if he can walk her home after school is it cool or seems abit weird?
i dont want to seem stalkerish but also i want to show i care and to be better friends with her.
this gives me chance to talk to her alone so her friends are not with her all the time.
i dont know what to say, but id like her to wait 10/15 mins after school so that her friends walk ahead and it is just us two.
what do u think?
2007-11-26 13:05:28 · 36 answers · asked by CoolD 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it. that's the sweetest memory I have from school.
2007-11-26 13:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jonesy 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Does she know you like her ( I mean in a way more than just being friends ? )
If you start a conversation during your break period, it's possibly then when this is the best time to suggest this walk home with her, or better still, near her home.
Walking directly to her house, might mean that she may get embarrassed if say her mum, dad, brother/sister/friends are around or watching, so just walk with her for part or most of the way, then say to her that you have to go in another direction, but can you walk again with her at some other time, maybe the day after.
If she's with her mates, play it cool, just say "hi" and nod, or smile, she'll respect you more for not being 'pushy' and I think her mates definately will comment on how considerate you are, just be yourself, don't be macho..let her make the decisions on arrangements, when and where to meet.
Hopefully by doing this, you both can become good friends, naturally, without embarrassment, and one day who knows, you'll probably end up going out on a date..before too long
good luck, a friend x (female)
2007-11-26 13:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by CARAMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, go for it!
You have the right idea: take it slow, start with being her friend. That's the best way to get to know each other on a deeper level and realize if you two were meant for each other.
And besides that I just feel like getting this off my chest:
Sure, the news channels are always reporting rapes and stuff, but that's why girls are forgetting that nice guys with sensitive sides exist. Prove to the world that a sweet guy can exist in the world today! Walk her home, and I can't imagine that she wouldn't feel protected.
Good luck!
-Joe
2007-11-26 13:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Coolguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is an excellent idea to walk her home, but actually it would be more stalkerish to insist on walking all alone, where there are no witnesses. It would be best if her friends were walking in front of or behind her. A 30 second pause should be plenty sufficient to give you some privacy and to give her some security.
2007-11-26 13:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Frank 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll scare her away. Just write her a nice note and say that's what your intention is, nothing further. It is weird to walk her home after school everyday, if you are a good person, dont get obsesssed and you might hurt someone.
2007-11-26 13:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Creativedesign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's cool, that means that you like her. are you guys friends? if you are then it's even easier, just wait for her after school, when she come out, just walk with her, make some excuse if you have to...if you are not her friend, then you gotta get to know her and become her friend. don't just go up to any girl and ask if you can walk them home, they will think that you are crazy...
2007-11-26 13:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is she really good friends with the girls? or just average, like she just hangs out with them because she can? She may be reluctant to go with you if she is good friends with them because the first time is always awkward. But here's the way I see it: if she likes you she will say yes. But if she says no, it doesn't mean you can give up on her. Try again, maybe after you ask her to a dance or something.
2007-11-26 13:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well is she your gf or just a friend? if she is your gf then that is cool that is what your supposed to do. but if she is just your friend then that is cool but if you ask her to wait then she will think something is up. but if she is your girlfriend sure you can ask her to wait because i do understand, you do want some alone time with her and that is cool too. take a shot at it and see what happens.
2007-11-26 13:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kennedy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is really sweet...and she should think so too....maybe you could wait less than 10-15 and then walk really s-l-o-w as not to catch up w/ them so then it seems less obvious that u dont want to be by her friends too cuz then she might think u dont like her friends and that wouldnt be good
2007-11-26 13:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a highschool girl, me personally, i think that is sweet. i would love for a guy that likes me to at least make an attempt at showing effort, or attention of any way to her. so i think that it personally depends on the girl... but just ask her and see. you'll never know unless you try.
2007-11-26 13:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by painful dreaming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know where she lives send a letter explaining how you feel ask her not to tell her freinds,and to give you a chance to talk to her,you dont have to sign it,but at least she will know you exist,and may even look at you and wonder. good luck
2007-11-26 16:52:38 · answer #11 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋