Older guys younger women, Older women younger guys, Is it natural this way?

Question

When I was a young guy the older ladies wanted their fun with me and now Im a little older and I like younger women. It seems natural to me.

Answer 1

Older guys are less immature and more satisfying.

Answer 2

I think what you are going through is perfectly normal. Older women like to be around younger guys because they are more care free I think. Just as older men like to be with younger women because those aren't the ones wanting families right away usually. Everyone wants a boyfriend/girlfriend that they can have fun with. As well as the younger partner makes you feel younger.

I have heard many times as well that men reach sexual peak in their late teens while women don't reach it till they are in their mid thirties. This also makes for larger distances in age in many relationships.

All I can say from personal experience really is that the older you get, the less age matters. When you are in your 20's, 5 years is a big difference where as when you are in your 50's, 10 years isn't much of a difference anymore. And if you are in Hollywood, there are no rules lol.

-Female 32

Answer 3

What's "natural" is what conduces to the reproduction and survival of the species. Thus, the fertility of younger women has always been based on basic evolutionary principles.

The reverse situation might be opportunistic where the older women might think the younger guys to be naive, pliable or capable of being bribed. John Kerry is an example that strains credulity: a man in his fifties who "falls in love" with a woman 5.5 years older. Could her billion-dollar net worth have had any part in the attractiveness? (His first wife "merely" had $300Million.)

Answer 4

It all depends on your personal preference,some people don't like how older men/women act,their parents might have an age difference of 10 or more years(mine are about 20yrs apart),personally I have a thing for guys 21-25(I am 27). As long as the person you are dating or trying to date is at least 18,there is no problem with it.

Answer 5

I think its a way to deal with our own insecurities. When we are in school, we are with people we grew up with that know a lot about us, even some embarrassing things, so we unconsciously seek out people who we can change ourselves around to feel more comfortable. Maybe going to the younger women is a way for you to feel like you're getting back the chances you lost in your younger days to date these younger women. Don't go to young though, a lot of trouble follows behind these acts. They aren't called jail-bait for no reason.

Answer 6

I am 35, and for over a year i dated a 19, now 20 year old.
It was fun, now i am dating a 45 year old woman, and boy o boy is that fun!! Older woman know what they are doing.

Yes, all dating is natural, dont put an age limit on any of it.

Answer 7

Older men and younger women is more natural than vice versa, and has been documented to contribute to human longevity!

Answer 8

well i i am 23 and my ex was 22 years older than me . now that we are through I am sleeping with a 19 year old . It feels do natural to me though I could never be4 with some one that much older than me again

Answer 9

My maturity level is low, well not that low, but still, and I like my women more mature then me.

When I was 18 I was this way but I was a mature 18 yo and dated a 38 yo. Learned alot too.

Now I'm 26 and I like another 26 YO, this is a first for me, but she is still more mature than me.

The number doesn't matter, lets face it, it doesn't.

Answer 10

Haven't you heard the old country song "Older Women"? LOL. You are completely normal! =) Enjoy life.

Answer 11

it's just who you are, they older women used you when you was young and now you want to play with the young girls. makes you feel young!