okay... im 18 years old and i lost my virginity @ 16. my frirst was my only sex partner for about 6 months. then my boyfriend after him, were together for 2 years and of course we were sexually active. now im currently dating a new man and we've been together a year. it's a long distance relationship and have only had sex ONE time... which was back in march 07...
he is the biggest that i've ever had... being that we are in a long distance relationship and it has been such a long time since i've had sex... it's obviously gonna hurt being that its been such a long time...what can i do to not ruin his enjoyment or mine when i go see him next month?
2007-11-26 15:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by glamorous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get a toy and use it b4 u see him
2007-11-26 15:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Gena S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe noone has suggested lubricant. Get a good waterbased lubricant and it will cut down on the friction.
For women more than men, your mindset can ruin the experience. Look forward to it, don't be afraid, and have some good waterbased lube on hand. I sell several different brands. To find out more info, contact me via my website:
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Good luck!
2007-11-27 00:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by jen_hasseler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like everybody else has been saying, you should buy a toy that is a good size to get yourself prepared for him. Thereis a site called "Adam and Eve" and they will ship in totally un-marked packages. Nobody would ever know in case you would be afraid of that.
2007-11-26 23:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should buy a vibe that is close to his size and use that so you get used to the size.
2007-11-26 23:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by G Money 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing would be to use lots of lubricant.... And relax and enjoy it!
2007-11-27 01:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by **aki** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nuthin u smile and pretend to moan in pleasure through the pain. remember dirty talk.
2007-11-27 00:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first so you dont end up a welfare mom and the rest of us have to support you and your kids.
2007-11-26 23:46:55 · answer #7 · answered by Joe F 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋