Son is living with girl friend. They are in late 30s. Son raised in loving home, we the parents don't understand? This woman beats on him. Hits him with things. He has gone to hosp her to jail. She attacks him in public his other girl friends have done same. He is 6ft tall weighs in at 200lbs goodlooking and has a great business making plenty of money. What is missing?
We are afraid of this woman. maybe bi-polar
2007-11-26 11:34:13 · 7 answers · asked by muggs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What makes your son pick the same kind of women... sound like he is attractive to abusive women... the bad girl thing..... women do the same thing with men.... it like a love and hate thing... sort of forplay for these couples... I pray your son will get out before she really hurts him.... she sounds like she has some unresolves problems...see if you can get your son to see a doctor who can get him the help he needs... before it to late....I'm a mother too... I understand your pain...Good Luck!!!
2007-11-26 11:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like a reverse spousal abuse situation. The easy answer is for your son to get his own place since you say he makes alot of money. But it appears that wont change much other than how often he gets hit.Your son must have a high tolerance level because im surprised he hasnt attacked her or sent another woman to do the same. Unfortunately he is in the same twists that abused women are in and until he SEES that she isnt for him. It will continue. Second, we dont know her side of the story. Why would she attack him? If shes bi-polar then ok understood, but i hope he didnt cause it. Second, If previous girlfriends have done the same then it may be that he is weak minded in thinking and a "nice guy:" So much to the point that women use him and beat him. Im not going to say he had to do something for them to do that because i dont know. But as the parent you can find out from him. Watch his behavior and the behavior of his woman. It will tell you alot about who he is. Lastly, you stated that you had him in a loving home which detects that he was loved, but what did you teach him while growing up? What are his attitudes about women? Or what were they then and how are they now? How did he act around girls growing up? All these things will help answer your question. Godd luck, i really hope there is a solution to his problem.
2007-11-26 19:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her. This is your son, you have a moral responsibility to protect his safety. Tell her that you are aware of her behavior and that you will not tolerate it any longer. Let her know that if you become aware of any further abuse, you will call the authorities. Then make sure you back up your threat with action (if it is needed - and hopefully it will not be).
This woman will continue to harm your son until she is stopped. If your son is unable to stop her, it is up to you.
2007-11-26 19:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Norbit like situation. You can't really help someone until they are ready to be helped. Possibly he is getting ran over by these women because he his too much of a nice guy. When he has had enough, he'll seek your help then you can find him the professional help he needs.
2007-11-26 19:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he is a little intimidated by women that are aggressive. you can talk to him until you turn blue and he won't hear you. one day he will get tired of it and put a stop to the whole thing. give him a little time.
2007-11-26 19:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son need to stop this,as long as he let her do this she will.
2007-11-26 19:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Red M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaaaa what a family of pusssy's lmao....u and your son need to grow a pair
2007-11-26 19:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋