My bf has told me a few times that he is starting to fall in love with me. Neither of us have ever been in love before (Im 28 and he is 25) and I feel like he is someone that I could fall in love with...i already feel that i love him. The question is, because he has said that he is falling in love with me, does that mean he already loves me? I know that there is a big diff between loving someone and being in love with someone....
2007-11-28 07:51:43 · 2 answers · asked by Miss R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have always been in love to veryin degress all your life that isn't the point, NOR does him saying "I love you" mean a damn thing, its three words. That aside realize he loves you, he is failing in love with you, but unless you ASK HIM, your never going to be real sure HOW he is loving you. Love, everyones got, HOW TO LOVE, most people have no clue.
Also realize the differece between loving someone and falling in love, is a matter of assoicating feelings. Loving someone, you feel only for certain things about them and only assoicate them with certain feelings in you. When you fall in love the process becomes like a storm of associations. So its just a bigger degree of loving you, to the point, that it because a cascade of possiblilities, hopes, dreams, ideas, expectations, and much, much more. You'd know thou, so you having doubts outside him saying it, scares me, best of luck....
2007-11-30 08:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naw he loves you, he's just easing into telling you!
Good luck!
2007-11-28 15:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋