Family & Relationships - 28 November 2007

They're awesome!

2007-11-28 07:06:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...the best boyfriend of my life is awesome..he is sweet and considerate and wae love the same things, including eachother...so there is NO problem!!! but my ex, which i have 0 feelings for tells me he is still in love wit me and thinks that we can work it out and that he cannot live with uot me and all dat mess, he his 21, my b/f now is 20 and im 20, jus to let u kno dat we rnt too young!! i want my ex to leave me alone n let me n my b/f now live our lives 2gether and be happy, but am i suppose to tell my ex so he will...i mean, i really dont want to hurt his feelings or be rude, but he wont take leave me alone for an answer...HELP!!!!

2007-11-28 07:05:35 · 17 answers · asked by kd_bug 2 in Singles & Dating

We got together after a week. We have a set of twins together. He stated that he was IN love with me since day one. I told him a month ago that I was IN love with him. He mentioned marriage within a year we've been together? We're both an aries, both originally from MS, met each other in TX.

2007-11-28 07:03:06 · 24 answers · asked by Jasmine R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i speank spanish so im the worst speller in english if is on computer

2007-11-28 06:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 6 years now, we have three kids. Yesterday he asked me a question about my past lovers. He wanted to know what I had done with them that I haven't done with him and what do I miss. I explained to him, it was a stupid question and did not think about things like that and had been so long. He got really upset and asked why I couldn't just answer the question.

Why would he be bring up and question about my past lovers, when it has been so long ago? What does this mean?

2007-11-28 06:58:47 · 78 answers · asked by lala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was a young guy the older ladies wanted their fun with me and now Im a little older and I like younger women. It seems natural to me.

2007-11-28 06:58:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

don't get why things can't just take off if you know all their is to know about the other before going out?Am i missing something?Do girls really have to initiate things?

2007-11-28 06:58:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 06:57:42 · 57 answers · asked by flowersinthewind 5 in Marriage & Divorce

of his old "roomate" and her children. Thing is they were given to him after we had been together for a while. He says he forgot about them & it was before we met, but the back of the freaking thing says 2006. We were living together by then.

Anyway...she used to call him all the freaking time & he would NEVER talk to her in front of me.

Why would he keep these? I have a feeling like he is not all that "interested" at home anymore. So what gives? Her number is still in his phone.

Her myspace clearly shows that some one she loved left her & she keeps contact with his family.

Am I just being paranoid?

2007-11-28 06:53:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a really hott ex named freddie he has gone out wit a real big how and my "friend" after me.I like 2other dudes my "friend keeps talking about him and im getting mad wat should i do

2007-11-28 06:50:55 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica H 3 in Singles & Dating

Please explain why you feel the need to get married. I myslef don't want to ever be married, because I truly can't compromise my lifestyle...I know thats sad, but I truly feel sick when I think of a women hanging around me all the time, everydya/night...that gets anoyying. I just want the sex and a little chit chat and thats about it...I do want a friend by, I don't want someone around mw or with me every single day.

2007-11-28 06:50:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when do i finally give in and break up with my bf? he is so mentally abusive but i love him! i know i can say the words "i am braking up with you" but it is the aftermath that i am worried about! i don't know if i am strong enough to leave him! what do i do...i have been back and forth in my head wondering what to do. i just don't know when enough is enough!?

2007-11-28 06:50:06 · 36 answers · asked by Fighter 1 in Singles & Dating

A lot of guys say that they like short girls because it looks better in the relationship but i think that, that doesn't matter as long as you both love each other and stuff. In the other hand i think that the guy always has to be taller than the girl at least not shorter than her!!

2007-11-28 06:48:36 · 22 answers · asked by Jeanette50 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend heard about an opportunity to become a stripper and asked me to do it with her. She said she wouldn't do it alone and I know that she really needs the money. I don't want to do it but I don't know a nice way to tell her.
I don't know if my family would approve of me doing something like this. And I know for a fact her mother wouldn't approve of her doing something like this. I really don't know what to do. She's 26 but I know this is still a really bad thing for her to do. Should I tell her mother? I know for a fact that strippers end up doing drugs and having sex with their customers. I don't know her mother that well so I don't really know what to say to her.

2007-11-28 06:46:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-28 06:46:20 · 33 answers · asked by RuffNTuff 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to get idea's for my mother to buy her something special but she has anything and everything What is a person to do in a situation like that? she want's some shoe's for christmas but I dont want to get her shoe's I want something alittle more special for her

2007-11-28 06:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by camp 1 in Friends

answer the question i ask before tht n ill give u 10 points to the best answer is hard to udnerstand cause i speak spanish


anyway i like girl with blue eyes with brown hair or blonde her can someone know a stae wer they r a alot

2007-11-28 06:43:19 · 19 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

In the bedroom, would you prefer to see your partner almost naked with sexy clothing or completely naked without any clothing at all? Which is sexier?

2007-11-28 06:42:17 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean if she truly liked me wouldn't she sleep with me for free. I'm not saying that she is always asking for stuff, but I know she expects it. So, isn't that like paying for sex? If i take her out I her laid, if i by her flowers I get laid. It's kinda like I'm leasing her, with the opsion to buy. I know that sounds bad, but thats what it feels like....I go buddies that say the samething. Any advice. Women won't even talk to a man unless her has a job, car, money and his own place. ( not at home)

2007-11-28 06:42:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 06:41:50 · 23 answers · asked by H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is dating another woman, living with her, actually. And it's obvious he was in love with her (he may still be). But I can't stop thinking about him and we are really good for each other. I could see myself being with him forever. But I know that because he's doing this with me (cheating), he's probably more likely to cheat in the future. He's told me he loves me before, and I always tell him not to tell me that, but I can't stop wanting to be with him. They're not married. They're having problems. (This is just me rationalizing.)

But how do you argue with love?
Unfortunately it sounds like a cliched affair (he'll leave her for me!), but it's different. I'm not expecting him to leave her for me. I'm expecting him to leave her because they aren't supposed to be together and they maybe we could be together. But I don't want him to lose interest in me so I can't stop the sex...


Help?

2007-11-28 06:39:26 · 18 answers · asked by Nada 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend who is so kind and generous and takes no for an answer is being used by her new boyfriend of 4 months. She cooks homemeade meals for him, and washes his clothes, and lets him park his cars at her home and he has an apartment of his own. He is mean, controlling, and just using her. She claims that she is not even serious or wanting to marry him and has a kid and her first hubby was a serious scammer. I want to say something to my friend, but what do you suggest.

2007-11-28 06:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Family

My best friend who is so kind and generous and takes no for an answer is being used by her new boyfriend of 4 months. She cooks homemeade meals for him, and washes his clothes, and lets him park his cars at her home and he has an apartment of his own. He is mean, controlling, and just using her. She claims that she is not even serious or wanting to marry him and has a kid and her first hubby was a serious scammer. I want to say something to my friend, but what do you suggest.

2007-11-28 06:37:33 · 4 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Friends

What if you KNOW that your partner will break up with you after you admit this?

2007-11-28 06:37:12 · 31 answers · asked by aais 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for (1) year. Every holiday his wife insists he spends it with her and their child. He previously committed to have Thanksgiving with me this year. But when I spoke to him two days before the holiday after a great (4) days of love together, he was not sure he would make it stating the wife was crying & crazy. I am divorced already and advised him to ignore her and let her take the child to relatives out of town as she first mentioned. She harassed him on the phone continually suggesting him to join them either by staying in a hotel or separate rooms at her families home. She also is aware of our year long relationship, and deserted him two years ago. I was angry at the uncertainty of our holiday plans and let him know. When I last saw him, he became angry and said he was going to divorce her but by himself. He told me he did not want to be in the middle of her and I. He asked me to leave, gave me a kiss & hug and said he'll call. He has not called yet.

2007-11-28 06:36:15 · 16 answers · asked by Sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how long did you know them before you tied the knot?
and how long have you been with them?

2007-11-28 06:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok it is my Uncles turn to host this years Christmas dinner.

However, there is a big problem....The food he serves is not only terrible in taste it is boarderline on making us sick.

My family insists on only the highest quality and most fresh food available (costly but well worth it to us) and we really do not want to have a crappy Christmas dinner.

Not only do we know it is going to taste crappy we are in fear that we may get ill. This guy shops for food at the 99 cent store and to us that is disgusting and unacceptable.

Money is not the issue because he is rich (rich and cheap lol!) and we could even pay for the food if we needed to.

What can we do?

2007-11-28 06:34:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i started looking for a wedding band, i like the dark shiny look of the titanium rings a lot but i guess they cant be resized if your ring size changes during your life, which it almost always does. i wasnt a silver looking band and was thinking about an alternative metal rather than white gold because it kinda looks like crap and loses its silver color after a few years. someone told me palladium dents and scratches easily so i was thinking maybe tungesten, does anyone know if that can be resized? if anyone knows of a good, objective buying guide for metals it would be appreciated. most of the guides ive found either sound unobjective or dont include tungsten and titanium

2007-11-28 06:34:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how did people react when they found out you were having it on a weekday?

i'm planning my wedding for august 2010 and it lands on a wednesday. since it would still be summer, would people show?

2007-11-28 06:32:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What is wrong with doing your own thing as long as you're not hurting anyone or inconveniencing them? If someone tries to do something that strays from the norm, even if it's just a slight difference, then it seems like everyone from the wedding industry to fellow brides acts like that person is committing the ultimate cardinal sin, simply for the fact that it isn't done in their tightknit social circle. If you want your wedding to be memorable and stand out to your guests, why have it be identical to the ones you've gone to before? Are some people just too afraid to step outside of the box for fear of the backlash they may get if they do so?

2007-11-28 06:31:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings