i met this girl and i really like her. we decided to go out and date. we been together for 3 months now. but she is in another state for college. i love her to death and she tells me that she loves me all the time. her mom dont like the fact that we met online. i see her on webcam evernight and she sees me. i plan on going to see her this summer when schools out. should i stick with her and be with her. or let her go and find someone ells. cause i love her to death. and she wants me to come see her....what should i do
2007-11-26 15:34:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in one for 4 years now and I know that i can be hard but its worth it if you both really care for eachother. My bf and i met in person but that doesn't mean that you and her can't work. It takes a lot of communication, trust and honesty and a bit of creativity. Don't worry too much about her mom because right now whats important is that your gf wants to be with you. My bf lives in Germany and i live in the US so we dont' get to see eachother very often. Its great that you have a time frame of when you get to see eachother, that always makes it easier to handle. Just keep up the communication, think of new things to talk about (it can be about anything). Letters are nice too becuase they are more personal and its nice getting surprises in the mail. My bf and i like to send carepackages with stuff that we collect fore eachother. There are a lot of things that you can do to stay in touch. So its up to you and your gf if you want to continue, i just want to let you know that it can work :). Good luck and email me if you have more questions
2007-11-26 17:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u really in love bcoz if u wanna call it off just bcoz of the long distance factor then why do u say ' u love her to death'... if u really mean what u say, then u'd do anything to make ur relationship work out better & better each day..... u r even lucky to see her everyday through webcam . not every long distance relationship couples' are that lucky yet they survive... its just a matter of getting to know about each other very well, understand what u both want in life, respecting each other's feelings, & see if u can cope with the distance, if u both think u can , then just go ahead..., trust me, then long distance wont be a barrier at all..... maybe initially u'll have problems, but if u both really love & trust in each other, then u can talk out & figure it all out
2007-11-27 00:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by win_kg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your both adults ....her mom should not factor in this at all. if you both love each other then you should go for it. take it slow though and just know that long distance relationships can be harder to handle then just a regular one (but thats just me)
2007-11-26 23:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Boggen1210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and see her -- you are not really all that far away (at least you are in the same country) ---- if it does not work out you know ---- if it does then you can make more plans --- have fun
2007-11-26 23:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋