How to get over her? what am I doing wrong?........?

Question

This girl and I had been friends for two years we were really good friends and I would have done anything for her because I liked her a lot. I'm a really nice guy and I did a lot for her (Medicine when she was sick, always paid and drove when we did hang out, Flowers on valentines day, picked her up from far away places to bring her home, took her out to dinner, ETC. She used to call me almost everyday and I miss that a lot. When she turned 18 and got a car she and I don't talk much anymore:( We aren't very close anymore and I miss her a lot but she has obviously moved on, and I know I should to but I loved this girl and even though she didn't have any feelings for me I knew that I blew my chance by not telling her my feelings towards her. She knew I liked her though but I guess I was afraid that I would look stupid or screw up somehow by telling her that I liked her. Its been hard to move on from her because we have had a lot of fun times together. What can I/should I do?
thx

Answer 1

I THINK SHE LIKES U JUS AS A FRIEND N NOT AS A BOY FRIEND.
U must be showing signs tht u like hr as a BF.
In these cases ,gals mostly try to go a bit away from u.
So u must try n hide ur feelings dat u like hr if u want back hr friendship as b'fore.
I AM TELLING U ALL DIS B'COZ EVEN I HD BEEN IGNORING A BOY WHO WANTD OUR FRNDSHIP TO TURN INTO RELATIONSHIP.

Answer 2

We often make missteps when we are young and just trying to find out how to love and form relationships. But relationships and friends go through changes as we grow. You have evidently out grown this friendship.

You need to concentrate on making new friends and getting active. No matter how bad you feel, it is hard to dwell on it when you are around others having a good time.