Family & Relationships - 28 November 2007

My boyfriend pointed that out and I just said at least I'm wearing one. Is it that bad if my bra is showing through my shirt? (It was a white shirt by the way)

2007-11-28 08:54:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

savageable, should I at least try it, or just go on with the seperation?

2007-11-28 08:53:08 · 24 answers · asked by Josh0607 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You greet a normally quiet coworker and asked her how she was doing. She said, a very soft-spoken, "Good, how are you". You respond and then, trying to be friendly, say that it's been a while since you've both talked. In response, she gets a "deer in the headlights" look, kind of appears to be searching for what to say, then kind of shrugs innocently and doesn't say anything. What would you think of her?

2007-11-28 08:52:27 · 16 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-28 08:49:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a man in the U.S. that is 20 years old, 21 in january, looking to move to europe. I am also looking to get married and settle down. So i figured why not try and save time and combine them together in one simple ad.

2007-11-28 08:48:45 · 4 answers · asked by laszlo_filename 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met the love of my life 7 months ago in my parents small town. He befriended my brother and was hanging around the house when I came up there on vacation. He was just getting off of drugs and trying to get his life back together. We had a connection that was unexplainable so he moved down to my city with me. Things were up and down but we got through most of our problems. He admitted that he needed to do things different and excepted that a lot of our fights were because of him. But now, somehow everything became my fault. The fact that he's being "followed" has something to do with me leading a "double life" which i'm not. If I read this I would tell the person get out, he's crazy. But does anyone else have any other ideas besides that? HELP

2007-11-28 08:46:28 · 1 answers · asked by Nora 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 08:46:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My situation briefly. I moved out of state for a good job (lower cost of living too). Was going to get an apartment and wife would fly out 2 weeks later.

In that 2 weeks she started talking to some 21 year old kid on a video game.... rather than move out she moved 1/2 way across the country to live with him.

Said she never loved me, made up a million excuses to justify her affair, said she would never come back, & that her new boyfriend are her going to be together forever and that he is "the one" and he makes her happier than I ever made....

After 3 years of marriage she just threw it all away. I never saw it coming because she always seemed affectionate, warm, loving and caring, always hugging, kissing and cuddling... even right before I left...

So it all hit me like a freight train.. I havent talked to her in the 2 mos she's been living with him. She refuses any communication/counseling.

I'm extremely depressed & lonely.. I tried counseling, it doesnt help much. What do I do?

2007-11-28 08:45:58 · 26 answers · asked by BlaBla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are having an outdoor ceremony next June. A pastor is marrying us, however, we dont want to focus too much on religion. Aside from the unity candle, what other special ideas could we incorporate for unity? Thanks!

2007-11-28 08:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by KarmaBaby 2 in Weddings

with a disability like let's say depression, or rheumatoid arthritis?

Let me know why, and the details.

Just don't say "no" but state the reason.

2007-11-28 08:42:58 · 31 answers · asked by * 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Links to pictures are a bonus.

2007-11-28 08:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Weddings

A couple of years ago I was seriously depressed and anti social. People who are experiencing depression isolate themselves from other people; the ones who are close to them and ones who try to get close to them. I didn't know it then but this guy really liked me and was too shy to speak to me so he had his friends try. one of his friends tried a couple of times, he walked up to me and I kept walking. another one tried to help me in class like 2 or 3 times and I didn't say thanks. another was walking up to me in the hallway and I turned around and walked the other way.
I know these things were rude and bitchy. I used to feel really guilty about them, I still kind of do. They cannot stand me. it shows.
they don't say mean things but I can tell by their body langauge and how they speed up when they see me.

Another one of all of their friends might go out with me. I don't want there to be tension. what can I do to fix things?
Guys, how would you feel if you were those guys?

2007-11-28 08:41:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like this guy and he knows it. and as always.. he doesnt seem too care that i like him. and ive never had a boyfriend soo i really want him too but my 1st (im 15 btw) and soo anyways he's in 2 of my classes and soo sometimes after 2nd period i take a long time packing up soo we can walk out at the same time and when we do i usually strike a convo with him. same thing on aim. when hes on and i have something too talk about then i IM him and we talk.. but i do most the talking and idk if thats a good thing. but i really like him and i wanna ask him out but i want to be asked by him. what should i do?

2007-11-28 08:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or should I wait until after we're married and change it. I want to pay as little as possible and avoid this so called "marriage penalty".

2007-11-28 08:40:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Or should I wait until after we're married and change it. I want to pay as little as possible and avoid this so called "marriage penalty".

2007-11-28 08:39:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girl and I have been dating for a year and in the begining everything was so perfect, until a couple of months when she began accusing me of liking girls that I never had interest in (such as her friend and my friend's girlfriend or she would accuse me of looking at other girls). We'd argue but I would keep my cool. there are times when it seems like it was resolved but she would find a way to bring back up again. Everytime we argue I explain to her that I dont like these girls and she's the only girl that I want to be with but she doesnt listen and insists on accusing me. We dont fight all the time, in fact when we're not fightning we're the happiest people on earth but she accused me so much that I just snapped one day and I started hitting her. After a while, we were both sorry for wat we did, but I feel like a monster and I regret it so much I know I was wrong and I promised to never do it again but the guilt still stays. We're strong now but it pains me that it happened.

2007-11-28 08:37:19 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im dating this boy in college and we really like each other but my dad doesnt like him because hes older what do i do im so stressed!!

2007-11-28 08:34:55 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever done to win over your mate?

2007-11-28 08:33:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I gave my boyfriend a BJ the other day and i was facing him while he was kind of sitting up on the bed, he wrapped his legs around me and was pulling me closer, why do you think he was doing this?

2007-11-28 08:31:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Punk girl or Nice girl or normal girl?

I have all that girls. But I can't choose one. I like them but .... One of punk girl look hot in punk. Nice girl look wonderful girl and she is same height as me. And Normal girl look nice to me as smart.
I can't choose... I like them but not that like... You know.... Love her...
Am I going pick punk girl? Or Nice girl or normal girl?
Please Help me....

2007-11-28 08:31:53 · 1 answers · asked by Zpider 20-0 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 08:31:10 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and lived together for the last year, recently we have been talking about getting engaged and starting a family next year (I am 24 and he is 28) He seems really keen on starting a family and would do it now if I would let him. I want to be engaged first and would like it to be soon, I have been talking about us going ring shopping and he says yes, but just doesn't seem all that keen? Any ideas why?

2007-11-28 08:29:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

....again? I have always believed that if a man was that curious or unhappy or whatever the case was to make them cheat and their woman took them back then they EVENTUALLY start to stray again and know that there IS a possible chance that their woman would forgive them again. Even if your girlfriend/wife was the love of your life.


This DID NOT happen to me I am having a debate with my coworker. She believes that men tend to venture out but then regret it and want to come back home. I believe that if they do come back home and their woman forgives them then they're asking for trouble in the future with the start of trust issues.

2007-11-28 08:28:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I posted this online ad on this dating service,Not sure if I would actually go meet someone from there (my luck I'll get the one who is a serial killer) anyways so this guy that I talked to once, but I can look at his profile has changed his city 3 times. I thought I was losing my mind because it said 1 city and then it changed... but then it changed again. Do you think he does it according to the women he talks too? where their located? Should I stay away from this one? It's odd...

P.S this is kind of a question! txs

2007-11-28 08:28:01 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 08:26:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you think of long distance relationships?

2007-11-28 08:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies - do you like your man to make a mess, or should he take care to avoid "spillages"?

2007-11-28 08:22:00 · 15 answers · asked by Brown Eyed Handsome Man - AM 2 in Singles & Dating

For an example: I don't see a lot of people giving out oodles of stars on Yahoo, but I do see lots of comments that are critical of the asker--some deserved, but a lot are not--like one that told the asker that she 'WASTED POINTS' asking her questions, implying that she shouldn't ask. (They are her points, she can use them if she wants!)
People need encouragement and compliments. And it doesn't cost anything extra!

2007-11-28 08:21:18 · 7 answers · asked by gentlesoul 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I got married young {I was 16 and he was 18}, and were constantly fighting! He is an alcoholic and I would be mean to him cause I HATED the fact that he was always drinking. It just wasn't one beer like he would go overboard!! So about a month ago he told me to leave and I DID! For the first week he was pissed and was drinking more. Now he wants us back, I told no not until he gets help and stays sober....... But until then what should I do? Should I talk to him occasionally or not talk to him at all until he shows me that he wants to change. Like he wants to talk to me every night, I am just confused!! He also like wants to take me to dinner and stuff like that.... I just don't want him to think that he can do whatever he wants and then weekends spend time with his part-time family! I want him to get help but for him not so I can come back. I want him to do it for the "right reasons"..
I recognized my mistakes and I am seeing a therapist, I know it takes two to tango.

2007-11-28 08:17:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me too.
How can I hint to him that I like him?
Or should I just ask him out?

2007-11-28 08:16:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating