Please explain why you feel the need to get married. I myslef don't want to ever be married, because I truly can't compromise my lifestyle...I know thats sad, but I truly feel sick when I think of a women hanging around me all the time, everydya/night...that gets anoyying. I just want the sex and a little chit chat and thats about it...I do want a friend by, I don't want someone around mw or with me every single day.
2007-11-28 06:50:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You will live a very sad and shallow life and probably die of an STD.
Marriage is more then just having someone around, it is having someone that love's you, who can care for you when your ill, who will be supportive of you and your choices in life, will help pay for a house, who will be a lover for life, who will cherish moments with you, who will help you with problems, someone that you can share secrets with, someone that will love to just be near you, someone to talk too at 3:00 in the morning if that is what you need. The person who will give you a child a family.
I think your too young to understand the importance of having someone special in your life when you grow-up you will learn that having a sex life is not a life but an addiction.
Having a wife is probably the best thing that ever happened to me. Going home after a hard day at work and having someone that I can hug and kiss and a hot meal on the table well life doesn't get any better.
Plus if you do have a belief in God then you will come to the realization of your current lifestyle is a sin and makes you look like a selfish shallow jerk.
I hope you see the wrongs in your life and grow up what is going to happen when you pass away and God asks you what you did with your life. Right now you say duh I had sex with many woman and lived alone for my entire life listen to that sentence it doesn't sound happy does it.
God Bless and Best Wishes think about it it is not just a piece of paper it is a lifelong commitment to one person
2007-11-28 07:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will die a lonely man. Like I said you need to find a good man. There are reasons why we get married. It is to show others how much we love each other and are committed to one another however now a days it is not taken seriously. If we were meant just to have sex and a little chit chat then us women will be having kids from all different Daddies (they already have a few women like that) but there would be a lot more and that would make the world a terrible place to live in. You just need to time to grow up and mature. If you do not want to get married then that is fine one less woman out there who would be miserably married.
2007-11-28 06:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need an explanation? Is it so you can feel better about the choice you've made? Is there something telling you it's not a valid choice? Lots of people don't want to get married. If you don't want to, then don't, but don't try to pick apart other people's reasons for having the opposite opinion. Just live and let live.
2007-11-28 07:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you don't want a wife then why bother asking why you should get married. Don't make a woman miserable by getting married to her because society tells you then saying "Your annoying i just want the sex and a little chit chat thats about it".
So never get married. Why bother even dating?? Your wasting any person's time.
2007-11-28 06:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Hawai'i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well, how are you going to feel when your suffering in the lake of fire, would you change your mind then? that piece of paper will save you from the lake of fire, marriage and sex with your long life partner is suppose to be a gift from god and a beautiful thing, if your just looking for SEX and CHITCHAT your headed for some really BIG trouble, read the bible and you will know what i mean. if you don't want commitment then don't date.god won't bless a guy like you if this your way of thinking i feel sorry for you dude
2007-11-28 07:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not for you, it's not for you. Some people feel differently. Personally I've dreamt of being married since I was a little girl, and my husband the same. Starting a family was my biggest goal in life. Marriage just appeals to me.
2007-11-28 06:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think after awhile of this, you will see that it wont be fun no more, Remember the Fonzie! that will be you and after awhile you will want a woman beside you to love you unconditionally. Life always changes, you dont want to be the lonly sad guy all by himself. Trust me there is a woman out there that you will fall in love with, and you will ask her to marry you, maybe not today, but someday. I wish you lots of luck!
2007-11-28 06:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your decision entirely and there are a lot of women out there that feel the same way. At least you are willing to admit your viewpoint. Most men and women would take advantage of the situation and mislead the other to reach their objective.
2007-11-28 06:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people need something tangible. Also, they want it to be something more than what they have had before. Hopeful that it being more difficult to leave may give the time to heal the relationship first.
2007-11-28 07:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by Do You Trust Me? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least you will do some poor woman a favor by not marring her you must be a barrel of fun get your sex 30 dollars a go and just think you don't even have to talk
2007-11-28 06:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋