He has some problems that he needs therapy for...says he can't get help for these problems while we are together because being in a relationship complicates things too much in his head and he denies his problems. Told me to move on and forget about him because he is not deserving of me. Is this a line of bull?
2007-11-26 12:58:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, you have all been so helpful and nice! I appreciate your thoughts and advice!!! Thank you!!
2007-11-26 13:32:35 · update #1
He loves you ,but he dumped you.WOW!! thats a real pain in the butt, Girl if he says he dosen't deserve you ,he difinately does not deserve you , cos i think he only wants to see you crawl and loves the fact that you give him too much attention , let him sort it out with his own problem ,i know you'de love to help out ,but it won't go anywhere different ,but waste your time. if it's just a line ,don't put your self down for such pricks. there is more to you than wasting your time sitting in a rutt.....bring sexy back into your life and get it sparkling for Mr right..!
Good luck beautiful woman.
2007-11-26 13:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by T.U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necesarily.
Sometimes people need to buckle down and focus. If he is having problems and he really cares about you, then he is probably trying to protect you from himself.
If what he says is true, he may have some confidence or self-esteem issues.
But, you need to find out the 100% truth. Tell him that you need to know what's going on in his life and if he really does love you, then he will let you know.
Depending on what he says, you need to make the decision. If he gives a thourough answer, then he is probably telling the truth. If he just tells you to move on or its too complicated, pressure him a little bit more. If he doesnt give in, then i'm sorry but you need to let go.
Good Luck
2007-11-26 13:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by sum_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make any sense to me why he can't get help if he is in a relationship with someone. I would think that being in a relationship would be more helpful because you would be there for him to lean on and get support from. Something doesn't sound right about it to me. In my opinion, you should move on and let him figure out what he wants. In this case though, I doubt I would give him a second chance if he came back later. But, that is just my opinion.
2007-11-26 13:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, my ex (ironically) fed me the same line. 3 months later I found out that he dumped me because he wanted to be with his ex-girlfriend. Now that I have moved on I am so much happier. You should consider doing the same. It's hard at first, believe me I have been through more break-ups than I have fingers, but it gets easier.
2007-11-26 13:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by soccergal_86026 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he isn't a big enough man to tel you straight. If he was going into therapy then the support of the one he loves would be the first thing he would want to maintain
2007-11-26 13:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an outside chance that he is telling you the truth. More likely though, he's probably trying to protect your feelings because he found a new girlfriend.
2007-11-26 13:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He doesn't want to be your boyfriend anymore but he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Move on. Be only with a person that loves you. Everyone deserved to be loved!!!
2007-11-26 13:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by DeeZee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl that have (not aiming at being mean) psychologically involved problems, usually have a hard time maintaining relationships from what ive experienced..im sorry to say that he's like this, you proably like/liked him a lot. just move on...there are nore guys out there willing to take your heart.
2007-11-26 13:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its bull. If your relationship is over then just move on..don't let him keep an emotional hold on you.
2007-11-26 13:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a head case move on
2007-11-26 13:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by trav_stinger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋