you want him to do....give me some good ideals...so far i have stopped sex....take his money as much as possible.....now give me some more ideals...and thanks......and i will keep you posted on his leaving.....
2007-11-26 12:55:08 · 18 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is the *** he is a drunk mean man not me that is the reason for this question.....thanks and understand he is not a good man....
2007-11-26 13:03:31 · update #1
see i have tryed in the passed to get rid of him and he keeps coming back and i dont want him no more
he is never going to stop drinking his life away....
2007-11-26 13:06:32 · update #2
he is not on lease he just somehow makes me feel sorry for him and convince me to not make him leave but, i am so unhappy with the drunk butt. so i want him to be the one to go on his own.....
2007-11-26 13:11:22 · update #3
he tells me if i make him leave he will make my life a living hell..so if i make it were he leaves then it is easier for me
2007-11-26 13:13:12 · update #4
OMG girl this was me a couple of years ago.Get rid of him as fast as you can,then if you have to go and get a restraining order to keep him away from you.When he gives you a sob story do not feel sorry for him at all.He is a adult that is capable of making his life either good or bad.He chooses to be a drunk.Once you can make yourself deaf to his boo hoo stories you will be amazed at how good life can get.Right now he has his cake and he can eat it too.He knows from your past behavior that whatever he does its ok cause you will let him back.what will happen when he is drunk and decides to hurt you instead of leaving???Please get a hold of your strength and get rid of him ASAP
Good luck and remember that you are a strong woman that needs to take control of her life,you deserve better and when you come to face that fact good things start to happen.
2007-11-26 13:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by irish55_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you say he is not a good man, and he is mean, and a drunk, I think you should ask him to move out with some help there with you. Either that or leave the place yourself.
If you're in an abusive situation, call the police when he hurts you, and press charges against him. They will take him to jail or make him leave, and before he leaves ask him where he wants his stuff taken to, because you don't want him coming back.
DON'T KEEP LETTING HIM BACK IN. Don't allow it.
2007-11-26 13:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you put your kids in this kind of situation? If you have one ounce of love foryour children you will tell him to leave and be an example for your children that you do not live this way. If it takes a restraining order, then do it. Stop worrying about you and worry about your kids.
2007-11-26 13:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save his money for him and save enough to get a decent apartment for him when he leaves along with furniture but be honest and make it clear there is a time limit and he has to go when the time is up, ready or not , and that you will help him move. It is not kind to handle it your way.
2007-11-26 13:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want him to move out, you must have a pretty good reason. You are the only one who can make him get out, no amount of ideas from others will resolve your problem. It would be better to just talk sensibly with him and gently tell him you want to end the relationship. Try not to spark any violent reaction from him. Stay safe, be good to yourself and most of all be sensitive to the feelings of others.
2007-11-26 13:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by 102845 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a grip! If you want him to leave what difference does it make how you get the point across. Stop conniving and be honest tell him you no longer want to continue the relationship and you want him to leave. It won't take near as much effort.
2007-11-26 13:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You stopped all sex and take all his money? so you are married then? LOL he he he.
Seriously. Tell him to leave. That's the best why to let someone know you want them to leave. You are a game player with the highest skills aren't ya. Enjoy the drama! kiss kiss.
2007-11-26 13:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't really understand why you can't just tell him, but if you can't, I'm pretty sure he'd get the picture if`he walked in on you with another guy. I don't recommend this, by the way, and am personally all for good old-fashioned communication.
2007-11-26 13:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kitten 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why? You dont want him knowing what a ***** you are? Dont worry he will know as soon as he leaves. Save yourself some time and just tell him to move out, or you can always move out yourself if you are too coward to tell him the truth
2007-11-26 12:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Peilthetraveler 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make him stop drinking for one day to see how unattractive you are and he will be gone in 2 seconds. guaranteed!
2007-11-26 13:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by stillkeepin1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋