the friends at church are so 2 faced they are so mean. this girl named nastalgia wants to be in my face when nobodys at church, kristyne nothing wrongs with her, deaundria i don't like her she has a bad attitude, chelsea she just think she all that but the main one i dont like is deaundria me and her get into alot of fights and we can't control it what should i do
2007-11-26 10:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by d_nemley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honestly, if someone wants to treat their "friends" that way then they really aren't friends.
You seem sweet and you seem as if you don't deserve this treatment.
I think what would be great for you is to find new, great and awesome friends that make you feel good about yourself (because that is what friends are supposed to do) and you should invite your new friends to your church.
You'll be a happier person if you find people that you can be comfortable around.
Good luck!
2007-11-26 10:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh... those are not friends.
At least they are "playing church"... at some point some of the gospel might sink in.
You need to move on and find new and more mature friends.
Listen... you need to get a little something down. There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.
2007-11-26 18:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confess your sins to God. Your 'friends' are not the only ones who need attitude adjustments.
Forgive them for being such incredible lowlife jerks and find new friends. Dont hang around them or you'll become just like them.
2007-11-26 18:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and stop being so judgmental. I thought you were a christian. you girls give being a christian a bad name your all stuck up little hypocrites.
2007-11-26 18:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are friends? friends are people you think are your friends but they are really your enemies with secret identities to hide they colors.
2007-11-26 18:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋