy feel and then see where that leads to if he reall likes u then he will consider your feelings and stop being a jerk around his friends and ignoring u and yes u should go with your feelings and ike him just have a chat with him heart to heart good luck
2007-12-01 22:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably acts that way because he probably doesn't want his friends to make fun of him or he's afraid of bing teased. it's a pride thing. if you like him and he's interested in you pretend to avoid him and he could possibly try and go after u and when he does he'll be by himself.
2007-12-01 22:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by confusion724 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's showing off? so teach the right way to care for lady! in front of his friends!
2007-12-01 22:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him or talk to him hes not worth it if he wont listen to you or if you never get time without his friends being there
2007-12-01 22:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by xxlilmisscxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely agree with Caveman. dont dump him, show him and tell him how you want to be treated
2007-12-01 22:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋