Okay so this guy I like is in the hospital and won't let his "friend" tell me why. And there's so much I wanna tell him but I can't call and I can't tell her (his "friend") anything bout what I wanna say. Cuz she could get mad at him. OMFG WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!?????? I'm literally and seriously crying. If you can help please reply!
2007-12-01 15:32:19 · 23 answers · asked by jade dragon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't go to the hospital he lives about 1000 to 2000 miles away in chicago I'm in texas
2007-12-01 15:37:12 · update #1
..it might not be anything serious, you're most likely freaking out over nuffin
2007-12-01 15:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by krisamong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably dying and just doesn't want you to know ..as far as his friend goes i take it shes probably his real woman right? okay ..so you wanna tell him you love him etc bla bla bla okay.. without alerting his wife hmmmm lemme think ...you could pay an orderly to sneak you in late after hours or bribe him with some booty since you know, you seem to be pretty loose with that.... or you could just like call the nurses desk and tell them your his mother and you need to get a message to him,but that might not work...you could just sneak in late at night put on a nurses outfit you can buy them at a costume shop....oooh you know what i just thought of something he maybe has AIDS OMFG you might wanna get tested...good luck...
2007-12-01 23:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by bigdaddysnackfinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize.
Do not attempt to get a message through "his friend." Would it be possible to calmly contact his parents or another friend, and
A. ask if they know any of the details
B. as previously stated, admit that you really are worried about him, care for him, and/or would really like to speak with him
Praying that all goes well, perhaps it's a much needed wake up call to finally take action and use your voice. Best of luck.
2007-12-01 23:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by _____ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his friends a girl maybe there is something wrong with her that is why they're there? i don't know i think i need more information. his friends a girl/.. have they dated? I don't get it. dont' cry everything usually works out. sit it out and wait til you calm down. if u can drive wait until you're okay and go to the hospital too. Maybe something embarassing happened...like he stuck a pencil in his ear or something. he's probably okay. don't cry! I've wasted so much time crying over boys. not worth it
2007-12-01 23:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes in the hospital then just call the hospital and ask for **whatever his name is** and they should directly send you to his room phone...if he has one...if hes in a room....there are ways around this...slow down and breathe.
If his friend is a female and he doesnt want you to know anything maybe he is seeing this friend and doesnt want her to find out about you??? Ever think about that???
2007-12-01 23:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by nebthet1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the hospital, write him a letter, the hospital has visiting hours but if you write him a letter they can give it to him and you can come back at visiting hours.
2007-12-01 23:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, like just calm down and take deep breaths. Tell the friend you seriously care and really would like to know what's going on and want to talk to him.
2007-12-01 23:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by hershey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg first of all i am terribly. you must b terrified and thats okay. dont be afraid to cry. i am sorry but first you must try to relax theres really nothing u can do right now except prayy for him too be in good health. dont get mad at anyone justt pray for him and have hope.
sorry if i didnt help. =( feel better <3
2007-12-01 23:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a good reason why he wants to keep it private. it could be something that embarrases him. Since he is so far away, why not send him a nice card and let him know you are thinking of him. I know it is hard to respect another person's privacy when you are worried about them, but it is essential to the trust of a friendship.
2007-12-01 23:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by lisawithcats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash your face, blow your nose then haul yourself together. If you feel you can't speak to the guy, write a get well note. Put in that what you want to say but don't get overly sentimental and mawkish.
2007-12-01 23:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if there is anyway that you could call him or his parents then call him but if not go to the hospital and try to see him. Or you could write a letter and give it to his parents to give it to him once he's better
2007-12-01 23:35:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋