So I posted this online ad on this dating service,Not sure if I would actually go meet someone from there (my luck I'll get the one who is a serial killer) anyways so this guy that I talked to once, but I can look at his profile has changed his city 3 times. I thought I was losing my mind because it said 1 city and then it changed... but then it changed again. Do you think he does it according to the women he talks too? where their located? Should I stay away from this one? It's odd...
P.S this is kind of a question! txs
2007-11-28 08:28:01 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so I'm not losing it...it's very strange I promise to stay away...txs everyone for your (honest) answers!
2007-11-28 08:34:28 · update #1
This is creepy indeed! Why do you have to meet someone from the internet. Just go out with your neighbor or something. It's safer! Or go out with me! I'm safe.....at least safe enough!
2007-11-28 08:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a bit strange! I've done online dating as well and have met some very nice people but there is a fair share of weirdos. In this case where he is changing his city often, he is probably trying to qualify to be a valid search for more women to see his profile (since people usually use city as a criteria when searching). It seems shady and a bit dishonest. If you are interested, ask him point blank. See how he stutters out an answer. I'm sure you will use good judgment in deciding if it's legit. If it's shady in any way, abandon mission! There are many men out there!
2007-11-28 08:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have done the online dating thing several times and have never seen anyone change something like that nor has there been any reason for myself to change something like that. One change could mean he is going to move there and getting a head start but 3 times... Actually, when I considered moving somewhere I did not change my city, you just need to change your search. I say no way talk to this guy. I would wager he is even using a fake pic too. You should always be alert but when a red flag goes up then there is no reason to ignore it. Be careful and I would not mess around with this one. And you've heard it before, never meet anyone in a non-public place.
2007-11-28 08:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Merlin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. Maybe you should stay away from the guy. I mean have you even seen him in real life? You never know who might be behind the computer o_o And online dating services aren't too healthy! Especially if you got some bad feeling about the person. Changing cities... Do they change their age too? >.>; Well, just try to stay away or something.
Hope that helped. :)
2007-11-28 08:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by Hi... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay away from the dating services, there could be a lot of creeps out there waiting for someone like you. you will meet someone in your own town or city, you just have to stop looking, and the right one will come along.
2007-11-28 08:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by poohbear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do think it's creepy. You need to allow yourself to see the red flags. He is not the only man available for you to date. You need to listen to your inner voice and stay clear of this one. What dating site are you using? I think you might need to pick a new one altogether. You should report your concerns about this guy to that dating site, as well.
2007-11-28 08:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Candii JoJo is a groovy chick. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A BIG RED FLAG should go up in your mind. That is very suspicious. I agree with you that he is probably changing his 'address' to match the city of the person he is chatting with. If so, he is dishonest and a poser....you don't want anything to do with him.
2007-11-28 08:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should definately trust your intuition. There is a reason you are feeling this way about him. Your instincs are telling you to stay away. He sounds very shifty. Good luck
2007-11-28 08:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
online dating is for the birds. too many crazy people to take the risk and you noticing something like that makes you smart and you should be smart enough to ditch the online drama and find yourself a good boy.
2007-11-28 08:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by lilblueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um Yes you should! What a freaking physcho path you could be dating. Seriously save your butt because it's a hill of beans out there.
2007-11-28 08:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋