Will my baby daddy and I be married within a year or two?

Question

We got together after a week. We have a set of twins together. He stated that he was IN love with me since day one. I told him a month ago that I was IN love with him. He mentioned marriage within a year we've been together? We're both an aries, both originally from MS, met each other in TX.

I don't see him as being my baby daddy. He's my heart, my love, my everything. I do believe that he is my soul mate. He mentioned going to the court house then about 5mths later he was going to propse to me on Valentine's Day but I moved to another state before Valentine's day (and I didn't do it because I didn't want to be with him, or that I didn't want to get married, but because we talked about moving)

he's not the one who wants to wait. I say in a year or two is because when the money is right and our twins are one I want them to walk with me down the isle. If I mention to him about going to the justice of the peace he would say let's go. But he hasn't actually ask me and maybe that's another reason why I'm waiting. I want to hear how he ask me because this will be my first time getting married, so that's important to me. (I think)

I'm 22 will be 23 in April. He's 27 will be 28 in March. and he did not tell me that we will be married within the next 2 years. I just said 2 years.

Answer 1

why wait, if you both want it and you guys have kids... go down to the court house and say i do -- no need for a big wedding, have close friends and family witness your marriage and have cake and punch afterwards

the size of your wedding will not determine whether or not your marriage will last

Answer 2

You have to ask him why wait a year. You both obviously love each other and have made a commitment. You even children together. I think you should talk to him seriously and ask why the wait? You both know what you want and specially now that you have kids you have to close this deal that is so important to a relationship. Make sure he gives you a good enough reason to wait otherwise push a little to have this done. It's the best for your kids.

Good luck

Answer 3

well if you really want to get married now go down to the court house.. in a few years have a second wedding on your anniversary and then the twins can walk down the isles with you..

Answer 4

Sounds like a possibility.

God Bless and Best Wishes really should have gotten married before having the kids.

Answer 5

Set the date and see what happens in the 2 years.

Answer 6

Don't worry, we did everything the wrong way round! We had our daughter, moved in, got married after 3 years and she was our bridesmaid!. Don't push things it will happen when the time is right. What would be nicer than your twins walking down the aisle behind you?

Answer 7

Let's see--

having kids *before* marriage - check.

calling the father "baby daddy" - check.

thinks astrology is helpful - check.

wants toddlers involved in ceremony - check.

Yup - you're under 22, all right!

Then this link is just for you!

http://www.msu.edu/~vandrag2/8-ball.html

Answer 8

I think this is a question best asked of him. And I don't see what astrology has to do with it, it's a bunch of crap. But I wish you the best. If he says he loves you, then he shouldn't have any problem getting married, especially if you have kids.

Answer 9

Prehaps,
Try yo see how you guys get along with each other first.
I think thats what he is trying to see....
Just don't forget: Just because you guys have children together, doesn't mean you have to be together.
Just saying, if you are uncomfortable about being with him.

BEST OF LUCK

Answer 10

im confused. he told you that you 2 were getting married within a year.

how are we supposed to know the time frame?