Family & Relationships - 28 November 2007

Before my boyfriend, I was always very confident.Then he cheated on me ,we broke up , He told everyone i cheated on him! And all my friends beleived him!! and started saying how afwul I was and started talking about me, And when i tried to say it was the other way round, People started to hate me etc! I dumped those '' Friends'' and made new ones, But I dont have any ' Best friends' anymore, Which is upsetting enough, adding the fact that everyone thinks I'm some ****, and they all sympathise for him, When It was me who was hurt and innocent! And lots of peopel started to say I was just an ugly tramp, Some people insisted it was jealousy, But now they;ve made me think I am worthless and ugly and every1 is better than me, even though i know they arent!!! I hate myself =[

2007-11-28 08:14:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation. I am dating a guy who is quite a bit younger than me. I'm in my 30's and he's in his 20's. I have been having so much fun with him lately but I have been neglecting my responsibilities. I don't want to end this thing I've got going with him because I really like him, but I also don't know how to tell him that we are going to have to slow down because I have too much going on in my life to keep acting like this. I've been spending way too much time at his house drinking and playing video games. I know that it's been so long since I've had a nice fun relationship, and I am really enjoying myself but I feel like I'm not acting like myself anymore. Is it okay for me to keep having fun or should I try to be a grownup again?

2007-11-28 08:09:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

From the amount of questions that lead to infidelity or away from the marriage, is this considered a major cause or a symptom of something bigger?

2007-11-28 08:09:30 · 13 answers · asked by Yankee Micmac 5 in Marriage & Divorce

you shoot him down then joe dumps you then you have feelings for Mick and you want to tell him but you were too scared to tell him when he first asked you. now you have feelings for him. Now the big thing is that all 3 are stoners. i know this but Sally, the you, wants to know what mick will feel like. they have no problem that sally doesnt do drugs, but she does smoke. so, if saly says that she likes Mick, what will mick say?

2007-11-28 08:07:57 · 5 answers · asked by Lee Danu 2 in Singles & Dating

Plz tell me what I should do and how could i tell if he's gay?

2007-11-28 08:05:33 · 21 answers · asked by LoveWillTearUsApart22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-28 08:00:41 · 9 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Singles & Dating

I can't figure out if I just want to go to the justice of the peace or have a small wedding. I don't really want to spend all that money but I do want a wedding. What should I do?

2007-11-28 07:59:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

was married 24 years and recent divorce mostly feeling intimacy died.

2007-11-28 07:59:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anna 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend said this today and I thought this was RIDICULOUS.

Your thoughts?

2007-11-28 07:55:46 · 34 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

I love my boyfriend, But I caught him cheating On Me, Hes had A rep in the past Aswell,,

BUT I'M IN LOVE WITH THE MAN! I CANT GET ENOUGH!

2007-11-28 07:55:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi im getting married dec 29 and i thought since we dont have a lot of money and its around christmas that i would just put the time and date and place in the christmas cards we send out does this sound way to cheap

2007-11-28 07:54:53 · 13 answers · asked by jna1105 3 in Weddings

2007-11-28 07:53:03 · 4 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf has told me a few times that he is starting to fall in love with me. Neither of us have ever been in love before (Im 28 and he is 25) and I feel like he is someone that I could fall in love with...i already feel that i love him. The question is, because he has said that he is falling in love with me, does that mean he already loves me? I know that there is a big diff between loving someone and being in love with someone....

2007-11-28 07:51:43 · 2 answers · asked by Miss R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know a bi girl and she gets names called out to her in the street coz of wat she was born as, she can't help it! And the thing is she has resorted to slitting her wrists! wat do i do to help her!?!

2007-11-28 07:51:35 · 5 answers · asked by :] cutie pie 2 in Friends

its like i wouldnt want to hang out with someone whos like me (without getting to know me, because if you got to know me i can be really fun and stuff). I cant change it. help me D:

2007-11-28 07:51:15 · 1 answers · asked by s_02 5 in Friends

have a lot in common with and she has a great personality?

2007-11-28 07:49:42 · 3 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Singles & Dating

That is what is written in the wedding card.

Do they mean I am gonna put water on them or something?

2007-11-28 07:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

For the wedding??

2007-11-28 07:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

my 'boyfriend' and I have been seeing each other for 3 months.

Normally I go to his, and stay over. But Sat eve he came to mine, we had dinner, watched a film. Then had sex ...

After he said he was unsure about gettting close to someone and was going to catch the last train home.

Just the evening before he'd taken me to his sisters and had been showering me with affection.

Am I right to feel hurt and what should I say?

2007-11-28 07:45:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all, I know for a fact that he hasn't been married before, and does not have any kids either.Well I'm 20 and he's almost 32. We were seeing each other casually and I ended up getting preg. about a month after we met, I'm 5 and half months preg. now. The thing is that before I got pregnant, he would always look for me, was very sweet, wanted to see me all the time, and even asked me to be his girlfriend; i always said "no" because i didn't want anything serious. Plus our sex was great too. Things changed when i told him I was preg. because he was in denial, mad at me, confused, etc and. would pressure me to decide if i was going to have an abortion or not; plus he would tell me that we were just seeing eachother and that i wasn't even his gf, etc. After I decided to keep the baby he got more calm, but wasn't as close or sweet as he use to be. Now, we do still see eachother but not as often, but when we have sex, he hardly touches me, and is not as interested as b4 and idk why??

2007-11-28 07:45:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has finally confessed to her affair with some Jewish guy...mostlikely a criminal. I want to keep the marriage working, it's hard to imagine her being intimate with another man...scum at that. Need assistance in making this pass as I am in the process of forgiving her and want this to pass...any advise or thoughts on how to move pass this?

2007-11-28 07:45:01 · 10 answers · asked by Get Even Steven 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok we r getting married Feb. 22 and my fiancee is makin me so mad!! i just got this job and my partner in the job is a guy ( hes older like 40-45) I'm only 18, my fiancee is mad about having a guy as my partner and he doesnt want me to take the job, but i do need the job...what can i do!? i would never cheat on my fiancee for nobody, .. he says hes trusting me with a lot of stuff but i told him how can we get married if the trust isnt fully there!? he continues to say " WELL I HOPE YOU CHANGE CAUSE WE R GETTIN MARRIED"... Also i plan on going to school to become a EMT/Paramedic and he is like " why dont you go to become a nurse?" ITs like no matter what i want is not good enough for him! Please help!

2007-11-28 07:44:35 · 25 answers · asked by MiSsLady1617 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would say around 30

2007-11-28 07:42:52 · 7 answers · asked by Bob Dylan 2 in Singles & Dating

Well at my school ther is this girl shes really pretty but were more like friends but now whenever im around her she starts acting stupid like she's drunk and whenever were walking together she walks right close to me and gets involved in my conversations even when she doesnt know what its about what does this mean?

2007-11-28 07:42:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i actually want it more than my husband, is that weird?

2007-11-28 07:42:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anna 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need ideas

2007-11-28 07:42:00 · 16 answers · asked by jdesey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've written a poem for my sister for her 30th birthday. I want to do something special with it. Sometimes she burns the edges of the paper and it looks really neat but I don't want to copy her own idea. Any suggestions???

2007-11-28 07:37:29 · 14 answers · asked by redsonya 1 in Family

Is is sex, money, secrets......?????????

2007-11-28 07:37:01 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He says I gave up a right to a life of my own when "I" decided to have kids. He says I'm a bad mother because I spend more time working than I do with the children. However, I'd be willing to stay home if he was willing to provide an avenue for that. It hasn't happened yet so why keep insulting me? I'm doing the best job I can and contributing financially to the household. He told me I was emotional and selfish and that I should grow up so my children won't be losers.

I told him he is really hurting me and that I don't understand why he is so hard on me.

How do I deal with an emotionally abusive husband who feels he's perfect and that my feelings are stupid and just an excuse to feel down?

2007-11-28 07:36:43 · 18 answers · asked by That Deal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-28 07:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating