Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

So, I've been dating this guy for almost four months and he is amazing to me but there is a problem. Everytime I go over to his house it seems like he's pushing me to do 'it' and he manages to get me to move a little closer to it, too. As a teenager, I know I shouldn't and want to wait for marriage. I think the reason we keep getting so close is because I'm always so free when I'm with him and don't even realize what I'm really doing. I don't know how to explain to him what we're doing is wrong and everytime I've tried he's used all my weak spots to make me regret it. I don't want to end this relationship over it but am thinking about how it might be regrettable in my future. So, how can I get him to lay off without basically killing everything we've worked so hard to get?

2007-11-26 13:50:51 · 19 answers · asked by Living Life 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy 3 weeks ago we/ve been out about 8 times... a two weeks ago he showed apicture of his sister that he s carryin in his wallet... (his sister has a different father , ) When I went to c his place couple of days ago he had a picture in his room on the tv framed of his sister (says he) and one on thenightstand one with him and her at the wedding and another one with her and husband (says he - a different guy)
Any guys out there who are this CLOSE to their sister? he is 35 sister is 25 ... Is this normal ? creepy ? or is he lying ? ( maybe its his gfor ex or wife... I am going nuts here... oh and he also went to c her for thanksgiving - been away for 6 days she lives in another state.

2007-11-26 13:49:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, i can give great advice but when i need advice i can accept it. Anyon else the same way??

2007-11-26 13:47:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 13:47:04 · 15 answers · asked by jack 1 in Singles & Dating

why? well he carries a picture of his sister (who is married and has a child - says he) in his wallet. I also been to his place and he has a picture of his sister framed on his tv facing the bed.
I think thats creepy, isn't it? I mean who would wanna c your sister in the bedroom hanging on your nightstand and on the tv when you bring girls over? Is he a liar or just creepy?

2007-11-26 13:42:49 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 13:42:40 · 14 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

I married in Miami and have been separated from my husband for more than 2 years and would like a divorce. I now live in Orlando and I don't know where he is and it is unlikely that he will consent to the divorce anyway. How long and how much money would it take to make it happen?

2007-11-26 13:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry guys,BUT I'm 40 yrs. old & raised around men.I've NEVER met a faithful one. Is there any out there?

2007-11-26 13:41:22 · 21 answers · asked by Sadie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 13:40:01 · 5 answers · asked by jr f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have met someone just in the past 6 weeks who seems to want the same things I do, in fact he seems to be everything my husband wasn't. We had chemistry immediately, and it has developed in to a potentially very good prospect for the future. After 22 years of marriage, I need someone who I can actually lean on sometimes, especially now. Unfortunately it seems my new relationship is a mix of serious emotion and lighthearted banter, and when I call needing emotional support and he doesn't call back until after all his social obligations are met for the day, would it be a mistake to tell him I need to be higher on the food chain than babysitting his granddaughter (who is only 5 months old, it seems he could have called me back while he was watching her) I am not saying don't babysit, just when I call, why wait to call me back until late? Should I tell him I called because I was upset and needed to see him, or just pretend everything is fine and not put pressure on him to help me?

2007-11-26 13:39:25 · 18 answers · asked by Annette L 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 13:38:57 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 5 in Family

what must a girl do to pick herself back up
feel regenarated
and have hope in social love and work life
!!!
cmon girls gimme some advice
must appreciated

2007-11-26 13:38:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i dont thnk my mother would really care!
Becasue we never talk .. all she does is ***** about how lazy we are(me and brothers)
We never do anything together..
Me and my father .. we r pretty far apart .. to tell the truth i can stand him!
And i dont reslly have any friends...
I'm not close to any of my family..

Soo... i dont think anyone would care..

Why should i ever wast room on the earth??

2007-11-26 13:37:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I keep falling for any other man who gives me attention and is nice to me. Actually, I don't fall for them but I fantasize about them. Recently, I fell hard for a married man at work. Things are getting better with my husband, but why do I still have feelings for this other man? How do I move on?

2007-11-26 13:37:42 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 13:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First-born, and I've just sortof been cutting all the hairs off as they come, but it's getting a little hard.

2007-11-26 13:37:08 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I kind of wish that 50 years from now when I'm old and useless, I can look at myself when I was young and full of lust, power and sexual energy and say daaamn I was hot. Is that good enough a reason of a reason to make your own porn? The drawback is that kids might find it or someone, like a disgruntled past lover, might steal it and put it all over the Internet. What do you think?

2007-11-26 13:36:44 · 13 answers · asked by Sean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

yes just a torso, and that person was a super model before they lost their arms and legs

2007-11-26 13:34:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like such a fat ugly loser who is desperate. Although im actually not fat and guys stare at me all the time, and not because im ugly im actually pretty, but guys don't ask me out. Only people i don;t want to go out with. Whats wrong with me? im 17 and i never had a bf. how much longer do i have to wait. i tried taking the initiative and pursuing guys but that failed miserably. Am i going to be single forever. Or am i doomed to the guys i hate and don't like?

2007-11-26 13:31:14 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My great grandma came to live with us for sixth months. And shes from a very racist place and she is very racist. And just because I'm not fully white she hates me. And i have alot of black friends, and i had them over. And she uses the term colored people and it pisses me off. One day she was like"do the dishes" so i started to do them and she yelled at me bcuz i didnt fill up the sink. then she was like " You can't do anything, your're so dumb. Your never gunna have a fmaily, or a good job" then I was crying in my room, and she got me in trouble again. THIS IS TRUE too. I was like how could my great grandma say that to me. Now im really mad and cant get over. What do I do, I feel like i should shoot my whole family. help me

2007-11-26 13:30:58 · 5 answers · asked by ipod 3 in Family

and how silly I look. She is a big gal and we are about the same size so that I know it will fit. Can gals tell if you try on thier bras and panties? I know she will let me if I ask but then I will have to let her giggle and laugh. What should i do?

2007-11-26 13:30:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she said she had a dream where i was gay-she said it in front of our 13 yr old boy and 6 yr old girl-she thought it was funny and i brushed it off-but when we went to my parents house she brought it up again-then back at her house she made a wise crack again about it-and im f'ing pissed at her and she says im overreacting-what do u think?

2007-11-26 13:30:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told her that I didn't want to live with her anymore because all the stuff she puts me through.
She asked me where do I want to stay since I didn't want to live with here!
I don't know where to go though!
[Baby Daddy, Brother, Octavias, Garretts, Tamekas, Idk

2007-11-26 13:29:26 · 5 answers · asked by Jezlyn 1 in Family

Ok so my boyfriend is 19 and has done iit and i dont know what to do in bed help.......o and hes privleged when it first goes in does it hurt???

2007-11-26 13:27:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 13:24:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Arguably, being cheating on is really one of the most hurtful, mind bubbling things to happen to a person. I think most would agree! And I've heard some pretty bad cheating stories. Some I still can't get over till this day. Can't comprehend why.

So I was wondering. How do you comfort someone who's been cheated on? Because a lot of the time, that (exception of children) person who has been cheated on. Is the most effected.

What do say to somebody? How does that one moment effect the rest of your life??

And please, DON'T make any smart-as* remarks. If that's the case, just move on please. . .

Thoughts? Experiences?

2007-11-26 13:20:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think i'm depressed and that's why i'm having a bad day. I think it's over girls I like but they don't like me back (then again I just think that). What are so things that might happen if I was depressed? Could it be over girls?

Please Help!!
Mr.

2007-11-26 13:20:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i am still in high school. im a seinor and hes a sophmore. we have been going out for 2 weeks. and i dont attend to have sex with him. is that still sagitory rape?

2007-11-26 13:18:40 · 37 answers · asked by josephine a 1 in Singles & Dating

what is sexier no bra or bra I mean with out a bra your boobs would hang out but a bra is some what nesasary you deside

2007-11-26 13:18:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having major middle back pain, and major sore breasts, my husband just went to get a pregnancy test, I was supposed to start the 23rd, could this mean I may be pregnant?

2007-11-26 13:18:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce