Okay, so me and my girlfriend see each other around 5 times a week sometimes more. But we have been arguing alot recentley and today she decided we should only see each other 3 times a week to see if that will stop the arguing, so i reluctantly agreed and i am going to give it a try. Thing is, i would like to know how to cope with this change, as im really attached to her emotionally and physically and i will miss her alot, so how could i cope?
2007-11-26 13:14:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EDIT: We argue because most of the time she jumps to conclusions, shes quite stubborn, yet sometimes because i am too protective that is why we argue.
2007-11-26 13:22:10 · update #1
EDIT: Also, we know we cant be with each other 7 days a week, due to school and work, so 5 was the best we could squeeze in.
2007-11-26 13:23:29 · update #2
EDIT: Few more details,
We are both in love,
She has everything i ever wanted/needed in a girl to be honest, i would be willing to commit to 7 days a week but its just not possible and wont be till we have both matured and are a few years older i think, we both want this to work so.
2007-11-26 13:26:10 · update #3
She stays in 2 nights a week to do homework and spend time with her mother and father.
She spends one day with her friends
And she works on Saturdays from 1 to 7pm but im normally at the football match anyway!
Thats what she is doing, she is doing her 5th Year Higher Prelims (scotland) aswell so needs to concentrate on her school work also.
2007-11-26 13:31:13 · update #4
7 DAYS A WEEK - ARE YOU DAFT?? the reason why u argue so much is that you are around each other too much - everyone needs breathing space! don't be so needy - !! i once had a bf who i lived with AND worked with - at two jobs! it got to the point where I would stop of at my favorite Mexican restaurant before going home - order my Margarita, and read a book for an hour of peace before i had to face the deluge of "oh, honey, i missed you so much" yuck! we did survive, though, for about 5 years...personally, i don't know how...now i have a bf who isn't so clingy - and neither am i...WE are HAPPY!!
2007-11-26 14:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Andra J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you arguing? And what are you arguing about?
Distance won't solve it
It could be the beginning of the end - in that case a bit of emotional detatching may be a good thing
Some relationships are a bit tooooo deeply involved that it just becomes drama on tap!
2007-11-26 21:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by chandra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like an addiction. So when you want to quit smoking for an example. Start with thinking about her about 5 times a day. Then 4 times. Them 3 times....... Eventually your thought process should be about once a day you think of her. So 3 out of 5 days in school, you think of her while you actually see her.
2007-11-26 21:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by computer whiz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i were you [and im not] i'd spend those 2 extra days looking for a girl that would like to be with me all the time.
2007-11-26 21:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Splishy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is she seeing the other 4days? Big Leeroy from the flats?
2007-11-26 21:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need help coping with that then you have more problems than you know. Seek professional counseling.
2007-11-26 21:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont tell us why you keep arguing? is it cose one is trying to change the other? if it is I think you should go your own ways.....
2007-11-26 21:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋