I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago because i felt that we didn't have that connection anymore. I didn't feel special about him, he was just like any of my guy friends. But now whenever i see him i really really want to hug him, hold his hand, or make out with him. Is it normal to have such a strong physical attraction? Because when i think about it sometimes i get confused n think that maybe i do still like him. Help please?
2007-12-01 20:04:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh wait sorry not a week ago. It was 3 weeks ago... really bad at typing.
2007-12-01 21:10:23 · update #1
Don't worry what you are feeling is normal, quite often when people break up it is common to have some physical thoughts of affection. It is mostly because you were in a relationship and you had someone to feel that part of your life. When people do go back they normally find out very quickly why they broke up in the first place. Just focus on you for now, it will pass.
2007-12-01 20:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Reggie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its different for everyone i'm sure but I think that is pretty common... I broke up with a girlfriend last year that i'd been dating for 18 months and I'm still friends with her so I see her on occasion. I'm still desperately attracted to her phisically and I love her to death, but I know why I broke up with her and therefore don't want to date her... It sucks to be in such a situation, so I feel for you, i really do, but there are only 2 options... suck it up and get over it, or explore some "friends with benifits" scenario's... hope my similar experience might help you out...
2007-12-02 04:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, pick a side and stand on it. This guy has feelings too. You told him you don't want to date becuase there's no connection now you're debating that decision because of YOUR feelings.
This guy is a person. You can be attracted to him; that doesn't mean you have to date him. Personally I hope you don't because if you're this indecisive as to whether you even like him, he's in for a lot of hurt
2007-12-02 04:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well answer this, if he's like any other guy. how come you want to hold HIS hand and make out with HIM. whenever you see him.
yes you still have feelings for him. oviesly
2007-12-02 04:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by john Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who are u kiddin
it sounds as if u still have feelins for this guy
be true to urself and ur heart
ask him back out and see wat happens
u neva know wat mite happen
just take a risk it may be for the best
i wish u all the luck with this
=]
2007-12-02 04:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're just horny.
2007-12-02 04:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you prolly do.
2007-12-02 04:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋