Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

4months ago me & my husband had a heated arguement( i have no idea what it was about, it was that petty).my husband walked out on a weds night & didnt come home,i rang him worried and he told me he was at his mums.then 3 days later i see my mother inlaw in town and she blanks me and her 2 grandaughters,i was really un happy about this as we always had a close relationship and i would always be recieving phone calls from her to see how i and the children was,but nothing!when i spoke to my husband i asked him what he had said to make her behave this way,he promised all he told his family was that we argued thats it,so she had done it through spite,come sunday my husband was back & we was 100%happy again,but still no phone call from mum inlaw,then i was told by a friend the my bro inlaws girlfriend had been calling me & saying that the rest of the family had been calling me to,i dont know what i had done to deserve this,i still havnt spoke to them,x-mas is comin do i need to sort this????

2007-11-26 10:53:29 · 13 answers · asked by me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They don't want me to arrive home after midnight and when I do, they try to punish me (locking me out of the house, threatening to stop supporting me with school, etc.) I'm completely sober and they know this, but they just refuse to allow me to grow.

2007-11-26 10:53:17 · 17 answers · asked by Hello There 2 in Family

2007-11-26 10:52:31 · 2 answers · asked by anomonous 1 in Singles & Dating

Imagine if a guy you had a crush walked up to you tommorow out of the blue. What would you want him to say?

2007-11-26 10:52:25 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlsgrandmother took over custody of our daughter while i was going through some legaal troubles but now she wants to adopt her... her reasoning is because she wants her to be near family but i know that to be false she underminded me being the father before my daughter was born and shes sick in the head i mean i now have a son also and a comment she made was that it loked like her son...?he's white shes not blood to me or her daughter i just felt it was her trying to attach herself to my family...what do you think

2007-11-26 10:52:08 · 2 answers · asked by ~Native Solider~! 4 in Family

Okay, hopefully this isnt confusing

my best friend danielle got a new friend....kayla who happens to be REALLY MEAN. not to be cocky, but she's jealous of our friendship...and is trying to get danielle to not like me anymore. how i know this is my other friend kaitlyn told me that she said this.danielle gives into whatever kayla says. i love danielle to death and i dont want kayla to mess up me and danielle's friendship. what do i do?

2007-11-26 10:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so this guy ive known for awhile is about 5'9" black hair his eyes look like the ocean and he dresses like a gangster even though he does stupid **** he isnt one. and then there is my sister-in-laws brother who is 20 6 ft blonde and in the navy ive known this guy since i was 7 and saturday he was home and we kissed several times and that has never happened before and i dont know im soooooo confused i really like him. ( im 16 almost 17) my parents said i cant date him until im 18 and the other guy is 16 i dont know what to do what do you think?

2007-11-26 10:51:04 · 7 answers · asked by dance girl 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so my "boyfriend" (we've dated on & off for 4 years) asked me if i would be okay if we started trying to get me pregnant, which i would love because everyone tells us we make the most beautiful couple & how lucky i am to be his girlfriend. we're actually very compatible and can't wait to get married & there's nothing more i could ask for. but the problem is we're only 18 & i'm going away to college soon & i don't know how to tell him we should wait or IF we should wait, because a baby would make our relationship so much better, but i'd have more trouble focusing in college. please tell me what i should do, & what i should say to him!!!

2007-11-26 10:50:51 · 8 answers · asked by Sweetheart <3 2 in Singles & Dating

i need reasons y not 2 banned smokin(its for homework) plz help im in desprete need right now

2007-11-26 10:50:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been divorced for 4 years and my ex-husband is on my mind constantly. I've dated and have been in a serious relationship but I still think of my ex and wish we were still together. Any help??

2007-11-26 10:50:09 · 14 answers · asked by oorah_83 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 10:49:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a dilema, so please be honest. I work for Victorias Secret, I'm in the research and design department. I bet some of you ladies are wearing some of the bras and panties I helped design. :)

Anyway, how can I keep a girlfriend when I let her know that I work at Victorias Secret. I dont sleep with the models or anything like that, but usually when I let a girl know that I am seeing. That I work there then they get really jealous and leave.

I do a lot of traveling as well, fashion shoots, fashion shows, etc..

I'm 6'1 235 Latino, green eyes. Athletic built

2007-11-26 10:48:33 · 17 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

im dating this wonderful man for about 2 months, im having a real hard time letting my gaurd down and being able to really trust him. iv known his for about 5 years but im getting to know him on a whole NEW level. in a way i feel i can trust him, but then again i think in the back of my head "he is still a guy and most guys are dogs" which is true for the most part.. im just really confused and dont know what to do about it.. any advice???? plase let me know

2007-11-26 10:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She got her phone taken away and I didnt know it, so I texted her. Then I got a text from her phone ( But the principal had it) and it said "This is Mr. Vessey.") Is that like an invasion of her privacy or can he do it? My friend is like feaking out cuz of it. She thinks he was looking through her phone.

2007-11-26 10:45:54 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 3 in Friends

recently i've jus started to have sex for the 1st time w/ a girl...she enjoys when i please her orally..but i find the taste uncomfortable and not so pleasing myself... is there a specific angle or something i can use to change the taste 4 me?

2007-11-26 10:45:48 · 11 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

the friends at church are so 2 faced they are so mean. this girl named nastalgia wants to be in my face when nobodys at church, kristyne nothing wrongs with her, deaundria i don't like her she has a bad attitude, chelsea she just think she all that but the main one i dont like is deaundria me and her get into alot of fights and we can't control it what should i do

2007-11-26 10:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by d_nemley 2 in Friends

there's a men fell for his going to be 58 married and im 18
i used to like teachers when i was in elementary school and i liked about 4 or more guys in my age
basically i fell for way older men than me
i like charismatic appearance and great sense of humour and superior intelligence
well i don't look forward to appearance that much it seems that intelligent people come with the strong look anyways
i also like older professors because they're intelligent
the guy im obsessed with is a well experienced surgeon and he has attractive eyes and attractive overall, you know what i mean
am i weird for asking this question?
i need to know if there's something wrong with me
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i become obsessed with any guy that i find attractive and be obsessived for a while regardless of age
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i grew up in a warm, stable environment of loving family and have a great, humourous father
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is it bcuz i got hit n scorned by mom wen i was around 4?
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i keep this things only to myself n u guys
im intelligent enough not to create any catastrophes
i just fantasize them, but in reality im awfully afraid to marry or date a man who has a 5 year or more any difference with me
this set age difference for my future man might change, however there is a definite and infinate line between reality and dream
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im not looking 4 protection or anything i just find this guy super attractive

2007-11-26 10:43:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's not in any of my classes but I see him in the halls. He has a girlfriend and I really like him. I don't want to break them up. But, I want him to notice me just in case they do ever break up. I like him a lot! Is there anyway I can get him to notice me?

2007-11-26 10:41:30 · 3 answers · asked by Amber Lynn <3 3 in Singles & Dating

for Sunday roast?

2007-11-26 10:39:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was my best friend and she did something really mean to me and I cant write it or talk to anyone about it. I just hate her so much! How do I get back at her

About her:
She is beautiful, used to be my best friend, is POPULAR, doesnt have a boyfriend, and isnt easy to embarrase.

I dont want to hurt her physiclly, I would never want to hurt any one like that. I just want to hurt her emotionaly. What do I do? And I know I really want to get back at her.

2007-11-26 10:39:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-26 10:38:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was wondering if anyone knew some good sites for getting a mail order bride, one from asia. Also could someone give me some info on how the system works and how one would go about getting these mail order brides. Thanks

2007-11-26 10:37:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm not sure if I should ask her out... because it seems like we both get nervous around each other.

Any tips?

Also if we do go out any tips on where we could go? (we're both only 16)

Thanks you... 10 points for best answer

2007-11-26 10:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm super girly..luv makeup,boys and shopping and long hair.

my friend cammie short hair, sweatshirt and cargo pants, only likes 1 guy but hates to admit it.

what do we do?

i live next to a store if that helps.

2007-11-26 10:36:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-26 10:36:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a guy dose pre *** can he feel him self do it?

2007-11-26 10:36:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where can I meet new people online to be friends with? Myspace and Facebook seem to be the frontrunners but it's highly impersonal, everyone is too busy trying to have the highest friend list and no-one ever replies to messages.

is there a more one-on-one website where I can meet people without having to compete with countless social networking whores?

2007-11-26 10:35:33 · 4 answers · asked by TedRoy 5 in Friends

Hey i'm 13, and i'm not sure if i like girls. I have no idea. Is this normal not to know at this age?

2007-11-26 10:31:49 · 15 answers · asked by Whatupdawg 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you advise parents to stick it out for the children?

2007-11-26 10:31:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 7 year old brother.
15 year old brother.
11 year old brother.
step mom thats kinda... around 40.
dad around 40.
step sister around 20 something.
my brother's friend thats 16.

Im 13 and turning 14 and i have about 300 dollars. I do this every year. I also have to have about some money to buy clothes for the winter and i shop at hollister and abercombie and fitch also aeropostale and i have to buy boots. I don't know what i should get for the people above and for myself. I don't exspect anyone to buy me anything but if i don't buy anything then i feel like i let everyone down. I also work as a nail person and all the people above are asian if that helps. I need something thats not to much money. But also cool to and not like those action figures and stuff. Something that they'll play for a long time and for others something that they'll uses for a long time and love.

2007-11-26 10:31:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family