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Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

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I AM 24 YEARS OLD AND MY HUSBAND IS 29. WE WILL BE MARRIED 2 YEARS THIS MONTH AND HE HAS NEVER HAD A JOB. I JUST HAD OUR DAUGHTER LAST YEAR AND SHE IS A LITTLE OVER ONE NOW. WHEN WE GOT MARRIED THE HOUSE WE LIVE IN IS PAID OFF BECAUSE IT WAS INHERITED BY HIM AND HIS SISTER. SO HE TRIES TO USE THAT AS LEVERAGE. AND NOT ONLY WILL HE NOT DO ANYTHING FINANCIALLY HE IS VERY CONTROLING AND MANIPULATIVE. HE TRIES TO KEEP ME FROM MY FAMILY AND "DISCIPLINE" ME BY TAKING THE HOUSE KEYS AND TRUCK KEYS AWAY FROM ME. I CAN SEE THAT IM SINKING QUICKLY ESPECIALLY BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN PUTTING OFF GOING TO SCHOOL AND I WAS ONLY GOING TO TAKE OFF ONE SEMESTER. WITH THE ECONOMY LIKE IT IS THEY CUT HOURS AT WORK AND H STILL WONT WORK, SAYS I SHOULD GET ANOTHER JOB. HOW DO I PULL MYSELF OUT?

2007-11-26 13:17:27 · 24 answers · asked by casandra s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents have always pressured me about grades (which is a good thing cause it motivates me to work really hard). i recently got a B in AP chem on my report card and i panicked and lied to my parents that the teacher made a mistake. I don't know what to do now because they're asking me to tell my chem teacher to change the grade and have him resend a new report card. should i tell them the truth? I know they won't understand that I lied because i didnt want to disappoint them... im scared

2007-11-26 13:17:01 · 2 answers · asked by Vivian H 1 in Family

i am sick of poor boys, is this wrong of me to feel this way? and how can i persue a rich, nice, non drunk man??
thanks....

2007-11-26 13:16:35 · 7 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so me and my girlfriend see each other around 5 times a week sometimes more. But we have been arguing alot recentley and today she decided we should only see each other 3 times a week to see if that will stop the arguing, so i reluctantly agreed and i am going to give it a try. Thing is, i would like to know how to cope with this change, as im really attached to her emotionally and physically and i will miss her alot, so how could i cope?

2007-11-26 13:14:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so I have this friend who is really rude and mean, and we've been friends for 2 years! This year I'm friends with a new girl, who REALLY nice, and I kind of dumped my other friend. She has a million friends though now! She says that she doesn't like me but she always gives me mean looks! I think she wants me back, but I really don't want her! How do I tell her to just screw off? Thanks for any suggestions!

2007-11-26 13:13:48 · 43 answers · asked by mallo 2 in Friends

my friend is cutting herself and i rlly want her to stop! i told her to go to the guidence office! i don't want to rat on her cuz she is my bff, but what else should i do? plz help!

2007-11-26 13:12:53 · 12 answers · asked by Olivia W 1 in Friends

my friend that is a girl, likes my friend thats a guy. she wants me to ask him who he likes to see if he says her name. i am going to say "i know someone who likes you, who do you like?" and not say her name. but the more i think about it, the more i realize that that might not work, idk, what do you people think?

2007-11-26 13:11:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay..... I just got my first Serious boyfriend. He is a year older then me and my mom hates him just because he like to play to many sports. She said 'He want have any time for you'. I do sports to. I asked my mom if she would takes use to the movies and if she would watch a diffrent movie. She said she has to be right beside me. How can i be with my boyfriend without my mom finding out? I have allready tried sneeking out but some of my moms frind was comeing into the house and told her. My mom hands out with her boyfriend.....Way can't I
- Natasha&Josh 4Ever

2007-11-26 13:10:59 · 2 answers · asked by Natasha S 1 in Family

my ex and i started dating in April. Things were good for a couple months, then it became an on and off relationship. We broke up the last time about a month ago and he wanted me back. I just told him last night that I don't think i could do it again. He told me he would never lie, cheat, anything again if I went with him again. I told him again that I don't think I could do it. He now is saying how he's goign to change schools, quit his job, get rid of his cell phone, has to find somewhere else to live and all this stuff - because I won't get back together with him. He also says that we can never talk or see each other again. I still love him and I'm soo hurt without him, did I make the right choice by telling him I can't go out with him right now?

2007-11-26 13:10:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i`m a 45 year old man i have three kids my oldest daughter vicky she has been changing since she was 9 now she 10 she been backtalking sneaking out at night not listening 2 me anymore or my wife she if really stronger then both of us and she almost hurted my wife when she walked down the stairs and now she call her little brothers and sisters name and cuss word and me and my wife
PLEASE HELP ME!!

2007-11-26 13:09:53 · 3 answers · asked by tom 1 in Family

Can't figure out why a couple married for over 30 years with 3 children would divorce? Kids now adults and no longer at home. Thought true love lasts forever! Why now?

2007-11-26 13:09:29 · 20 answers · asked by FLT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering if having children takes away all the sorrow from having a parent, or both parents dieing.

2007-11-26 13:08:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Remember the best answer gets 10 big points

Guy #1
5'11, very nerdy, ugly, awkward with almost no athletic ability, 330 pounds of pure fat, engineer who makes over $100,000, great personality

Guy #2
6'0, 210 pounds of ripped muscle, very handsome, great athletic ability, average salary, average personality

2007-11-26 13:08:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... take me out to dinner or just take me out to do something fun! I don't know how to mention it, and I definitely don't want to be blunt about it. What should I do?

2007-11-26 13:06:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if he can walk her home after school is it cool or seems abit weird?

i dont want to seem stalkerish but also i want to show i care and to be better friends with her.

this gives me chance to talk to her alone so her friends are not with her all the time.

i dont know what to say, but id like her to wait 10/15 mins after school so that her friends walk ahead and it is just us two.

what do u think?

2007-11-26 13:05:28 · 36 answers · asked by CoolD 3 in Singles & Dating

I knew that'd get you! Anyway,

I went out with a guy a couple of days ago and we had a great time. Now whenever I see him, he has trouble talking to me or something because he can't even look at me! He had no trouble talking to me on our date...guys, help? Any advice? He has known me for months and we've become friends, it's not like he hates me(he's the one that asked me out...) I'm confused.

2007-11-26 13:04:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has a mother who has neglected her, was very mean to her, has never helped her. What makes a mother mistreat her own child? Is it possible for a mother to hate her own daughter? If so, why?

2007-11-26 13:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

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what do you consider it to be? whats your definition? is it stronger or less stronger than love

2007-11-26 13:04:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i need 2 kno

2007-11-26 13:03:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked a question about an issue Im having with him and I dont know how to bring it up to him...Im scared to. Heres the question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071126174201AAgDlBa&r=w should I print it?

2007-11-26 13:02:26 · 7 answers · asked by Rachael 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always had strong feelings for my friend who I will call Karen secrecy. I have known Karen since high school, and I am the one who convinced her to go to college where we both attend. I broke up with my ex gf of 2 years almost 3 months ago, but it was her choice. She told me she needed time to be alone and that she didn't love me anymore, but then all of a sudden wanted me back. I found out she slept with an ex, whom she had been flirting with after we broke up, but then he turned out to be a dick. The whole time I was miserable, Karen was there for me, talking to me and helping me. I have no idea how she feels for me, but my ex is begging me back, but I have strong feelings for Karen, and I feel like it might be love. I know it is messy, but what should I do? I am the one who introduced my ex and Karen to each other, and they are not that close, but they live in the same apartment. What is the right thing to do? How can I determine how Karen feels?

2007-11-26 13:01:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does walking with a girl to the buses everyday after school and waiting with her when my bus is here and hers isn't make me whipped??

like ill be at my locker and she'll come up to me and say come walk with me to the buses, so i do, then her bus is usually not here and mine is so she like pulls me and grabs me to stay with her till her bus is here, does that make me whipped??

2007-11-26 12:59:57 · 4 answers · asked by John 1 in Friends

the guy that i like has this sore by his eye, its not a bruise, but its a big red dot, not a lump but a dot, it kinda looks like a blood blister, what is it?

2007-11-26 12:59:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ex and I broke up about a month ago (both 25) because he felt we were getting too serious. We did not talk until he called me out of the blue the other day and asked me if I was dating anyone, told me he missed me and wanted to start seeing me again, etc. I had heard he was dating someone, so I asked him about it. He said no. He's been calling me every day since then.

I don't have a myspace, he does, and I looked on his and saw that there is a girl who calls him babe, talks about what they're doing that nite, etc. I asked him about it and he said they are nowhere even close to being official but they do hang out. Apparently she was out of town for awhile and just got back on saturday; he has not called me since she's been back.

I am so mad at myself for believing he wanted to get back to me even though he has obviously chosen her. He said they are not at all exclusive; do I have a right to be mad about this? If he calls, should I ignore him or give him another chance to date?

2007-11-26 12:59:07 · 31 answers · asked by Leah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He has some problems that he needs therapy for...says he can't get help for these problems while we are together because being in a relationship complicates things too much in his head and he denies his problems. Told me to move on and forget about him because he is not deserving of me. Is this a line of bull?

2007-11-26 12:58:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I don't know if I like this guy!

Any time I've ever liked someone, I've felt different than this. I get butterflies, I think about them non-stop.. I talk about them non-stop... I get so shy I can barely talk to them... It feels intense.

But with him, it's different. I don't have that intense feeling inside of me. I know I like him, but I just don't know if I really want to be in a relationship with him. I can go awhile without thinking or talking about him. I can actually live my life.
He's the nicest, most amazing guy. He makes me happy, but he doesn't make me crazy...

Physically, he's different than what I'm usually attracted to, but I do feel something for him.

Would it be wrong of me to give it a shot and see what happens?

Can you be in a relationship, and truly love someone, without that crazy, intense feeling? Without butterflies?

2007-11-26 12:57:29 · 4 answers · asked by Just a Girl ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Does my husband, who pays a high child support, have the right to not give money to his ex-wife for a dental procedure on their son?
His ex claims to have done this procedure but the health insurance did not cover it. the son corroborates this story but we dont believe her she is usually trying to get more money on top of the child support. so can he refuse to pay it unless she can prove it?
Has anybody have experienced a situation like this before? what did you do?

2007-11-26 12:57:17 · 18 answers · asked by tatys 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I have been together 8 months, hes 26 and i'm 19. I am currently finishing up my medical transcription certificate, but i'm not sure that 's what i want to do anymore. My bf wants me to start my career now and move out from home and start my career, because that's what he wants in a girl, but I don't know what I want to do yet, i feel so rushed, and I feel if i don't get a "move on" with my career he will break up with me! What should I tell him??? btw, he is just finishing up his schooling now and he's 26, so he was at the same point as me at my age!! What does he want, me to move out and with him and settle down and start a life together or what??

2007-11-26 12:56:13 · 1 answers · asked by SoberAsADuck 4 in Singles & Dating

you want him to do....give me some good ideals...so far i have stopped sex....take his money as much as possible.....now give me some more ideals...and thanks......and i will keep you posted on his leaving.....

2007-11-26 12:55:08 · 18 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I don't see each other much during the weekdays. We're both so busy with our jobs and friends and everything that we only see each other once or twice during the week. Every other weeknight he spends with his friends. I'm okay with that, I like to do my own thing, too. He's been starting to spend the night on Fridays, and doesn't leave until Sunday night. He says he wants to marry me, and he's Mr. Perfect until Monday comes. I hardly ever see him on Mondays. Today he called me and talked about his friend who I'm not too fond of for like twenty minutes! He was talking about all these plans him and his friend had made. Then he asked me to try and see him on Wednesday. I said jokingly, "I'll see you on Wednesday, as long as you're not too busy with your boyfriend." In response to that, he got all angry and put a guilt trip on me, claiming that I "make" him spend all his time with me, and he never gets to see his best friend that I mentioned earlier...

2007-11-26 12:54:03 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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