Hey i'm 13, and i'm not sure if i like girls. I have no idea. Is this normal not to know at this age?
2007-11-26 10:31:49 · 15 answers · asked by Whatupdawg 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its OK to question, just don't make any final decisions until you know for sure.
2007-11-26 10:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you see going on, and what you hear going on in relation to sexuality can be confusing. It can steer you in the wrong way seeing a lady kissing a lady, a guy holding hands with guy, or Mom & Dad saying it's gotta be boy & girl combo only. And at your age, you are getting those hormonial emotions too. It IS TOTALLY NORMAL for you to not know which way to lean. Take your time, be friends with both sexes, and let your body and soul tell you when you're a little older. (If it gets too confusing, get a diary or journal and put your thoughts down to help sort out later.)
2007-11-26 18:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by njunprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that by now u probably don't have it all figured out but dude u should know if ur attracted to girls r not. it's all in the way u look at people and stuff like that. by being only 13 u should down and talk to ur parents about this situation and mayb they can figure something out with u.
2007-11-26 18:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by naughtygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a lot of bad things on t.v. Try not to let that influence you .You are too young for a big romance just focus on friends and school.Relationships will come naturally when you get older.I wish you luck and hope I helped:)
2007-11-26 18:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its normal to question your sexuality at that age
but to be honest, web pages like this will just further confuse you. i suggest going to speak to a counsellor at school and see what they have to say
the fact that you are questioning it does raise a red flag....it could be that you are straight and just wondering if u find girls attractive or you might be bi or gay or something
have u ever felt this way before???
2007-11-26 18:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm 16 and Ifelt the same way about guys at your age.
2007-11-26 18:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jordan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..13 is a tough and dirty age.
you will deifnately know a few years later, like by the time ur 16-17. u'll know for sure...
just stick to liking guys for now and see how it goes
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2007-11-26 18:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm dealing with the same thing you are, and I thought I was alone. :\ At least I know I'm not now.
Anyways, I guess there is no real way of telling until you're older.
2007-11-26 18:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the hormones messing with you I thought I was a lesbian but then I really know im straight
2007-11-26 18:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn off the television, too many lesbo influences there. You are starting to grow.. lots of weird hormones and **** flowing around your body. Don't make a decision that harsh too early.
2007-11-26 18:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by cosnipa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋