I need ideas
2007-11-28 07:42:00 · 16 answers · asked by jdesey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Communicate. Tell her "I love you" every single day. Help around the house. Share experiences with her. Respect her. Most important of all: listen.
2007-11-28 07:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that "deeds speak." When you cook for someone it is a very intimate service to them. If you look at them every day in a special way. Touch your wife in the only way a husband can touch her. Do the stupid things. Do the funny things and tell really bad jokes. I think this would be a start. I like doing the things that I would do for no other woman except the woman that I marry.
2007-11-28 08:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just be myself.
But to be myself, I am a good partner to her. I carry my share of the housework. I sometimes do more than what some people might consider a fair share, because my wife works 4/10 shifts, and I know she's dead tired at the end of a very long day.
2007-11-28 07:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by gromit801 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really a silly question. You have been with this woman longer than a day, right? She has told you several times, you need to listen. Have you got guilt now? Just be a good man and the rest will fall into place. Think hard what is a good man? That should do it for you.
2007-11-28 07:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by jalwells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I treat her good, bring home flowers or a card a few random times a year, take her for nice dinners at random and try to give her a break around the house once in a while by doing the work myself for her.
2007-11-28 07:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what my hubby does to make ME happy:
- Calls me from work just to say "Hi"
-doesn't take anything personally if I'm grumpy due to period
-will do thing equally around the house like cook, clean, watch the kids, because we BOTH work
make sure I am SATISFIED- (if you know what I mean!)
2007-11-28 07:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with her, love her, show her how
much I really care, help around the house,
cook for her, take care of her, support her,
defend her, go shopping with her, and anything
else that a husband and wife do togeather, and
that is why she is still with me for over 20yrs.
2007-11-28 14:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont do anything, my wife is happy from the fact i am home. i do things like randomly show up with a gift or a trinket or take her to a fancy resturant (John Hancock's downtown chicago) cause i love her
2007-11-28 07:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by DJ M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate, do things without her having to ask you to do them. Do the little things like helping with cooking & cleaning.
If you have kids, help with taking care of the kids. Don't expect her to do everything.
Talk with her, if something is bothering you, let her know, if something is bothering her, and she's talking, LISTEN. And don't yell. Don't be critical, because if you do, she's going to feel like she can never meet your expectations.
Don't expect her to give you sex whenever YOU want it. Because if you do that, she's going to end up resenting you.
2007-11-28 07:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her. Love her. Talk to her and don't ignore her. Give time to her interests. Don't dismiss her ideas. Do romantic things that make her feel loved.
2007-11-28 07:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋