Mail Order Brides?

Question

I was wondering if anyone knew some good sites for getting a mail order bride, one from asia. Also could someone give me some info on how the system works and how one would go about getting these mail order brides. Thanks

Answer 1

No such thing in the USA, anymore.

As of about 2001, it takes 1-2 years to get a visa for a woman AFTER you meet her in person. Then, when she gets to the USA, if she "dumps" you during the first 3 years, she gets sent home. Even if she divorces the guy, and marries another one, she still has to go home and wait that 1-2 years to get another visa to return.

Contrary to what some tell you, she does NOT become a citizen by simply marring a US citizen. She has to wait 3 years, and then APPLY and pass the tests like everyone else.

Answer 2

First, let me tell you..I live in Florida (Northeastern)

And Florida is known for Asians..I'm half myself...it's that bad here..LOL

Why get a mail order bride.....there is a local place on the outskirts of the city (this is a military town) whereas if you go on a Friday Night....(it;'s called 57 Heaven) there is over 100 Asian women (most of relatives visiting from overseas) and those women sit alone all night and stay with their friends or family...(it's an innocent place where they talk or dance and have fun) But, you can go there on a Friday night and save all the money from having to go overseas or gather paperwork for Visa, etc...and right here in your own country?

My man never dated an Asian woman prior to me.

He has never been with a women who didn't cheat, lie and steal from him...he never had a women who cooked for him every single night....he never had a woman who is diligent and acts accordingly. I give (my upbringing) and give and give...he wakes up to coffee and orange juice at his bedside and at night I prepare dinner the old fashioned way with desert afterwards. I keep the house immaculate. I also, work and help pay the bills accordingly..(I never expect a free ride) I helped him start a savings that has grown and grown..I sat with him about retirement and planning. He says "my life has completely changed 360 degrees since you came along." It;s for the better!

Half Asian, I take pride in the things I do, because I know he appreciates everything I touch....he loves his Asian woman.

Answer 3

My sister-in-law is a mail order bride and we are very happy to have her as part of the family. I think she is very happy also. Check the sites and find out from the Better Business how their rep is. Good luck.

Answer 4

Umm I agree... "seriously wow" I don't know where you live but certainly there are enough people in the area that you would click with. I personally think mail order brides are something that is way outdated and kinda tacky (yeh I'll probably get a low rating but I don't care). I mean really... come on!

Answer 5

I hope you have nice intentions b/c many of the women involved are really hoping for a better life, not one of abuse, sex slave, servitude.
Ofcourse you could be the one getting burned too so take care if you are going to do it. I guess like all things, sometimes it does work out. Good luck and sorry, i dont know any sites to offer or recommend.
Wouldnt it be better if you went to the country, learn something about their culture, language and meet someone there and have love be involved?

Answer 6

Be wary - the product may not match the advertising.
This is little more than prostitution, since the women who would enter such an arrangement are usually so desperate for money or freedom that they are selling themselves to these companies, who in turn sell the bride to you.

Besides, what does it say about you that you couldn't convince a woman to marry you on your own merits, but instead had to bribe one with money and citizenship?

Think it over, dude.

Answer 7

I seriously would not suggest that to anyone. Most of those brides just want a ticket out of their country to escape government/poverty, and once they get here they take off. I know one guy who paid for his bride and she never came. All that money out of the window instantly. It's better to marry someone who loves you, not your country or your money.

Answer 8

I looked up your previous questions asked. You are the one who thinks he has lip herpes. That explains a lot. You can't get a woman on your own merit because you are a diseased and strange person (not a put down...just the truth). Nobody that is normal would ask about something like you have.

Answer 9

Not only am I fairly sure this is illigal, I'm pretty sure that anyone desperate enough to get a mail order wife should start seeing a psychiatrist immediately.

Answer 10

Had a guy at work, get into something like that. It was Russian brides. He went over to russia and met her. In fact, he went twice. He also paid her way over here, and her 2 kids also. Once she got her citizenship, she took off with the kids, the car, and met up with her husband that she got over here. He wound up putting out over $22K dollars, not counting the car.

Personally, I think he was set up by her.

If you go that way, then good luck to you.