how do you treat women like crap?

Question

i'm wanting to know how do you treat women like crap. all my life i've been told by women that i'm too nice and get turned down because of that. i'm a shy guy in general, who's nice and sweet, but i'm getting tired of being the nice and sweet guy, cause it gets you no where with women. I've been listening to this talk show guy by the name of Tom Leykis and it sounds as though he know's what he's talking about. He says that women don't go for nice guys. Instead they like jerks who treat them like crap. So I'd like to know how do you treat women like crap? I've been nice and sweet to women my whole life and never treated a woman like crap ever, so how do I go about doing this. I get lonely at times in my apartment and I'd really like to have a girl friend. Hanging around my friends gets old after awihle and I'd really like to have a companion by my side.

Answer 1

Don't. That's retarded...
That kind of relationship won't last long anyway...

Answer 2

Don't start treating women bad, because then you will only attract women with low self esteem and you'll still be miserable, having to always boost her self esteem before you can truly have a rewarding relationship with her. There are alot of girls out there that are looking for a nice guy like you, ME being one of them, so where you stay at? I'm just kidding Lol! No but really, you just haven't met THE girl for you yet. Don't change your personality for anyone, just because some guy on t.v put all women in a box. ALL women don't want bad boys, trust me. Best wishes!

-Knowledge24

Answer 3

Don't listen to that crap. Before I married my husband, I had several relationships...and couldn't find someone who DIDN'T treat me like crap. The reason there is the misconception that women want to be treated like crap is because THOSE guys are the big talkers. Nice guys don't 'do' the overly macho, show-offy thing, so they don't stand out as much. When all you see is guys who are jerks...you tend to go for the lesser of the evils and take a guy who only treats you KIND OF like crap. Believe me, women DEFINITELY want a nice guy! I found one and I'm holding on to this one!

Answer 4

Treating Women Like Crap Won't Help You.They Are Trying To Let You Down Easily.Nyways,Women Don't Really Like Guys That Treat Them, Like Crap.They Like Guys That Treat Them With Respect:)

Answer 5

First off your method does work, but only on young women. I.E. High School/College Women (of course not all). Realize as they grow older they learn through their experiences with bad boys that they are not someone to grow old with.

My point? Just be yourself. Sounds like you could take a step back from the niceness but treating a woman like crap is going over board. It's likely you are saying things because you think she would want to hear that response. Be yourself. Girls do like someone who will stimulate their mind with an intellectual debate now and again, and if you agree with everything you say you would be seen as a push-over and not exciting.

Answer 6

hehe you don't treat them like crap nessicerily.

you act like your time is important. makes them think you're important.

when you're indroducing yourself at a party make sure your first conversation with them is short. go up to them with a quick introduction (hi I"m...) and make sure to throw out a complement. wow that shirt looks great. your hair looks amazing. them leave and make sure you have an important reason to. THis will confuse the hell out of a girl. they don't get to find out if you're totally interested and it turns the table on them. then they have to find you. if they're interested, if a girl isn't interested in you within the first 30 seconds they just aren't interested. but then you have the power if they bite.

dress nice and be POSITIVE!. but act natural. this is the place wherer most guys mess up. never mention negatives. it's a general rule for ever 1 nagative thing you say you'll need 3 possitive things to counter balance. and a good thing to do is to turn any negative thing into a positive joke.

and yes acting like an a s s will sometimes get you somewhere with women but you have to act like theres some good inside of you that they can contort out of you. women love being maniplative. This card is for the hook up only don't play this card if you're going for the long term or you'll have to act like an a s s hole the rest of your life.... on second thought do it.

but alwayts be natural. don't lie that's just low. but bluffing is ok

you sound like a cool guy so you should get a girl in no time.

Answer 7

First of all, no offense, but that is the stupidest reasoning behind this. Secondly, do not listen to that pig Tom Leykis, because he has no idea what the heck he is talking about. Women look for guys like you that are nice and sweet, it's hard to find guys like you! You just need to be a little more forward with them. Not perverted forward, make it known to them that you are interested in them. It just sounds like you need more exposure. Go out to clubs with your friends, check out girls, make sure you make the first move.

And whatever you do, DO NOT treat them like crap. Or they will probably kick your butt. I know I would.

Answer 8

No it doesn't matter who says what about you it is reallyy how u feel and you should stay true to who u reall are . Just because you treat ladies with respect does not mean you are too nice, it just means you are kind and a good person. Stay true to who you are and one day a girl will come along and like you for being nice, not mean, take advice from a man who has been through that.

Answer 9

Lol, perhaps you should have rephrased your question but the answer is easy. They dont want to be treated like crap per say, but want men who are different. Nice guys such as youself and jerks say the same thing at different extremes. They dont want a jerk or nice guy. Instead they want a man with confidence in himself and someone who doesnt take himself too seriously. How can you do that? One way is by learning to not care about rejection or not being affected inspite of what a woman says to you. YES, i know hard to do for us men, but rejection is a part of life and we must accept it. The next step is the use of arrogant humor. It makes you appear like an asshole at times but you are in no way an asshole and women who get where your coming from know you arent being an asshole. You are simply being cocky and funny. Which means to take a statement and twist it so that it is funny to both you and her. Its easy to exercise this on a woman but you do it every so often when you converse with them. You for example DONT go up to a woman, talk to her for a minute or two and then say, YOURE A B**ch and expect her to fall for you. Lol, dont ever do that. Instead this is what you do. (The scenario is you both are outside, its cold and you have a jacket on while she doesnt have one on)

HER: Man im cold. It's so cold out here!

YOU: (smile and look dead at her when you say this)
Yeah id let you wear my jacket, but im cold!

Another example is to watch a womans behavioral patterns (ie her habbits) and tease her for it. Using a real example, a cute friend of mine Burps, and she burps like a man. One day she decided to burp after downing a budlight and i made a face that suggested i was going to die because of the smell. All i said was "man what the hell did you eat"? At first she made a face like, "no you didnt embarass me, but she immediately started laughing and so did her friends. Also your own body language helps when stating these comments because it emphasizes what you mean. Me making a face along with what i said made everyone including her laugh.

There are many examples of cocky and funny (c/f) but that was just a couple of examples. The nice guy stuff you learned you use when you are already in a relationship. I have alot to say on this but its too much for me to say in words, you have to see it and hear it. If you want to know more, hit me up and ill give you the rest of the information. It really will help you look at women, let alone dating differently.

Answer 10

If you'd treat me like crap I'd throw you out on the street. Stay sweet and nice. You could play hard to get. I'd go for that. But jerks are stupid and will get coke poured on their head just like in the movies.

Answer 11

Brother, I feel your pain! I too have been in the situation as you for years. The only thing I can say is, the women that go after guys that treat them like crap, are not the type of women you should be dating. These women have esteem problems and you should want no part of them.