i need help, now its quite obvious this man is a scumbag for what he did to me. he did shady things and i used to question him about stuff and he never admitted to cheating of course and i actually believed him! he gave me HPV and felt so bad about it but my doctor said it doesnt meanm he cheated there is no test for men. sooo he felt so bad about that and stood by my side. anyway im fine now however he may or may not of cheated on me after i dont know the only reason i think he cheated is because someone told me but it all makes sense now.
the reason for my question is i have so much hate for this human being for telling me how much he loved me he showed me , he is a serial cheater he is the type of person that will always cheat no matter how he feels about a woman thats how i feel.
i just dont want to feel hatred because it makes me sick to think he would do this to me intentionally. does it mean it was intentional?of course we are no longer together and i will never be
2007-12-01 15:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think he went out and was like hahah im going to cheat he had an alcohol problem i think that had to do with the cheating.
i mean i read suspicious emails but nothing with real proof and i believed his answers because i loved him and trusted him but i must admit i gave him hell for months about it with the questioning. we kinda broke up with eachother its a long story but even if he broke it off first i would of if i found out he cheated. i was ending it soon anyway.
i have read other peoples questions about this and it seems common. i made him get tested to but my negative thoughts take over my mind and i think hhm did he. i got retested for stds and i dont have any but i havent taken blood std tests for bout a year
2007-12-01 15:32:08 · update #1
niiki u have a rude awakening coming to you. there is NO HPV TEST FOR MEN. i am studying to be a doctor my ex went and the doctor looked at him like uh hello there is no test. THERE IS ABSOLUTLY NO TEST FOR HPV FOR MEN.
2007-12-01 15:34:18 · update #2
your a girl and u no nothing about hpv thats pretty bad girl seriously. there are no symptoms i had not 1 symptom not 1 and i got precancer from it.
there are not alwyas symptoms. look it up go to webmd.com no symptoms
2007-12-01 15:35:21 · update #3
by the way this question was geared more towards to let go of the hatred and hurt not to talk about stds. i dont think he wanted to hurt me and i know how much he cared about me the guy has problems. but i need to let go of the hatred towards him. i want to feel he had good intentions because we were together so long
2007-12-01 15:39:03 · update #4
It's not personal to you, it's just who he is. You're a good person, he just isn't. You're probably way too good for him and he can't stand it. He sounds disgusting [:
2007-12-01 15:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, in some states you can take him to court for giving you STD's HIV and/or AIDS and or different types of disease...he didnt tell you the truth and if he knew he had it and he didnt tell you, you could take him to court. if that is the case, get all the CORRECT INFORMATION that you can get. build up a case and take him to court. go get a good doctor that will test you and write out your medical history. get a good lawyer that will help you out with the case. but in the mean time, you have to forgive him. if you dont, it will eat you alive for as long as you are caring this hate you got for him. you must let it go and forgive him. dont forget!! that way, in the future this will never happen to you again. you wont let it happen. move on!!!! thats the best thing you can do. focus on yourself and health. that way you can make yourself better. then you can find a great man that with treat you like a QUEEN. ill be praying for you :-) keep your head up!!
dont defend him sweetheart...thats denial!!! if you knew he was cheating and you where having sex with him then you know. being drunk doesnt always mean your gonna be having sex with somebody else.
2007-12-01 23:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by texaslady24 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take in a deep breath and relax. You did the right thing by breaking it off with him. Some men have a problem, they just love women and can't commit to one. It's sad that this happened but you need to see it as a learning experience and move on. Don't Haber hatred for what he did, that's not going to help you, let it go.
2007-12-01 23:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THANKGOD YOU LEFT! yes what he did was intentional.. maybe giving you the std was not but still cheating cannot be unintentional or whatever... he fully knew of what he was doing.. good thing you got out of that relationship.. there would have been more trouble in the future
2007-12-01 23:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm 99.99999% certain that your mr man gave you the HPV and cheated on you. you will never get rid of th phv but you can eventually get over this skeeber. or go kick him in the nutzsac for good measure. best of luck sweetie
2007-12-01 23:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by cool breeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be fair to him to just assume he cheated on you without proof, but I also think it would be smart to not just trust him completely. I'd just be careful with him and not take any chances with him. Make sure he knows your trust is wavering and if he wants to break up with you, just dump him, if he says he's not going to dump you, but then tries to bed you, don't let him. Above all, don't let him fool you and then leave you.
2007-12-01 23:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The doctor told u what!????????? they dont have a test for men? yea right its called eyes! duh HPV is a pollup,on or inside the genital area so if u arent blind u can look at ur boyfriend's penis and if u see a cauliflower looking mass or a wart on his penis then u got it from him! and then check n make sure he wasnt doing the doctor......there's a test for EVERYTHING!
2007-12-01 23:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by nikkistarr79 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thank GOD i was holding my breath on this i thought you were still with Mr nasty hes a candidate for aids hes a walking time bomb
2007-12-01 23:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow cut his balls off
2007-12-01 23:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by inlovewithlife08 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
email me or i'll email you.
2007-12-01 23:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by God Bless America!~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋