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she said she had a dream where i was gay-she said it in front of our 13 yr old boy and 6 yr old girl-she thought it was funny and i brushed it off-but when we went to my parents house she brought it up again-then back at her house she made a wise crack again about it-and im f'ing pissed at her and she says im overreacting-what do u think?

2007-11-26 13:30:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

17 answers

i dont think you are overreacting, i think she is over-talking about her stupid dream.

2007-11-26 13:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 · 0 0

Oh God that sounds like something I would do. In jest. I love to tell my dreams and I normally think they are hysterical even if no one else does. Chances are she thinks you're overreacting because it was just a silly dream she had. She probably thought others would see the humor- even though they probably didn't. Oh well, Women! What can ya do?

2007-11-26 21:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by plastic 7 · 1 1

I don't think it's right to say to your children..doesn't sound like she has she's just trying to piss you off..If you don't want to listen to her then just puck up the kids and leave and then just drop them off ..now wasn't that easy..you need to tell her not to hurt your children because she's bitter at you..why can't grown ups realize that acting this way is not good for them f*cks them up..

2007-11-26 21:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0 0

Ex's are an ex for a reason, if I were you I'd minimize the contact except for what you have to do for your kids. Obv it seems like she is just trying to belittle you and piss you off. To be fair though, the /might/ not understand that it offends you so you might want to tell her to knock it off and if she still does it, cut her off as much as you can.

2007-11-26 21:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Heart of Stone 3 · 1 1

I know you're gay because you're overreacting to it.


Sorry..thats one of my favorite jokes!

It was a dream, who cares. So she's a witch who has to mention it over and over. She's probably trying to get under your skin and you're letting her win. Stop it at once!

2007-11-26 21:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0 0

I think she is pretty angry with you and isn't capable of discussing it with you in an adult manner. Help her out by not getting angry. Explain to your kids when alone that it must be pretty obvious mom is having trouble coping with her anger over the marriage breakup.. explain you are not homosexual and that she is just trying to hurt your feelings. Let them talk to you about the whole thing. Too many parents do not bother to explain what is going on with the kids. Just be kind and do not say bad things to them about their mom. You understand.

2007-11-26 21:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 2 1

It doesn't sound to me like your over-reacting. Definitely talk to her about it and tell her how innapropriate it was to be mentioned in front of your kids and then on 2 moer occasions. That just sounds like she was trying to piss you off.

2007-11-26 21:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ca 4 · 1 1

Make a joke about her STD's and see if she gets pissed. If she does, tell her she's over-reacting.

2007-11-26 22:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by dave w 2 · 1 0

why were u hangin out with your x??? so anyway tell her u had a dream about her and she was really a guy..and she really looks like one .........no but then u might sound like ur dreamin of guys..i dont no

2007-11-26 21:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by mtnhotte 4 · 0 0

Syd, She probably feels like a woman scorned & does not understand why you don't want her anymore, so she figures you must be gay. It's common.

2007-11-26 21:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Louisa 4 · 1 1

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