Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

i really liked this girl, but didnt work out. i really tried my best, i was weak for weeks, i was emotional, she always spoke to me as a friend, but now i just cant take it anymore. i have to finish it. i already deleted her off my msn, facebook and what have you...i dont want to be reminded of her ever again, it is too painful. i see her from time to time, and during those times, i will completely avoid her, make sure i sit smwhere where i cant see her...any other advice? i will try to meet other girls of course...

2007-11-26 11:51:53 · 18 answers · asked by concerneddd 3 in Singles & Dating

well i love my bf. but when we make out i pull away alot its not because i dont want to make out with him. i just kinda freak out and i dont no why. i feel like there is no chemistry but other then when we makeout i feel like there is. is something wrong with me and why do i feel like that?

2007-11-26 11:51:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend has been singing for 4 years in chorus. not to be mean, but she's not good. though now since we are picking highschools she is trying to get into an arts school and became SO cocky she believes she'll get in. Every one we know believe she isn't because her voice isn't that good. should I tell her? because it is getting on my nerves...

2007-11-26 11:50:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm wanting to know how do you treat women like crap. all my life i've been told by women that i'm too nice and get turned down because of that. i'm a shy guy in general, who's nice and sweet, but i'm getting tired of being the nice and sweet guy, cause it gets you no where with women. I've been listening to this talk show guy by the name of Tom Leykis and it sounds as though he know's what he's talking about. He says that women don't go for nice guys. Instead they like jerks who treat them like crap. So I'd like to know how do you treat women like crap? I've been nice and sweet to women my whole life and never treated a woman like crap ever, so how do I go about doing this. I get lonely at times in my apartment and I'd really like to have a girl friend. Hanging around my friends gets old after awihle and I'd really like to have a companion by my side.

2007-11-26 11:49:42 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom thinks i want to be a marine biologist because when i was younger i wanted to be one, but i don't any more, i really want to be a singer or actor. she wants to sign me up for this prgram for kids that want to be a marine biologist. how do i tell her that i don't want to be a marine biologist anymore and that i want to be a singer or actor. i don't want her to be dissapointed in me anymore then she is right now with my school grades.

2007-11-26 11:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by musicfreak564789 2 in Family

ok so me & my crush had been goin out but we broke up cuz he cheated on me wit my friend.

he said he luved both us, gave us both teddy bears, gave us both poems, and kissed us both.

i had been goin out wit him 4 2 1/2 to 3 months and she had been goin wit him 4 about 2 weeks.

so we both broke up then he went 2 go apologize 2 her and she stilled hooked backed up with and 4gave him.

but i found out that he made a bet wit a guy saying he could go out wit 2 girls in 8th.

so does that mean he really luvs her or just like her?

cuz he said i didnt treat him like a bf but he didnt treat me like a gf.

p.s. she has big forhead so i was kind of insulted. just sayin.

2007-11-26 11:44:37 · 3 answers · asked by mllrgbrll 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-26 11:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by Autumn L 2 in Family

In the past we have both cheated but we split up and then got back together 5 months later.When we got back together we had 3 kids and I caught him cheating when I was caring our third child.I do think I should be the one who has trust issues

2007-11-26 11:41:11 · 23 answers · asked by antoqonette 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 11:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My dad never cried before, and he started crying,Should i try to make him happy,or let him be sad?What should I do?

2007-11-26 11:37:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK i like a guy hes going to ask me out but im not allwoed to date what do I do weare in love but my friend loves him he doesnt love her what should I do my parents say they dont care what I do then say that I can date what would you do I am 15 and not supposed to date until im sixteen help

2007-11-26 11:37:46 · 5 answers · asked by Chantal..carpe diem 3 in Singles & Dating

I used to live in a small town with all of my friends but when my sister needed a new place to train gymnastics my whole family moved about 2 hours away. I know that doesn't seem far but I hate my new school. I don't get along with my parents well and I'm very shy. I'm only 14 and my parents have given me the option to move back, but they get offended very easily and I don't want to hurt there feelings. I don't like my new school and I don't have many friends here. I also don't want to have to make my sister give up her favorite sport since she is training 7 hours a day for a scholership.

I visit where I used to live every weekend and i love it there.



How do I tell my parents with out hurting their feelings?

2007-11-26 11:37:13 · 34 answers · asked by smallishchicken 2 in Family

till you first kiss your bf....

LIKE 2 WEEKS OR JUST ONE????

WHAT ABOUT WHEN YOU FIRST MAKE OUT!!!!!!



like i know when it feels right but what should like the ethical time lenth be

2007-11-26 11:37:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say that you had a crush on a guy, he's in his mid-20', he's pretty handsome, he's educated, and nothings physically or mentally wrong with him. But you find out that he's a virgin. I'm doing a sociology report, and I'm trying to get a woman's perspective. So the more details the better!

2007-11-26 11:35:58 · 15 answers · asked by Why_so_serious? 5 in Singles & Dating

I live with my grandma and I never get my fair share of anything! Neither do my parents or my sister. My grandma is always on the couch watching tv or doing a project and I never get to watch what I want to on tv. Even when she is not in there I can't watch it. She eats our food when she sees it ans thinks she can eat all of it and criticizes us for stuff she did. What do I do? I really need some help! She talks to herself often and when I do get to watch tv, she talks out loud to herself and others and when she is watching tv, everyone has to be quiet as a mouse. If you talk she will turn up the tv really loud just to say you are talking too loud. It is so annoying! I really need help. By the way she has no mental illness.

2007-11-26 11:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by I♥Reba 4 in Family

I sent some pictures to a Slovakian man in my town that I met through a dating site, but now he wants to meet face to face. I am awfully nervous because he thinks that I am incredibly gorgeous, which is partly my fault because I sent him very nice pictures of me. But the problem is, that I am photogenic, and I don't look like my pictures in real life. Now I want to meet him, but I am feeling apprehensive because I am afraid that he will be disappointed once he sees me in the flesh. I really need serious answers. Thanks in advance.

2007-11-26 11:35:26 · 4 answers · asked by SweetPea 1 in Singles & Dating

i just accidently swallowed some bad stuff how do you throw it up?

2007-11-26 11:34:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Son is living with girl friend. They are in late 30s. Son raised in loving home, we the parents don't understand? This woman beats on him. Hits him with things. He has gone to hosp her to jail. She attacks him in public his other girl friends have done same. He is 6ft tall weighs in at 200lbs goodlooking and has a great business making plenty of money. What is missing?
We are afraid of this woman. maybe bi-polar

2007-11-26 11:34:13 · 7 answers · asked by muggs 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister can be extremly greedy. I am usually spoiling her. I always make her like cookies when her friends come over, and pumpkin bread when she asks. I am also considerate to her company and bussiness. I even do her wash sometimes. Yet today she told her sister that they could watch my DVD tonight without my permission. I was planning on watching tonight, so i told her no, im watching it. My parents were like let her borrow it, you just saw it. She saw it too in hte movies so i see no reason to give it to her. She is spoiled enough with my giving in and friendliness and quite frankly i get none of that in return. Do you think i am being over exagerent or doing the right thing. It is my movie so it is my decission and if i say no she needs to except it right?

2007-11-26 11:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well today I was talking to a kid in my class, he knows my girlfriend. He talked about last year, and how she told him straight up she wanted to do him. He also said she hooked up with like 5 guys last year.. She didn't have sex.. but it bothers me. How to bring it up and talk about it?

2007-11-26 11:31:19 · 5 answers · asked by cosnipa 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not looking to date or screw her. But, if she wasn't married, I'd have already tried to, uh...got 'r done!

This girl is drop dead gorgeous, great figure, face, and all. I had a seminar class with her this semester and have sat across the conference room table from her. I betcha I've counted 10-12 times this semester where I've caught her giving me direct eye contact or otherwise immediately in my direction, NOT always vice versa. (I'm not conceited, but I am observant.) She's always been real friendly (not really flirty, though) when we've talked.

Even the other day, I did horrendous on a presentation; people were laughing at me during the pres. I wasn't even whining or looking for sympathy and she still told me I did fine.

I have dark curly hair, blue eyes, a nice smile, and the "shadow" makings of a beard, if you will. Wear plain clothes but have clean appearance.

I wonder what about me she sees and why she'd be looking at me. Help me understand this, married women!

2007-11-26 11:30:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

( I have already posted this, but I still want some more answers).

A few days ago, my husband and i were watching a movie together. He left to get a drink and while he was gone i began watching a TLC's What not to wear. When he got back i asked if the skirt the woman was wearing was nice. It started this argument about wearing skirts. I have an internship coming up and like to dress up once in awhile. My husband does not want me wearing dresses in public. He says it is fine if i wear non nude colored tights.We didn't fight very long, but my husband was so bothered by the skirt tiff he slept on the couch. I told him to start acting like my husband and stop worrying about every little thing.

Why does this issue bother my husband soo much. He was so bothered that he didn't even want to talk to me anymore. I do not understand what I did.
I dress very conservatively in public.
I just want to dress in a skirt that goes past the knee once in awhile, with dark tights

2007-11-26 11:30:49 · 13 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do guys care when a girl play hard to get or do they just forget the girl... or do they like her more..... i really want to know cause i like this guy and i want to see if playing hard to get is ok.

2007-11-26 11:27:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old do you think I am?

2007-11-26 11:27:20 · 18 answers · asked by Erik M 1 in Family

i spoke to my husband's ex gf on the internet, she thought it was him. she reminded that they had seen each other before his move to vegas, she also reminded him that once he told her that he didn't like me...i'm worried he says it's not true and i've told him that in order for me to believe him he has to call her and i want to listen to her say it's not true. now why would she be lying? specially to him she didn't know it was me. another thing is that he keeps on going in turns and telling me that he's going to get her number but hasn't done it, it's been now about 2 wks. or so...how do i know if he's lying and she is telling the truth or if it's the other way around....please help me??? :(

2007-11-26 11:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by music heals my pain 3 in Marriage & Divorce

For those of you that read my other question, this one is kind of in the same ballpark. Originally, my issue was whether or not I should leave my parents' house in FL & move to NY on my own. I have since decided to go back to NY & finally got an interview set up for next week. I had told them a few weeks ago that I was going to begin looking for jobs in NY & then today I broke the news about the interview to them. My mom took it fairly well, but my father flipped out. I understand he's upset that I'm growing up & moving on with my life, but in my opinion he crossed the line. He came into my room telling me that he hates my b/f (a guy that he loved before this point) & told me that I allow my b/f to walk all over me & that my b/f doesn't love me. My father is under the impression that I'm moving for my b/f & not for myself, but this is not the case. I'm confused now b/c my father is unhappy & I can't even be happy about my decision to move. Can I please just get some feeback on this?

2007-11-26 11:25:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I stopped talking to my mother, step father, sister and brother because of child abuse issues and dysfunctional family issues. They befriended my husband's ex-wife and the ex-wife now takes my step-children to their house to visit them. This is all just to make me mad, which it doesn't, but I'm concerned for my step children. I told the ex-wife about the child abuse, but she says she is with them the whole time. My step children know that I don't have a relationship with my family, so I can't imagine how confused they must be. I'm very careful about what to say to them since they are only 7 & 8. Basically my family (psychos) and the ex-wife have NO problem telling children things they shouldn't know which includes bad mouthing me and my husband. The ex-wife even has them lying to their father about seeing my family. I'm considering either getting a restraining order or filing charges against my family for the abuse. What would you do if you were in this situation?

2007-11-26 11:24:17 · 7 answers · asked by Jesse James 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it really possible to find your true love on the computer?? I mean i just dont think it is.. Especially if you have never seen them in person ya know?

I also need someone is gonna be there to listen when i have problems.. michiganprincess711@yahoo.com
add me if thats you..please and thanks

2007-11-26 11:23:45 · 3 answers · asked by lennie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im in love with my ex im married but i only married him to have someone to see if i can get over my ex he was my first for everything and i want him back but hes married how can i break him up from his wife and let my husband down easy.

2007-11-26 11:22:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I'm not exactily a nudist because I don't live in a colony, but I don't like to wear clothes at home. I feel like one of those dogs forced to wear a sweater.

I only like to wear clothes outside the house and when we have company. I wouldn't care to be naked with company over but they would get unconfortable.

I don't care if my mom, dad, and brother see me at all. But my dad told me that he doesn't want me being naked outside of my room anymore.

Any thoughts?

2007-11-26 11:21:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family