Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

2007-11-26 16:02:26 · 12 answers · asked by canyou-feelit 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my mid-forties I am 5'4" weighed 126 pounds (57 kilos) before two kids now I weigh135 (61 kilos) and my husband is not happy with that.

I got down to 129 pounds a couple of years ago, through a lot of effort, but he barely acknowledged my efforts. I don't think my husband will ever be happy with me. He's an elite-ist and yes he stays in shape by running.

A snowboarder hit my knees hard three years ago so I can't jog any more without causing a lot of pain. I walk 2.5 miles 5 days/week.

He has repeated told me I'm fat and occasionally mentions divorce. He doesn't refer to my fattyness (out loud anyways) as much as he used to, but I can tell that he doesn't love me. He does not treat me with respect.

This has hurt me so deeply over all these years. I don't think I'll ever be thin enough for him. I can't stand him so much that I wouldn't want to lose the weight for him. I want to lose weight so I can fit in my clothes.

Am I kidding myself?

2007-11-26 16:00:37 · 15 answers · asked by cashew 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 15:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by kicks139 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They took it because my sister was playing with it, and the only reason was because she had stolen my keys to the lock! Now they think I was letting her shoot at her "sworn enemy" and won't give it back no matter what! What should I do?

2007-11-26 15:57:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance' and I have been having some disagreements on where to have our wedding. He wants to have an outside wedding and I want it in a church. I don't want an outside wedding because our wedding is in the middle of summer and because I promised my dad that I would get married in a church. What can we do to agree on something that we both like?

2007-11-26 15:53:39 · 18 answers · asked by Ali 3 in Weddings

My mother is 49 and she started smoking few years ago with her female friends who were smoking cigars always. As the time was passing by , she used to smoke more and more every day without any of her friends. She started to buy cigars and her smoking increased rapidly i don't know why. Smoking cigars is now regular for her and i noticed that she is inhaling a lot smoke and less exhaling. And that is what bothers me, every day is more smoke in our house and she just can't stop it... Why is that happening?

2007-11-26 15:51:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My Cousin and his girlfriend of a year recently broke up, she found out he cheated on her. Her and I were good friends so I was the first one out of the family she called about. After a few days she wanted to hang out with me, go to the bar with me, and affiliate with me with everything. She knew I was looking for a new place to live because I wasnt getting along with my current roomate, so she asked me to come move in with her. Is she taking a liking to me now? Or is it she is just clinging on to anyone that reminds her of my cousin? I got that feeling she was, and I started to feel the same away, but I pushed myself away thinking like that. Do you think she is coming on to me now?

2007-11-26 15:51:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we had a fight. i slapped him. he slapped my right cheek. then my left cheek. and i felt something warm all over my mouth. blood was all over my mouth. and then blood was all over the floor. i cannot understand what i am feeling right now

2007-11-26 15:48:46 · 53 answers · asked by ~Amor~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he doesnt have a computer either... what about that???

2007-11-26 15:48:03 · 4 answers · asked by Nick E 2 in Family

2007-11-26 15:43:42 · 5 answers · asked by jeannieboop 4 in Singles & Dating

okay... im 18 years old and i lost my virginity @ 16. my frirst was my only sex partner for about 6 months. then my boyfriend after him, were together for 2 years and of course we were sexually active. now im currently dating a new man and we've been together a year. it's a long distance relationship and have only had sex ONE time... which was back in march 07...
he is the biggest that i've ever had... being that we are in a long distance relationship and it has been such a long time since i've had sex... it's obviously gonna hurt being that its been such a long time...what can i do to not ruin his enjoyment or mine when i go see him next month?

2007-11-26 15:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by glamorous 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-26 15:39:22 · 20 answers · asked by Supadan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing this wonderful woman, she says she is to weak around me and we did do a little to far, but I really didn't want to, just trying to make her happy.

Why do I feel so good now that we said we should move on? I should be upset or sad.

She really was great but didn't call or give enough to make love happen, that's about all I can think of.

I really can use your thoughts on this one!

2007-11-26 15:38:53 · 24 answers · asked by sactown s 1 in Singles & Dating

alright, i have this hige crush on this guy who goes to my school. we started going out and hes a grade younger then me. but we havent talked in like 4 days. hes ignoring me. and, idk why. i think its stupid when guys play hard to get. but he has this ''friend'' who he talks **** about but there friends. and im guesing his friend got to him and is telling him stuff. bad stuff. so now he wont talk to me. but im ignoring him too. and i realize that i dont want to go on doing that. i either want to brake it off... and talking to him isnt a option. so idkk.. i need help..

2007-11-26 15:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-26 15:37:07 · 12 answers · asked by feelin' blue 2 in Family

i met this girl and i really like her. we decided to go out and date. we been together for 3 months now. but she is in another state for college. i love her to death and she tells me that she loves me all the time. her mom dont like the fact that we met online. i see her on webcam evernight and she sees me. i plan on going to see her this summer when schools out. should i stick with her and be with her. or let her go and find someone ells. cause i love her to death. and she wants me to come see her....what should i do

2007-11-26 15:34:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well iam 16 and on saturday night I went to a party that got busted and I got a minor for drinking, and when my dad came to pick me he didn't say a word so i said sorry dad. When we got home he told me i was was grounded for 2 months so I said whatever i don't ****** care (big mistake) so we got in this huge argument at the end i told him goto hell I turned around then looked back and i saw him taking of his belt and he has never done that before did i deserve that much of a punishment?

2007-11-26 15:34:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Don't life, please be totaly honest with this one!Thanks..

2007-11-26 15:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah that flirty look. The look that says kiss me here and now...there is nothing quite like it. Do you like it when your lover does that?

2007-11-26 15:29:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK SO MY GF WENT TO A PARTY ON SATURDAY AND TOLD ME SHOULD WOULD BE GOOD. SO I BELIEVED HER AND THEN TODAY I WAS IN CLASS AND MY FRIEND TELLS ME SHE SAW MY GF DANCING WITH SOME DUDE. SO I ASK HER BAOUT IT AFTER THAT PERIOD AND SHE SAID NO I DIDNT DANCE WITH NE GUYS. THEN TODAY AFTER SKOOL. I ASKED HER AGAIN CUZ I THOUGH SHE WAS LYING TO ME AND IT TURNS OUT SHE WAS.

I CALLED UP THE DUDE AND I CALLED HIM OUT BUT HE BITCHED OUT. I WANNA BETA HIM UP.

WHATSHOULD I DO. SHOULD I BREAK UP WITH MY GF AND WHOOP HIS *** OR WHAT?

2007-11-26 15:28:04 · 18 answers · asked by BAM BAM 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay lets start with the facts.
I am 17, I will be 18 Jan. 14
My mom takes $400 out of every pay check, and then some extra cash here and there.
I babysit my brother and sister and get absolutely nothing for it.
She can't even buy me a bar of soap.
She don't buy me anything.
She don't clean the house, and she don't take care of my brother and sister. I do.
She basically just told me that my job means nothing to her and when she wants to go out she's going to do it and I will just have to call off.
I have no money saved up.
I have no life.
I have nothing because of her.
I want to move in with my memmy (gram), who is not blood, she's just raised me since I was born basically.

Can my mom come after me if I move out now?? Will I get in trouble, and have to go back with her?

2007-11-26 15:26:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i mean you are not as socially connected as his family is . and don't have as big a house as he does.but you are a great human being and a beautiful girl. but in today;s world,money talks and money is everything..what do you do in this case? do you stop being attracted to him because the money issue is strong.!
he 's a sweet guy and he doesn't even know.but eventually down the line he will..

2007-11-26 15:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 15:25:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and it was awful. The conversation was short (about 10 minutes) and boring. Are e-mail chats were always fun and exciting, but our phone call was horrible, it was a bad chemistry. I think it is because I was nervous and possibly he was too.
WE are supposed to have our first date this Saturday.
Do you think he is completely turned off from me, because of the phone call?
Has this happened to you before? If so, how did everything turn out?

2007-11-26 15:24:19 · 7 answers · asked by VJ 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you look for in a girl?

2007-11-26 15:22:12 · 14 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Same goes for texts. I'm refering to numbers and time frames, thanks!

2007-11-26 15:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Singles & Dating

my 17 year old daughter has found a young man who likes her for who she is, does not pressure her for sex, is respectful, wants to make her happy and she's freaking out and not sure how to handle it... what do i tell her? obviously i'm saying the wrong things cuz she hung up on me today at lunch.

yes, i told her she's not emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship... my bad.

suggestions?

2007-11-26 15:20:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My family just doesn't seem to know how to control their kids. The last two weddings I've been to, the kids were out of control and the parents just let them do what they want. In the middle of the bridal dances, the kids were running all over the floor. How do I tell parents to "control their kids or they will be asked to leave" without offending them. I wanted to include that in the invitation but that's improper etiquette. Any ideas?

2007-11-26 15:18:54 · 423 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really love Christmas i really get into the whole thing but my boyfriend dose not we have been together for five years and are thinking about having our own family i am trying to teach him the what i think christmas is all about so our children know the same. i know its just they way his family brought him up and i dont want to change that but how can i make him sure that our kids will not be the same and to try and set a good example

2007-11-26 15:17:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was texting this guy i had been dating for a couple of months when a guy i had been talkin to online sent me a text.I sent him a rather sexy text back and somehow my phone sent it to my man's phone! He sent me a text back sayin he knew i was talkin to other guys.I played it off and said it was a joke and i sent that text to him to see wut he would say.I apologized and he said it was cool and that he wasnt mad at me.I asked did he still want me he said yea.I want to know could he still be secretly mad at me and just not showin it?

2007-11-26 15:17:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating