i mean you are not as socially connected as his family is . and don't have as big a house as he does.but you are a great human being and a beautiful girl. but in today;s world,money talks and money is everything..what do you do in this case? do you stop being attracted to him because the money issue is strong.!
he 's a sweet guy and he doesn't even know.but eventually down the line he will..
2007-11-26 15:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go with the flow, if it's not an issue with the guy and he's not flunting the fact he's wealthy and you're not, then he's probably a really cool guy. Again go with the flow, an allow your attraction for each other carry you foward; therefore don't create problems when there aren't any problems.
2007-11-26 15:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is all going to depend on his family and how they feel. If they are class snobs then you can pobably kiss a long term relationship goodbye. On the other hand if they are not class conscious then you shouldn't have any problems. A lot will depend on you and your morals, your attitudes and your personality. Just because you don't come from a family with money & connections doesn't mean your not worthy of him! He's just a person like you but happens to have a wealthy family. Money is NOT everything, it does make it easier to get by in the world, but it's not everything! If you continue to make the money an issue it could ruin your relationship with a nice guy so try to relax about it.
2007-11-26 15:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by thisaintall07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not a barrier. Material things do not make the person, although our culture tells us to believe that.
The guy I date has quite a bit of money, fancy cars, a huge beautiful house( all his and not his parents , btw) ... he adores me and just love taking me nice places and treating me like a lady. I feel spoiled. It is nice to live the "lifestyle" for a few hours.
I know I am special and that is all there is to it. I have my own apartment with nice things and a car I have paid for. I work hard. He respects all those things. I never have asked for anything from him. I pay my own bills. He is used to women trying to handle him for money and because I do not do that, I am the one who got him ;)
If he judges you on what you don't have, he is not worth your time.
2007-11-26 15:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Spindee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but did you flunk algebra?
A guys attractiveness can be regarded as the sum of looks, intelligence, personality and wealth.
This is like asking if better pay should be a barrier to accepting a job you really like.
2007-11-26 15:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that guy likes you so much and loves you from his heart s a true love than he must not think that way, and as far as i would say you shouldnt think that richness is going to be the barrier for relationship......love is blind and it dont count rich or poor, we all are the same under Gods sight..
2007-11-26 15:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by raksha p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are going to spin a web to ensnare a guy who does not know he has been targeted. he happens to be rich & connected and you are not.
no problem.
if you let him cook himself properly, he won't care. all he will know is that he loves you beyond human comprehension. in this case, he will worship you and will not care about anything, except, the he truly loves you.
2007-11-27 16:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a barrier to you and with him because there are many circumstances that you can do to have him.... with no money involved, you are different to other persons and you can do it!!! just think positive in life.
just don't look at your self that you are having a negative side....
2007-11-26 15:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by stanley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does this ring any bells?
"For richer and for poorer until death do us part"
.............end of story...........
2007-11-26 15:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋