Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

I think that is the younger person is mature enough the age balances out. There are many examples of this that has worked. Hell Hugh Hefner and all his girls lol. What do you guys think?

2007-12-01 15:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by cutiesarah0909 2 in Singles & Dating

Will starting with a clean slate, really make her feel differently? Any advice will be good. I am told that I need to give her, her space but I always want to be close. We had a great dinner the other day and after talking for an hour afterwards she say’s…”this is why I want a divorce, we are so good to each other when we are friends, we treat each other with respect. We have no burdens on our shoulders.” Of course, Im thinking, “I don’t remember turning off the married button, actually we still are married.” but that would have ruined the moment. I am lost and confused….please help...I know I screwed up, but can it be fixed in the future?? Any opinions on that? Looking for new responses...do I have any hope?

2007-12-01 15:39:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My crush's b-day is coming up. And idk if i should buy him something. I mean on of my friends but i think they were kidding of giving him a kiss under the mistleo. But his b-day is in December and idk if i should give him anything. Should i? Oh yea, he knows i like him and i'm not sure if he's expecting me to give him anything... And he might like me back... but idk... should i give him anything?

2007-12-01 15:37:23 · 6 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Singles & Dating

i like long hair on guys. that's my favorite thing. i really like big, brown eyes, too. really white smiles. and he has to be tall. you?

2007-12-01 15:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband, me and my kids live in another state from all our family.This is our first year out of state. For Christmas, every year we have been together (11) we have always gone to my mom and dad's house. His mom lives too far away to visit and his dad lives in the same state as my mom and dad. This year is no different for we are driving to be with family on christmas. His dad just sprung on us that he wants us to be with him Christmas Eve at a resort sort of place. I said, no way...i'm not spending Christmas Eve at a hotel and having my kids wake up on Christmas with no christmas tree or family there. My kids are VERY close to my mom and dad and doesn't really even know his dad or his dad's new wife. My husband is pretty upset about this but I feel like i'm doing what will make my kids the happiest. I told him we can see his dad the day after Christmas or that his dad is welcome to come to Christmas at my parents house. Am I being unresonable about this?

2007-12-01 15:36:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so this guy I like is in the hospital and won't let his "friend" tell me why. And there's so much I wanna tell him but I can't call and I can't tell her (his "friend") anything bout what I wanna say. Cuz she could get mad at him. OMFG WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!?????? I'm literally and seriously crying. If you can help please reply!

2007-12-01 15:32:19 · 23 answers · asked by jade dragon 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I had been friends for two years we were really good friends and I would have done anything for her because I liked her a lot. I'm a really nice guy and I did a lot for her (Medicine when she was sick, always paid and drove when we did hang out, Flowers on valentines day, picked her up from far away places to bring her home, took her out to dinner, ETC. She used to call me almost everyday and I miss that a lot. When she turned 18 and got a car she and I don't talk much anymore:( We aren't very close anymore and I miss her a lot but she has obviously moved on, and I know I should to but I loved this girl and even though she didn't have any feelings for me I knew that I blew my chance by not telling her my feelings towards her. She knew I liked her though but I guess I was afraid that I would look stupid or screw up somehow by telling her that I liked her. Its been hard to move on from her because we have had a lot of fun times together. What can I/should I do?
thx

2007-12-01 15:31:54 · 2 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

beautiful angles or naughty sluts im confused

2007-12-01 15:30:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

25? 35?

2007-12-01 15:28:41 · 5 answers · asked by V 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married and faithful for almost 6 years with a daughter of almost 4. The problem is that I dont love my wife anymore, in fact I dont think I ever was. We live in the same house but live almost entirely seperate lives. We have nothing in common. I have lost all of my friends because either she 'didnt like them' or because Ive been getting depressed and distancing myself. I will never break my promise I made on our wedding day (to death) and I WILL NOT leave my kid. What can I do.

2007-12-01 15:27:07 · 30 answers · asked by .hey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im sick of it hes taken all the beer and dope, what is a girl to do?

2007-12-01 15:27:06 · 6 answers · asked by tra 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to the same man not 1x but 2x's. He cheated on me with my distant cuz and when we got a divor. they moved in together and had a child. I remarried him a few yrs. later. Since then he has cheated on my I know 2x's. Don't know if it involved sex or not. I don't think he's cheating now! However, for the last 1 1/2 yrs., the sex has gone from 2-3x's wkly to 1x a week. Never seconds. Only 1 round. I forgot to mention he is 16 yrs older than me. He will come home sometimes and not even say a word 2 me. Then the next day he may talk me 2 death. However, he does have funny ways!!
If I question him about something such as him calling his baby mama on the phone only when I'm not home, he catches an attitude. He thinks I'm just suppose 2 trust him, but he messed that part up! We never go anywhere 2gether like movies out 2 eat etc. I get tired of that. He will say he will do better, but don't.
I love him, but I'm tired of living like this. Am I being selffish or what?

2007-12-01 15:26:58 · 49 answers · asked by Slim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to find a boyfriend-material guy who is really attractive but have a hard time believing that he wouldn't be just running around with all kinds of women who are drooling all over him. Is there hope? How do you make such a guy commit?

2007-12-01 15:23:58 · 4 answers · asked by gorgonamedousa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 15:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by Blondie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Drink beer and flex my muscles while I'm on my porch?

Sometimes when I'm mowing my lawn I'll strike a pose when I see them getting their mail, do they like that also?

2007-12-01 15:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

russian wife

2007-12-01 15:23:20 · 9 answers · asked by Ga. boy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok guys, I have a stepmother that has been in trouble with the law, now she went to prison and did her time on parole and totally learned her lesson. Now every time she tries to get a job they tell her no because of this reason... I just need to know what your opinions are on this subject.. I mean don't you think they should at least give her a chance.. Oh ya she went to prison for drugs... But she is clean and sober now.. Please give me some help here...

2007-12-01 15:20:02 · 6 answers · asked by Brandy D 1 in Family

i need help, now its quite obvious this man is a scumbag for what he did to me. he did shady things and i used to question him about stuff and he never admitted to cheating of course and i actually believed him! he gave me HPV and felt so bad about it but my doctor said it doesnt meanm he cheated there is no test for men. sooo he felt so bad about that and stood by my side. anyway im fine now however he may or may not of cheated on me after i dont know the only reason i think he cheated is because someone told me but it all makes sense now.

the reason for my question is i have so much hate for this human being for telling me how much he loved me he showed me , he is a serial cheater he is the type of person that will always cheat no matter how he feels about a woman thats how i feel.

i just dont want to feel hatred because it makes me sick to think he would do this to me intentionally. does it mean it was intentional?of course we are no longer together and i will never be

2007-12-01 15:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my family is fighting with my relatives on my moms side again(uncle,aunt and grandpa). This happened when I was about 5 last time and the results were horrible. My dog was shot and my grandma died from stress. This time they moved near our house without knowing. When they realized this they started to start annoying us by turning things on loudly at night,ruin my moms garden and terrifying my dog. My parents are beginning to start retaliating. Even my 4 brother and sisters are starting to fight with my cousins. I told them to ignore them but they said I was only 12. My oldest sibling is only 16 anyways. How can I stop this before everything goes wrong? Also do you think everybody should be able to help decide what to do in a family?

2007-12-01 15:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I'm just not happy anymore. He's a work alcoholic and even his son said he wants his "daddy back for christmas". To deal with the stresses of being a work alcoholic, he drinks and often times it too much. I understand a drink or 2 after work but not the whole bottle. His drinking isn't even the beginning, I'm just not happy with our relationship anymore. I think we've out grown eachother and I just don't feel the same connection we used to have. We talked about marriage and having a child together oneday in the future, but I just don't see that future anymore. His work has taken over his life and he thinks money is more important then being with me and his family...he wants to give us materialistic things but I think time with us is more important. I don't live with him and I really only see him on the weekends but even then he goes into the office. I'm just not happy anymore. What should I do?

2007-12-01 15:14:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-01 15:14:22 · 11 answers · asked by Caleb K 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend told her that i thought she was cute. I dont talk to her too much. We make eyecontact sometimes, but I dont know how she feels about me. When my friend is by me (a girl) she calls her over and the cute girl smiles and told my friend that she was gonna be very shy the next day. So I cant tell if she likes me or not. Whats a good way to start talking to her?

2007-12-01 15:14:21 · 4 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

It's my man's birthday tomorrow and i want to surprize him. Guys, tell me what a girl has done that surprized you and drived you crazy.

2007-12-01 15:13:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am still bored so that's why I am asking these questions. Still waiting for someone to make it interesting.

2007-12-01 15:10:11 · 6 answers · asked by Ed T 4 in Singles & Dating

well me and my bf have just pecked. thats the fartest we've gone. when we kiss we kiss multiples of times at the same time but they're just pecks.i wanna take it a bit further and actually tounge kiss him. but i cant tell when he wants to?
i cant tell the difference if he just wants a peck or an actual tounge kiss?


any help??!!?!?

:)

2007-12-01 15:09:37 · 8 answers · asked by nancyluvsyou101 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in computer class... hes really nice, funny, and cute, and he always steals my mouse from my hand , its like a game. lol and he said that my hand was smaller than the mouse so we measured our hands together. and of course mine was smaller than his :) anywayz, wen we go down the stairs he pulled my backpack and i lunged back but he like caught my backpack and me) and the nextday it was raining and hes like dont fall! and pulled me back. even thow i wasnt gonna fall) i really like him but do u think he likes me or is he just goofin off? im the only girl he does this too but who else could he steal a mouse from im the only girl that sits behind him. and wen he makes me laugh we like look into eachothers eyes. :) do u think hell ask me out? he doesnt really talk to me to much but we do talk sometimes and theres that time wen he does somethang wen were walkin down the stairs lol.

2007-12-01 15:09:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl that is Hindu, She was cool and we talked for like 2 hours on Thursday just studying.The next day i we happen to come to the same room and study there again, we talk but she didn't give me any hints of being interested, but i still asked for her # she tells me no, since we live across the hall, she said stop by and visit me. I took that as lets be friends...i was a little mad, next day i saw her in the hall way and she was staring at me, i acted like i didn't see her, but today i saw her on the elevator, we talked...

I really like her, but she is Hindu, and I'm Christian...also I'm not sure if she likes me and i don't want to step outside my boundaries.

I was thinking of just mustering up some courage, and going to knock on her door on Sunday, asking her about her weekend, and saying look i really would like to get to know you outside of studying woud you want to eat with me? Is that cool ? What would be some good advice...

2007-12-01 15:09:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 15:08:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what are some things i can do to get my girlfriend to be more responsive...i mean i try to flirt with her and stuff but she just kinda sits there...i have talked to her to make sure everything is ok and she tells me it is but it seems like she never wants to do anything even if its just me having my arm around her while we are watching tv... what is going on?

2007-12-01 15:04:55 · 37 answers · asked by hockeyace39 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are 19 and we want to have sex but i just really want to wait until marriage... we've been together for 4 years and i'm starting to think that i might burst with sexual tension lol

do you have any advice? what can we do? or should i just give up on the whole sex after marriage thing? its not a religious thing for me, its just that i feel its right... but give me your opinions
thanks : )

2007-12-01 15:04:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating