I love my boyfriend, But I caught him cheating On Me, Hes had A rep in the past Aswell,,
BUT I'M IN LOVE WITH THE MAN! I CANT GET ENOUGH!
2007-11-28 07:55:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darling once a dog always a dog...nothing will ever change until he turns 60 years old then thats when you will see the change...r u going to spend the rest of your life being sad...we all want to be happy....something tells me that this man is not for you..there is plenty out there..get out now and end the pain..you will always find love later on....good luck to you...
2007-11-28 08:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put up with getting cheated on again
but if you believe it's the best thing to do then stick it out!
just avoid argument about the cheating because that will end the relationship and make him hate you
or you can just leave breaking up is the hardest
thing to do
but honestly there always someone out there better
2007-11-28 16:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by Neeca L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel u and i totally understand u i was in that same boat 2yrs ago i loved my boyfriend some much he cheated so many times and i was hard 2 trust him but i got through it he changed weve been 2gether for almost 4yrs now and have a 5mnth old son if u love him u would stick but there's only so much u can take u just have to hope ur worth changing 4 dont feel bad i experience everything ur going through
2007-11-28 16:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by gossip gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is his present? Is he good - having true love with you? You said something about his past. What was it? What he says about it or what you know about it? If you think that he is a good man; he had reason in the past for the split and has good love with you in the present to join you, you may accept him. After all nothing is permanent in this world. Think well and decide.
2007-11-28 16:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Raja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with yourself if you dont trust him its not going to work. Even if he isnt cheating on you your not gong to believe him and that is going to push him away. in order to save your friendship you should just end it now while you know that you dont trust him. Because i have learned from an entrusting relationship myself no matter how much you talk to him on the phone or how long he is on the phone with you there will be nothing he can say or do to make you believe him that is something you are going to have to find within you. Good luck just know when its time to move on women waste so much time and energy on things and people they know themselves isnt good for them.
2007-11-28 16:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lady M&M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is no trust, there is no love. I think you are in love with the chase of him. He's an unattainable quest for you and that's what's turning you on. Stop wasting your time on a guy that will just hurt you in the end, and make you ask how to move on.
2007-11-28 16:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by myluv115 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to wake up...ding! ding! ding! I can assure you,you're not inlove with himyou think you are but you're not you INFATUATED with him.... why are you in a relationship with him again? he'll cheat on you left and right, and you're not going to say anything about it aren't you? I'm not giving you ****, I want you to realize that he WILL hurt you, if he hasn't already, You're going to end up on his conquered list, don't be his statistic. He had no respect for the other girls he cheated on, he certainly won't have repect for you neither. I hope you can come to a positive conclusion on this matter. All the best!
2007-11-28 16:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling you to leave him is pointless. I know bc I've experience this kind of attraction. But, I would tell you at the very least to protect yourself from disease and pregnancy because believe it or not you will eventually get over him and you don't want to carry a package (HIV/Aids) for the rest of your life. Have fun but be safe.
2007-11-28 16:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either you can completely forgive him or move on with your life and give a him a chance, or you can just continue to be with him since you claim you are so in love with him and struggle with your distrust everyday you are with him. There is no other answer so you need to decide what you can live with.
2007-11-28 16:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by dladiesgentleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but either way you're going to be hurt! You deserve to have someone who can make a commitment and stand by it at all costs. You're devotion and love is worth that, at the least!
2007-11-28 16:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by ~ luv sis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋