My best friend who is so kind and generous and takes no for an answer is being used by her new boyfriend of 4 months. She cooks homemeade meals for him, and washes his clothes, and lets him park his cars at her home and he has an apartment of his own. He is mean, controlling, and just using her. She claims that she is not even serious or wanting to marry him and has a kid and her first hubby was a serious scammer. I want to say something to my friend, but what do you suggest.
2007-11-28 06:37:33 · 4 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her,,,but dont push her away at the same time..It sounds as if she really needs you as a friend....It is really up to her to see the true colour......Try taking her out more..do more things with her. keep her busy if you can...show her what the real world is all about. Only time will tell, sometimes we can not change the things we would like to change....she has to see the light....
2007-11-28 06:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Latty D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing....you can't save a friend from making bad choices in a relationship (anything you said now would be dismissed out of hand), just be there for her when things collapse later on.
2007-11-28 14:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she seems old enough to make her own decisions. i would tell her straight up that you care about her, and if she rejects you, just let it be. she'll discover what will happen. sadly.
2007-11-28 14:39:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Better safe than sorry.
2007-11-28 14:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋